Does anyone know anything good on the market for ED . I am not talking about Viagra , Cialis etc.
I have notice my sex drive is declining ( I'm 38 ), in my mind I want sex all the time but often when I am having sex it feels like im exercising . Getting to cum is becoming more difficult
It seems to happen as we get older, and I would advise to simply try to enjoy the benefits of being able to last longer.
The thing I have found as I get older is that I seem to have less and less sensitivity condoms make it very difficult to cum, Especially when I have sex more than once or twice in any given day. BBBJ or a HJ finish seems to do the trick most of the time, or I end up pounding away for an hour or more to no avail, which won't make you too popular with hookers.
Don't worry, you can't "wear it out" trust me I've tried. lol
Do you do at least 15 minuets of vigorous exercise/day?
How's your Vitamin D level? Get checked for that.
Try more fruits and veggies and less sugary and fatty food.
Give ginseng a shot. There's a reason China has so many people.
These have all done the trick for me and I'm in my sixties, and still going strong.
Posted By: statson1234
Hey guys !
Does anyone know anything good on the market for ED . I am not talking about Viagra , Cialis etc.
I have notice my sex drive is declining ( I'm 38 ), in my mind I want sex all the time but often when I am having sex it feels like im exercising . Getting to cum is becoming more difficult
Do you do at least 15 minuets of vigorous exercise/day?
How's your Vitamin D level? Get checked for that.
Try more fruits and veggies and less sugary and fatty food.
Give ginseng a shot. There's a reason China has so many people.
These have all done the trick for me and I'm in my sixties, and still going strong.
Posted By: statson1234
Hey guys !
Does anyone know anything good on the market for ED . I am not talking about Viagra , Cialis etc.
I have notice my sex drive is declining ( I'm 38 ), in my mind I want sex all the time but often when I am having sex it feels like im exercising . Getting to cum is becoming more difficult
a big culprit for low libido could be traced to gaining weight. At 38 you are still a young man. However, if you are obese, you will find ALL forms of exercise difficult to complete and sex falls into that too. Obviously, I don't know anything about you, but if you are not suffering from a some medical condition or stress, then you might look to change things in your lifestyle.
a big culprit for low libido could be traced to gaining weight. At 38 you are still a young man. However, if you are obese, you will find ALL forms of exercise difficult to complete and sex falls into that too. Obviously, I don't know anything about you, but if you are not suffering from a some medical condition or stress, then you might look to change things in your lifestyle.
My bill is in the mail.
I have spent every one of my 50 years struggling with my weight. From the days of being the chubby kid in the elementary school class photos until today. About 5 years ago I lost my job and my health insurance and drove a taxi to survive. My weight ballooned up to 400+ and my blood pressure went completely haywire and I lost all function "down there."
Fast forward to Christmas 2014, a very good job and healh care renewed and I decided it was time to do something drastic. I signed on to the Bariatric program at the local hospital and put myself on a for real diet. Lost almost 50 pounds by the date of my surgery in early August.
About a week after surgery I dropped my blood pressure meds when, after cutting the damned pills in half, I passed out.
A week after that things "down there" suddenly and shockingly woke up. Like going through a second puberty at age 50.
That's the day I contacted my first ever provider.
I have now lost a total of 90+ pounds, feel amazing, and see a girl once a week for an hour, making up for 5 years of lost time.
I suffer from PTSD after 4 tours in Iraq and losing my left arm on the last. Ever since the last tour, I've had ED problems/intimacy problems and the doctors just keep prescribing every ED pill they make. I told them at the VA that I didn't like the side effects but the the doctor responded that he was my doctor and not my sex therapist. The pills are supposed to take care of the physical problem but doesn't solve/fix the mental problems. So recently I've tried to hobby without "the pill" and usually end up just performing oral and cuddling with the woman. What I'm trying to say is that it may not be a physical problem but a mental problem also. Good luck!
Your grip is pretty damn strong, and while your pecker won't get callouses, it does get accustomed to certain pressure. Instead of masturbating with Rosie Palm, try a toy like a Fleshlight or similar (with lots of lube). Let your nerve endings recalibrate. Will take a while though, so don't expect an overnight miracle.
And yes, being overweight really does impact you in the bedroom. That's a battle I'm fighting but at least there's a really sweet light at the end of THAT tunnel!
Coming (cumming) from someone who will never experience ED, but who has had the pleasure of getting to know men with various degrees of "dysfunction" (I hate to call it that), I would echo much of the advice above- see a doctor to eliminate the possibility of an underlying issue, drink water, take your vitamins, etc. But also:
Maybe there's generally too much focus put on the single, monolithic ejaculatory male orgasm. Maybe this is an opportunity to explore other ways of fucking that don't neccessarily rely on one big pop as their highlight. The brain is the biggest sexual organ, after all...or maybe that's the skin? In any case, given the right mindset, the whole body can become erogenous. Crazy, mind bending arousal and hyper stimulation needn't be accompanied by a rock hard dick and P in V needn't be the end all be all. And who knows, maybe reframing your expectations will reduce your own internalized pressure to perform and you'll start going off like a garden hose again.
This all seems very vague and airy fairy on (figurative) paper, but in practice I've found a more holistic approach to what constitutes "fucking" to be extremely effective and pleasurable in all cases, not just when there's some percieved deficiency.
Zactly. I care less and less for my brief climax and more and more for soaking in the entire experience - from that kiss that is to die for, to the smells, tastes, visuals, embraces, nibbles, laughs, strokes, pinches, the whole guacamole. Sexuality is a journey, not a destination.
It's great in this situation if the escort has a positive attitude.
If I counted every no-pop session as a failure I'd have given up on P4P by now. I have no plan to give up! Lol
I've dealt with ED or ejaculation difficulties in majority of my P4P sessions so far, and it's been very helpful for me to focus less on the "outcome" and more on simply experiencing the pleasures of the flesh with a beautiful woman.
You need to have a hormone panel done. We all lose hormone production... you may be losing it a little early in life. It's also possible your stress level is effecting you. Money troubles, home life troubles can kill a boner fast.
Many meds will lower your Testosterone. Find a Endocrinologist rather than your family Dr. to treat you. Your blood needs to be monitored carefully by someone who is up to date on low T, and many family Dr's will just push you to try Testosterone "gel" and call it a day, but it's far more complicated than that. Good luck.
Posted By: LillianWest
You need to have a hormone panel done. We all lose hormone production... you may be losing it a little early in life. It's also possible your stress level is effecting you. Money troubles, home life troubles can kill a boner fast.
It could very well be a short term issue of stress or something else that will pass on it's own.
I had this happen to me in my early forties where I actually had "equipment failure" with a couple of very hot women for no apparent reason. It scared the dogcrap out of me. I went to the doctor, got checked out completely, he found nothing wrong with me, gave me a "test prescription" for V, just for a bit of confidence, and sent me on my way. I hated the Viagra as all it seemed to do for me was make me flushed and give me a headache, but I tried it a couple of times, got my mo jo back and to this day well over a decade later I still don't know what caused it, but it's a thing in the past and I haven't had an issue since.
I know most people and most doctors immediately want to start medicating as a pill is supposed to fix everything in our lives, but it's often unnecessary, and who wants to be taking med they really don't need?
Does anyone know anything good on the market for ED . I am not talking about Viagra , Cialis etc.
I have notice my sex drive is declining ( I'm 38 ), in my mind I want sex all the time but often when I am having sex it feels like im exercising . Getting to cum is becoming more difficult
Does anyone know anything good on the market for ED . I am not talking about Viagra , Cialis etc.
I have notice my sex drive is declining ( I'm 38 ), in my mind I want sex all the time but often when I am having sex it feels like im exercising . Getting to cum is becoming more difficult
So , lets talk about this taboo subject boys
Sounds more mental than physical to me pal. Your sex drive is declining at age 38 although in your mind you want it all the time, but when you do it, if feels mechanical and you have a hard time coming? Doesn't sound like erectile dysfunction to me. Sounds to me like your body's fine but you aren't getting the kind of sex your mind is craving.
Take that as free psychiatric advice from a computer programmer and consider that he could be completely full of shit but it sounds to me like you are repressing what you really want in sex
How often do you watch porn and masturbate? Could it be porn-induced erectile dysfunction (PIED)? I am in my 30's and only discovered I had PIED after seeing providers. Once I completely quit porn and masturbating, my ED is totally gone. Check out NoFap or yourbrainonporn.com.
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