The whole point is that I just don't want to compare myself to others - not to put anyone down, especially the ladies. It is very easy to get frustrated, because it's not only the ladies who are throwing comments around like "it should be done this way or that way" or "I don't like how you think or screen people before they put their dick into your vagina and ride you naked for an hour or more alone in a room where nobody knows what you're doing".

Everyone has to feel comfortable - even you. And I'm not going to lie, it can be very tempting to lash out on someone who disagrees. Just watch CNN and Fox news - even the people running for president like to argue.

But that's the great thing about having thousands of choices in women now that the market is very inflated. You don't even have to care what anyone thinks, or how anyone screens. And no one has to even prove a point. They can just move on to the ten other ladies  here with different time minimums, screening processes, rates, personalities, and comfort levels/services/type of guys they like to see - who look exactly the same with very similar scores in reviews.

So---yeah. I am not getting in the middle or taking sides, I'm just having my fun.

(Quite honestly, the thread you mentioned - I read a little bit of it, but it gave me a headache. None of it really even matters lol. Sorry hahaha, hugs)

A lot of ladies can tell by the first or second email if they're going to like someone or not - that doesn't mean they're lowering their screening just for money. In my case, it would be. And the pressures to do so are very very high. You wouldn't believe the conversations I've had where I've been encouraged to lower rates to get more money, and to lower my screening. I've tried it, and I hated it. But that's because I am me. Everyone likes different things, and everyone can handle different things. I have to be very careful. Not because of what I have to lose in the physical, but because I am a very impressionable person, and I feel very strongly/pick up signals that I can get hurt or influenced by.

I know myself way better than I know anyone else, and that's who I personally have to look out for. I also don't trust other women with my complete safety and finances, so the referral system to me is only confirmation of what I've already picked up from the guy after gut instinct and my screening process. Nothing more, nothing less. It's just how I work.

Some ladies don't get as easily affected by guys and how they feel/think. They also have different goals. I'm hoping to find a handful of guys who I can count on, and also have serious passionate time with them. This is the only place I'm doing the deed, so yeah I have to have that haha.

But I'm not going to judge someone else because they don't need a guy's full real name. If that's what they're comfortable with, go for it. If a girl needs the white envelope, awesome. It's all legalism to me to streamline something in to "one certain way" randomly, then judge others' personal standards based on what I decided was best to do. If I wanted to do that, I'd go start a religious movement called "Courtneyanity". LOL LOL

And - you and other ladies who have screened are still here and happy after how much time? Yeah, you're doing great if you're still in tact. Same with me . That's the goal.

Kisses