I agree; pictures are important. I always look for more. I will call, text or email (which ever the provider's preferred method is) and "shop" to see if we will be a good fit. I do agree there is a certain amount of salesmanship that has to go on to be good. Service after the sale always brings me back.

I rarely TOFTT and see only well reviewed girls.  I also know a lot of reviewers and experienced mongers I can call on to vet girls who will be fun to be with.  Plus, there are lots of girls I've already been with whom I'm happy to see again.

The problem with your analogy is the Lexus really doesn't care who's driving it, whereas the gal in question will generally have some kind of preferences.

In my experience, sometimes a guy will email and ask about certain things, or he'll just want to chat, and so we chat, or I answer his questions.  If there's chemistry and flirtation, maybe I've turned him from a tire-kicker into a buyer?  I'm not sure, it just flows for me.  I don't flirt unless I feel flirtatious.  Nothing comes across as fake like fake, you know?  The clients who come to me are seeking someone genuine and real, and that's what I give them.

So anyway, to answer your question, I'm sure there's salesmanship, but it's probably in the form of letting a guy you like know more about who you are and why he might enjoy spending time with you.  After all, no one buys a car just because they like the pictures - they take it for a spin around the block first.

She also has to post a lot, and at least two of those posts need to sound somewhat interesting. Her breasts must be a 36C or D - just a handful with some extra to shake, shake, shake if I want to shake. I'd say if her nipples are showing on her photos with at least 1/4 inch poking out when hard, she'll be just right to suck on.

Now, a little camel toe in her photos are ok, but I like to save the "seeing the labia" for the actual date. And I think I've read a review or two on a lady in the Chicagoland are who not only has a beautiful labia, but a tasty one too.

I think if her name continually pops up on certain boards or ad sites, it will become familiar with the people attracted to those forums or ad sites. So she will attract those who enjoy those forums.

Her amount of reviews should be recent, but not so many that it is tough to read them all.

The way she can convert me from a car kicker to a buyer is after I conduct my research and book her minimum incall minimum 90 minute date, I'll know then if I want to move forward with what I enjoy - regular extended dates.

The way to get me in is to obviously look good, pictures that seem accurate, with some validation in reviews that they are accurate, (this is the delivery of what is advertised,) long brown hair, enough of the face to know she's pretty, but not enough for everyone at the restaurant to know I'm with an escort they know of, a certain price range I've had great experiences, somewhat consistent review scores, and timely responses with a personality on the other end - not one word answers. Somewhat animated in her email response, I guess.

After she gets me in the door, (I call this the paid consultation). If I felt comfortable with her, she made eye contact, she kissed me like she meant it, she moved during sex, responded to my touch, makes me laugh, teases me, is an interesting conversationalist, actually making my brain do a little exercises, and simply left me wishing I'd booked the longer date the first time, I'll be booking my favorite - extended dates - with her the next time. If not, I'll move on.

Now, if she makes me leave having chills the entire night and into the next day thinking about some of our time spent together, hungry for intimacy and physical touch, she's got me immediately for an overnight on our next date.  

I like some variety in reviews too. I think it shows she'll be creative on the long term with me - since I like to find someone I can see on a more regular basis for a while.

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All business owners are in sales. It is a simple truth if they don't put some effort into sales they will not be in business for long. This is a business so yes the ladies are in sales.

You think Lexus isn't into sells? They spend millions selling their product, millions. Lexus is huge into sales.

Putting an ad up is sales, as is putting up a web site. And some have to sell you that they are really into you. Is it 100% sales, no. Independent sex workers are ofyer the marketing/sales, IT departmant, security/screening department, customer service rep, and their time/service is the product sold. Sales is only part of the gig.

Will a pretty picture of a Shiny Lemon accumulate sales of 50+ and consistent ratings of 7+/7+ ?  No, the Lemon will crash and burn and end up and in the "Barely worth the effort" scrapheap.  "I'm sorry, that number is no longer in service."  

Pictures and clever ads may help with the initial sales but it won't sustain sales of a piece of junk.

The ladies ARE in sales, engineering, quality assurance, customer satisfaction and customer feedback,  advertising and everything else needed to promote their business.  To an extent, that's making it seem to us that it isn't even a business

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