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Re: Context Is Everythingteeth_smile
Durhamdrew 19 Reviews 642 reads
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I read that as "bitch witch" the first time I read it. WTF? LOL.  
No more cheap reading glasses for me.

Posted By: AlysonParker
I like names - good girl is a favorite but I will also take dirtier ones like slut and whore - but the context is pretty important to me. If it is a heat of the moment situation and I can tell the person saying it actually respects me, then it is a huge turn on. If they are saying it because they actually want to degrade me, that is a date ender.  I never, ever, like being called a bitch which, unfortunately, seems to slip out of men's mouths with some frequency.  
   
 I'm a big fan of the Daddy game, but I never pull it out unless it is requested as I think it squicks out a lot of men. But once I'm given the green light on it....watch out!

HelenaPalomino2607 reads

If a provider calls you Daddy during a session, is it a turn on or turn off?

I tend to use it a lot when I get into it. I even call my girlfriend Daddy when she fucks me with her strap on.

On The other hand, speaking names, as a submissive I LOVE to be called a slut or whore or nasty little girl....  

Ladies, what's your opinion?

xoxo Helen

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AZCalvin69734 reads

On the age of the lady. If a 20 something ok, if closer to my age not so much. Would make me feel older. I'm interested, however, as to what you sub ladies like to be called during a session.

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HidingBehindMyAlias775 reads

For some reason I always feel like being called daddy by a provider, makes the provider seem less seductive.  Seduction is power.  I like the provider to have the power, and seduce me with it.  Also it is deeply satisfying for my ego to know that this powerfully seductive goddess has chosen to give me her attention and touch.

Now, being called Papi, makes me feel like I am more her older lover than a father figure.  If it is a Latin woman calling me Papi, even better yet.  I don't know, maybe it's just the hot spicy attitude of a saucy Latin woman that does it for me. Or maybe it's because Papi is a foreign word whose meaning can be twisted enough to be a sexy pet name.

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Durhamdrew653 reads

AY PAPI! I dated a PR lady and for some reason I'd lose it when she started speaking Spanish while we did it. She could have been calling me a "fucking retard" for all I know, but the "AY PAPI!!" at the end would get me every time.  
That shit was my kryptonite :)

Posted By: HidingBehindMyAlias
For some reason I always feel like being called daddy by a provider, makes the provider seem less seductive.  Seduction is power.  I like the provider to have the power, and seduce me with it.  Also it is deeply satisfying for my ego to know that this powerfully seductive goddess has chosen to give me her attention and touch.  
   
 Now, being called Papi, makes me feel like I am more her older lover than a father figure.  If it is a Latin woman calling me Papi, even better yet.  I don't know, maybe it's just the hot spicy attitude of a saucy Latin woman that does it for me. Or maybe it's because Papi is a foreign word whose meaning can be twisted enough to be a sexy pet name.

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MissErinBlack698 reads

I LOVE being called 'daddy' when I'm pegging/using a strap-on.  I love being called names when I'm bottoming, and the names can get pretty awful if it's with someone I trust.  I love calling submissives names as well.  

It's all situational, and varies from person to person. :)

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DCGent1968540 reads

I agree with Miss Erin. When I'm acting as a sub, I really enjoy name calling and dirty talking. It really heightens my submission and can push me up to and over the edge. I also hearing a dominant lady tell me all the dirty and degrading things she plans to do to me.  

When I'm topping a lady, I'm very careful to make sure she wants to be called names and doesn't get turned off.

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subcharlotte824 reads

I love to be called names while I'm being used, and I'll call a Man Sir if he tells me to, but I don't call people Daddy or Master unless I'm owned by them.

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StinaValentine964 reads

But, good girl is my favorite, obviously because I love being a good girl! :D

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thesaint79211 reads

I prefer being called Sir or Boss to Daddy... for some reason.

I do like to use slut, bitch or whore. Some light humiliation is sometimes a huuugeeee turn-on.

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