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I only whitelist users I have long history with or have seen 2+ times  
This is because TER is a review site, not a referencing/OK site and they don't do any research on users who join. Because of this I want to know if I put my name on someone as OK that I have extended experiences with them. As for the black list there is a separate website for that but there is a ladies area here where providers can discuss problem clients and the like.

Provider reviews are the way we hobbyists tell other hobbyists to generally see or stay away from the providers we share time with. It's a system that works quite well when some common sense is also applied.  

White listing is a way providers can indicate they would be willing to see us again. But, ladies, what is your criteria in deciding whether or not to whitelist a guy?

I've seen a few references in this forum in the past to providers blacklisting clients. Is there a true blacklist somewhere? What criteria do you use when putting a guy on it?

The white list means you paid on time.  The blacklist means she thinks you're a threat to other providers.  Don't over-complicate things.  

Posted By: incallman2
Provider reviews are the way we hobbyists tell other hobbyists to generally see or stay away from the providers we share time with. It's a system that works quite well when some common sense is also applied.  
   
 White listing is a way providers can indicate they would be willing to see us again. But, ladies, what is your criteria in deciding whether or not to whitelist a guy?  
   
 I've seen a few references in this forum in the past to providers blacklisting clients. Is there a true blacklist somewhere? What criteria do you use when putting a guy on it?

Bic, no disrespect intended here, but, replies similar to yours contributes to readers not writing or responding to posts. It's why this San Diego forum has a lack of posts. I have made the final decision to see, or not see, some providers because of the "feel" I got for them and their personalities from their posts on this board. Maybe they sometimes do the same?  

The number of users posting here is small. Regulars even smaller. I am trying to generate more interest and hopefully more users here which will generate a wider range of topics.

I know it's hard to read tone online. and I realize my text was short, but I wasn't trying to be negative.  It simply is what it is.  As long as you play by the rules, you'll be white listed.  

Posted By: incallman2
Bic, no disrespect intended here, but, replies similar to yours contributes to readers not writing or responding to posts. It's why this San Diego forum has a lack of posts. I have made the final decision to see, or not see, some providers because of the "feel" I got for them and their personalities from their posts on this board. Maybe they sometimes do the same?  
   
 The number of users posting here is small. Regulars even smaller. I am trying to generate more interest and hopefully more users here which will generate a wider range of topics.

I only whitelist users I have long history with or have seen 2+ times  
This is because TER is a review site, not a referencing/OK site and they don't do any research on users who join. Because of this I want to know if I put my name on someone as OK that I have extended experiences with them. As for the black list there is a separate website for that but there is a ladies area here where providers can discuss problem clients and the like.

I am so relieved to hear the black and white list have nothing to do with a hobbyist's ethnicity.  

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