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I've been out of the hobby for a while, but am traveling on business and wanted to find some company tonight. The city I am in doesn't have a lot of choices for girls with TER reviews. So I Found one online. I know this isn't smart so no lectures please! :)  
 
Found a girl there I liked, texted her and she called me immediately. Said she could come right over (I'm in a downtown location so nothing odd about that). She then said the donation was "350 for 90 minutes full service and GFE". OK. She then did confirm for me she was the girl in the picture.  
 
She then called my hotel room to verify I was there. I took a shower and waited. And waited. Then while I was waiting I got curious and started checking for reviews. Non for her. I then googled her phone number and her ads came up, plus a link to escort busts saying she had been in a bust. Not sure how legit that is, but it certainly got me thinking. She called then about a 1/2 hour after she said she'd be here and said she was sorry for running late, but would be there in 5. She got here in about 30 more.  
 
She wasn't the girl in the pic although she may have been 10 years ago. She asked for the donation and I just said, "you don't look like the girl, I'm going to give you $60 for coming out here and I'm sorry."  She said the cab was a hundred. I should have told her about uber.  
 
So I gave her a $100 and sent her away. She did ask me to "let me show you what I am working with here". And really tried to sell me on going thru with the appointment, but I just didn't feel comfortable, I have an early flight and can't really afford to be caught up in some bust. So I just rubbed one out instead.  
 
So, did I make the right call? (The woman that showed up was attractive - just much older than the girl in the pic, for what that is worth. (Although it shouldn't make a difference!). Curious as th what some other folks might have done in the same situation.  


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Always go with your gut feeling...no pun intended :)

However, that being said.....

Posted By: sexpirate
I have an early flight and can't really afford to be caught up in some bust. So I just rubbed one out instead.    
Odds are that if this had been a bust, you would have been arrested.  From everything I've heard and read, once you are in the room with an agent working for LE, it's GAME OVER.    

 

 

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Indeed.  

The fact that she discussed prices and sexual acts over the phone would have been enough (for an arrest, not necessarily for a conviction). Some people seem to think that if you use the euphemisms or the acronyms that somehow it doesn't count. Like if you say "it's an extra hundred for a trip to the Greek isles" that's going to baffle LE (or a judge) so much that you'll be free and clear. The system is not run by automatons who can't distinguish between "full service" and "sex." The acronyms and euphemisms provide no legal cover at all.

Point being, she wasn't LE because if she was she already had enough to make the bust. Of course it depends on what he said in reply also, but if he sent her away for fear of being LE he was a little too late. Hell, even if they had nothing at all they still would have cuffed him and taken him for a ride; you never know what a guy will end up saying once he's thinking he can talk his way out of something he doesn't know he's not really in trouble for (LE is not going to stand in your way if you're looking to incriminate yourself for no reason). And if he says nothing at all and it was a wasted bust it still looks good on them because it shows they're at least working with their budget, rather than spending it all on coffee and doughnuts. So one way or another, if she were LE, he wouldn't have ended his night masturbating in his hotel room.

Odds are you are going to get a ticket or be arrested but not going though it can lowed the charges. A provider I know got busted but felt something was wrong and refused service. After being detained she excersized her rights and shut up. They busted 14 ladies that day. All but one got charged with both no sexually oriented business license and prostitution charges with two getting attempted money laundering charges added as they talked. My friend was the exeption as she only got a no sexually oriented business license. Listening to your gut and exercising your rights can and will create better outcomes. You may not get off but you have a much better odds of winning in court or getting a lesser charge.

the names and numbers on their site. Probably some "morals police" group trying to scare people. Sadly it is working for some people. If you sent her home because you found her name on that site, then no, you didn't make the right call, and if you were using that reason, you should have called and cancelled before she showed up at your door.

Misrepresenting herself in her pictures is a totally separate thing. I would have sent her packing too, but I wouldn't have given her 100 bucks. Paying providers who misrepresent themselves, only rewards bad behavior. On the other hand you said she called the hotel to verify you were there, so obviously she had your personal info, so perhaps paying her to avoid drama was wise on your part. Depends how vulnerable you are to outing or to a bsc provider attempting blackmail.

Posted By: perfectstorm
the names and numbers on their site. Probably some "morals police" group trying to scare people. Sadly it is working for some people. If you sent her home because you found her name on that site, then no, you didn't make the right call, and if you were using that reason, you should have called and cancelled before she showed up at your door.  
   
 Misrepresenting herself in her pictures is a totally separate thing. I would have sent her packing too, but I wouldn't have given her 100 bucks. Paying providers who misrepresent themselves, only rewards bad behavior. On the other hand you said she called the hotel to verify you were there, so obviously she had your personal info, so perhaps paying her to avoid drama was wise on your part. Depends how vulnerable you are to outing or to a bsc provider attempting blackmail.
I guess when I did the math, I figured a 95% chance of having an encounter with no LE issues wasn't worth the 5% chance that she wasn't legit. It was just the explicit use of "full service and GFE" added with the long delays and the lack of reviews, plus the site had me uneasy.  

And yeah, in this instance - even more than in the old saying - I was definitely paying her to leave with no ruckus

It's an extortion site. There are men on it too.

You can reply to a set up ad for that site and the text that you sent them will be on the site in a screenshot looking photo with your phone number.

That site has effected so many ladies business because people think it's real.

Not having a date because the lady isn't her photos is a whole different matter, but please know that site is nothing more but an extortion site and you could very well be on it after texting random numbers of ladies without reviews.
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Posted By: sexpirate
I've been out of the hobby for a while, but am traveling on business and wanted to find some company tonight. The city I am in doesn't have a lot of choices for girls with TER reviews. So I Found one online. I know this isn't smart so no lectures please! :)  
   
 Found a girl there I liked, texted her and she called me immediately. Said she could come right over (I'm in a downtown location so nothing odd about that). She then said the donation was "350 for 90 minutes full service and GFE". OK. She then did confirm for me she was the girl in the picture.    
   
 She then called my hotel room to verify I was there. I took a shower and waited. And waited. Then while I was waiting I got curious and started checking for reviews. Non for her. I then googled her phone number and her ads came up, plus a link to escort busts saying she had been in a bust. Not sure how legit that is, but it certainly got me thinking. She called then about a 1/2 hour after she said she'd be here and said she was sorry for running late, but would be there in 5. She got here in about 30 more.    
   
 She wasn't the girl in the pic although she may have been 10 years ago. She asked for the donation and I just said, "you don't look like the girl, I'm going to give you $60 for coming out here and I'm sorry."  She said the cab was a hundred. I should have told her about uber.    
   
 So I gave her a $100 and sent her away. She did ask me to "let me show you what I am working with here". And really tried to sell me on going thru with the appointment, but I just didn't feel comfortable, I have an early flight and can't really afford to be caught up in some bust. So I just rubbed one out instead.    
   
 So, did I make the right call? (The woman that showed up was attractive - just much older than the girl in the pic, for what that is worth. (Although it shouldn't make a difference!). Curious as th what some other folks might have done in the same situation.  
 

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GaGambler481 reads

Sasha and bigguy sitting in a tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G  

ROFLMFAO

Posted By: TS Sasha

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Yeah I can see that happening, I await the review.

I always figured 30 had it in him, if ya know what I mean.

Hadji the second......

Thank you  
2015 = 28

bigguy30516 reads

It's clear you have a thing for him.
 

Posted By: GaGambler
Sasha and bigguy sitting in a tree K-I-S-S-I-N-G  
   
 ROFLMFAO  
   
Posted By: TS Sasha

So, if what you did made you comfortable, then it was correct.

You wouldn't have enjoyed the session anyways.

I know it's harder when you have them go to your hotel because you are afraid of a scene, but in the future go to them if you're not sure about what you are getting. That way, you can walk and not worry about your name on a room.

While the situation strikes me as a bit fishy, the fact of the matter is that this is a case of false advertising, which I think is a pervasive fear for many gentlemen. Kudos for putting your foot down, and from what I read the situation was handled appropriately.

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