These hook up apps and sites have been around for a while now and I'm curious if Hobbyist are turning to the hook-ups more than providers. For me, I am seeing less providers since hook-ups are pretty fucking easy. I mean you swipe right, chat a bit, meet and rock on. Many ladies are not the best looking and could never be described as a Once-In-A-Lifetime, but I would say the ones I met rate 5-7.
One recent encounter this summer blew me away and that's why I started thinking. She was an attractive MILF almost 8 years older than me (me late 30s) and we hooked up 3 times. Once she texted me to meet and she damn near attacked me once I closed the door. It was like that Mrs. Robinson movie (yea, I dunno the name ). She is gone now and doesn't return my text. Shit, just one more romp!!
So fella, if you can hook up for free and you occasionally hit a home run, does that change your attitude on providers?
One last note. I would still consider younger providers. No woman in her early 20s is looking to hook up with an almost 40 yr old dude on an app.
If you're enjoying yourself, then sure. Why not?
I believe most men hobby not because they can't find it anywhere else, but because hobbying done correctly comes with a quality assurance and certain level of efficiency that you just can't find when connecting with strangers on an app. If you want a petite milf type you can find one you like, read her reviews and be sure that her photos are accurate and that she's a 8+ as opposed to just hoping that the lady you've matched with on the app is the lady who arrives at your door.
If you're the type of gentleman who doesn't value his time or prefers quantity to quality, then more power to you.
Most men hobby because they are horny and want to fuck. That woman in the Graduate was pretty hot. I would do her. Even now. LO
Well obviously! Haha Mrs. Robinson was quite the vixen. Perhaps I should have worded my statement differently. The reason some men choose to hobby as opposed to random hookups: quality, consistency and efficiency.
I can get all the TER 5-7's for free in any pick up bar, and I am well past 40, well past.
but hey even old fat broads need loving, so I am glad you are there to take care of their needs. As for me, I will stick to hookers, where for a set price I can find all the women that "I" find attractive to fuck as I will ever want.
as for the early twenties women you can't score with, speak for yourself, I might not be able to get an early twenties woman at my "advanced age" but I can still pull the occasional mid to late twenties woman on a good day, and I am most likely a good twenty years older than you.
Unfortunately I don't want to fuck "occasionally" I want to fuck all the time and "living off the land" and trying to pick up women with just my charm and good lucks is a losing proposition that even a guy with as healthy an ego as mine has had to admit.
and your golden dick.. I guess you're rich so good for u. I guess you think it's your charm and good looks that attracts a 20 something. (Ladies.. please chime in here...LMAO). A rich fucker (D. Sterling or Hugh Hefner type) parks his Ferrari and drops a load of money on the bar... What do you think?
A.) What a chump
Actually in real life, guys don't have to be rich to get young hot chicks, but they are usually just too stupid to keep around after the hotness wears thin and the guy realizes they are of zero substance and only good to look at even in the bedroom. I have a best friend who is 46, has no car and works as a damn clown... he pulls more young, hot ass than I have ever seen. I mean we laugh about the shit, but his GF is damn near 50. When I was 21 my boyfriend for a while was 34... that's insane to me now to date that much older. All I can say is "He got game."
I guess you haven't seen the guys who look like they couldn't get laid in a women's prison with a fistful of pardons who don't have a pot to piss in who still have no problem getting women "out of their league".
Some guys have "it" and others don't. I don't have as much of "it" as I would like, but that still puts me in the top 1% around here, that's for sure.
Attracting women isn't all about having money or good looks, although those things help. It's a lot more a state of mind where you "expect" women to like you, but without being arrogant about it. Most guys are so intimidated by a hot woman, especially a hot woman MUCH younger than them, and they just assume the woman will have no interest in him, those kind of vibes being thrown out are almost impossible to overcome, even if you have good looks and/or money. OTOH, a guy who isn't tongue twisted when a hot woman smiles at him already has the battle half way won.
Regarding the TER scale, a 5 to you would be an 8 to another
six inches is a deal breaker for you but is a deal maker for fatgirl
And so on................
So the way TER defines a 5 or a 9 each of us interpret that definition different.
because in my opinion the definitions are very general, and leave a lot of room for a
difference of opinion for each number.
Thank you
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Sounds like you got lucky I have tried several of those hook up sites and few of those apps and have never ever had any luck. Most just are a waste of time and money and fake profiles just trying to get you to stay on the site and spend more. Like the previous post said I'm more app to stick with hobby I know what I want and how to find it with the right lady. But if it's working for you great more power to you.
But I'm guessing more of them are Totie Fields types.
Whatever.
If you don't mind my asking, what is the going rate for how much time and is there ever more than one pop expected per date?
From what I've heard so far, these FB hookups are not any more of a deal than a good escort experience