San Diego

I must be missing all these posts about ladies struggling...
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I must be missing all these posts about ladies struggling... Because I see no posts anywhere for the SD area that would suggest a provider needed some dude to message her with unsolicited advice.

Any guy who contacts a provider regarding her rate is a rude in my opinion - plain and simple.

Anyone here remember when I came in as Goldie? Anyone?
Well here is a reminder: NOT ONE PROVIDER WAS ASKING OVER 500 HOURLY IN SAN DIEGO BEFORE THAT. And only a handful in LA were asking more than 500 with the exception of porn stars and legit models.
And how many now? And how many guys do you think messaged me either telling me I won't get that rate or that it's too high or that the market in SD won't be agreeable to that donation or every other excuse in the book to try and bully my rates down. That was in 2012. I have not lowered my rate since (with the exception of special offers of course) and am even considering raising my rate or minimum booking time. I even doubled my minimum booking rate for a while to be more exclusive to a special lover while my longer date rate was the same.  

 
Bottom line: just mind your own business when it comes to rate.
Discussing rates is a turn off for us firstly as well as it making you appear to not appreciate our value.
We may not be "worth" the rate to you but that doesn't mean we welcome your input on such matters.

 
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Posted By: StayBeautiful
We always appreciate any advice to help boost our business, especially, if it is slow. With the proper tone:)

I've  noticed several touring ladies posting ads at some pretty  high rates. Wonder how they will do. We have excellent local talent at a fraction of what some of these ladies are asking.

in SoCal and Vegas suggesting that business might be slow at the rates they are posting.  Most were receptive and wanted suggestions as to what price point might be best in each market.  I suggested they also inquire on the Providers Only board.

The gals on Backpage for SD are the best looking I have seen in the country.  I just never use Backpage unless they have reviews somewhere.  Do you guys use it often?

BP is a good place to look at as a resource. Photo's are usually posted as part of the add. But I would never date anyone there unless you find reviews here or someplace else.

By the way, does anyone know why TER stopped accepting BP as a provider add?

That's balsy. Surprised you didnt get ripped a new one.

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
in SoCal and Vegas suggesting that business might be slow at the rates they are posting.  Most were receptive and wanted suggestions as to what price point might be best in each market.  I suggested they also inquire on the Providers Only board.  

The one thing ladies dont want to hear from a hobbiest is that her rates are too high.  Bad form bro.  It is what it is, move on.

When you saw an ad for a provider that was higher than what you want to donate  was to simply move on. I would never  send a PM like that  

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
in SoCal and Vegas suggesting that business might be slow at the rates they are posting.  Most were receptive and wanted suggestions as to what price point might be best in each market.  I suggested they also inquire on the Providers Only board.  

Totally agree hh. What they choose to ask is their business IMHO.

the "Jump to Conclusions" Board.  I would never INITIATE such a conversation, but when a visiting girl posts something like, "Is it slow for everyone right now or is it just me?"  or "I'm visiting and not sure if I'm advertising in the right place" it is often because they are a NY or DC girl trying to bring their East coast rates to the West coast.  I would also never comment publicly about a specific girl's rates, so I PM and share a little of my inner marketing genius with then.  90% have been positive and effusive  with their appreciation.  Recently had a visiting provider in Vegas offer me two hours for one in appreciation of my help and suggestions after she had a very successful week applying my tips.  

If you want me to be lengthier and relate my anecdotal experiences in greater detail, just say so.  Its interesting when confronted with two possible explanations about something, so many choose to think of things in the most negative light.  Hopefully, more experience hobbying and getting to know a greater array of providers will cure some of you of your inherent negativity.  

However, I will cop to the "ballsy" comment.  You don't achieve great success in life without being a little ballsy.

But how else are they supposed to impress the women on this board?  /s

Posted By: coeur-de-lion
the "Jump to Conclusions" Board.  I would never INITIATE such a conversation, but when a visiting girl posts something like, "Is it slow for everyone right now or is it just me?"  or "I'm visiting and not sure if I'm advertising in the right place" it is often because they are a NY or DC girl trying to bring their East coast rates to the West coast.  I would also never comment publicly about a specific girl's rates, so I PM and share a little of my inner marketing genius with then.  90% have been positive and effusive  with their appreciation.  Recently had a visiting provider in Vegas offer me two hours for one in appreciation of my help and suggestions after she had a very successful week applying my tips.    
   
 If you want me to be lengthier and relate my anecdotal experiences in greater detail, just say so.  Its interesting when confronted with two possible explanations about something, so many choose to think of things in the most negative light.  Hopefully, more experience hobbying and getting to know a greater array of providers will cure some of you of your inherent negativity.    
   
 However, I will cop to the "ballsy" comment.  You don't achieve great success in life without being a little ballsy.

attempt to say "who's looking out for you, Ms. Provider," and hands start going up. Most providers are very sharp and don't really need our help, but on the rare occasion one seems to be floundering, I will do it privately by PM, and if she doesn't seem receptive, I will politely excuse myself and drop it. Don't need to have the exchange be public to rack up brownie points.

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Aside from the donation, I'm impressed by the mileage some providers accumulate.  I noticed a recent ad that indicates San Diego will be the 4th stop of a provider's national tour, Denver-Philadelphia-SF-SD, and we get her starting on her 11th consecutive day "in the saddle".  I'll pass on that service.

I'm surprised you have so many reviews if mileage bothers you.  Most providers work, or at least would be willing to work, more than 11 days in a row.

Posted By: tungOfun4U
Aside from the donation, I'm impressed by the mileage some providers accumulate.  I noticed a recent ad that indicates San Diego will be the 4th stop of a provider's national tour, Denver-Philadelphia-SF-SD, and we get her starting on her 11th consecutive day "in the saddle".  I'll pass on that service.

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