yes. quite afew times.Hung out, dinner, sex but didn't last to long but had great time!
Yesterday, I met a provider and afterwards she told me her real name and her story. She's with an agency, but she said she's going to quit the hobby soon. She even asked me to join her for dinner. She asked my phone number and Facebook. Have this ever happened to you before?
I worked for an "agency" but it was a backpage scam that was scamming tons of girls and leaving them stranded across the country.
I didn't give the guy my real name, but he slipped me his email and told me about higher end escorting, TER, etc during our dates. I wasn't supposed to exchange info.
He wrote his email on a slip of paper and said, "if you need anything, let me know." I said "well I'm not supposed to exchange info. But ok..." He also scheduled late night appts and I would go out to eat with him for shits and giggles, even though I wasn't allowed to leave my room. (Fucked up, but I had no idea what I got into lol)
Well lo and behold, the agency left me stranded and took all of the money. So I shot him an email, and said "you're ne er going to guess what happened." And said I didn't expect anything from him, but said I'd be in the area working lol.
We ended up becoming really good pals, he became an awesome client, had me all made over, took me shopping, started me up on some sites, and came to see me a lot.
We got along super well. Very natural friendship, and he took really good care of me starting me up on a safer, more upscale path. Then poof. He disappeared.
You just click with some people. I'll never forget it. Just an all around crazy experience that would make a great movie some day lol!
I think I'll call it "Captain Save A Ho" lmfao
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I saw a young (3 months past 18) for a session I booked off of CL MANY years ago. We seemed to like each other, but I could tell she wasn't going to be long for the business as she was being "managed" and was extremely high volume at the time and I knew she would burn out.
The very first time I saw her, I left her my card and told her to keep it if she ever needed help. Well after seeing her a few more times she confided in me how badly she was getting ripped off by her "manager" and how she wanted to quit, I ended up hiring her, and over a period of several years we went through a dichotomy of me being first her client, then her boss (with benefits of course), a short time as sort of a SD/SB relationship, an even shorter time as a "real" BF/GF, and are currently FWB's, this "relationship" has made it 8 years and counting. So you never know.
and for the record I know her parents who rather reluctantly have come to accept me even though I am older than them, she knows my mother and is even "Facebook family" with my mom and probably talks to her more than I do. Of course at the ripe old age of 26 she is beginning to get a bit old for me, but I have assured her that I will allow her to hang around with me until she reaches 30. lol
I do have several providers as FB friends with their real names. I know many say that is not a good thing, and in some cases, it probably isn't a good idea. But I have had no problems, we do not discuss hobby stuff there, it's just friend stuff. I can't think of why that provider would approach you that way, unless she had designs on maybe civvie dating with you after she quits hobbying.
LLAP,
Swim
It's not that I ever really cared what they wanted me to call them, but I have had a LOT of my hooker buddies tell me "call me ______" when we are out in public, I don't any of my friends to know my hooker name"
I think the main reason that so many women have trusted me with their real name is that I never have made a big deal about it, I will call anyone by any name they want. Just tell me when and where it's appropriate. No biggie.
Yes it happen to me the first time we meet she give her phone number and yes she work for an agency so I did not have her phone number. I meet with a lot times after that had great fun together until I borrow some money to her for advance on a session. She missed the next four session by never showing up or calling. About two months after of not showing up she got hold of me to say she was sorry and she wanted to make it up to me. We did ended up meeting for one last time so she could make it up to me. I have not gotten hold of nor have she tried to get hold of me. I figure I am going to cut my losses now with her.
My advice be careful with her, you know how women get make us guys think with the wrong head and twist us around there finger and get us to do what ever they want until it is to late.
she told you a name and a story.... Perhaps it's true - for your sake I hope so... Go to dinner, enjoy yourself, proceed slowly and keep you spidey antennas up.
Giving her a phone number ("a" not "the") is OK. Would wait & see before offering FB.
Do some searching on TER about folks who have shared FB addys.....
but similar things have happened a few times.
I don't do any social media, however
Yes. Most likely a new name too
In other words, she no longer wants to kick back 33--50% to an agency.
yes. quite afew times.Hung out, dinner, sex but didn't last to long but had great time!
It works very well when we stay inside the bounds of the game.
I saw a lady multiple times through an agency, she told me her real name (first only), I had her personal phone number and email (neither one of us are on FB). But, I never used her phone number or email unless the contact was for or about an appointment. I had to travel to see her when she was touring, so I'd ask her which hotel she was staying at while in the city we were meeting in so that I could get a room at the same hotel, this way after she turned my legs into rubber bands, I could ride an elevator back to my room instead of having to drive somewhere else. She always made me feel amazing, in fact she is without a doubt my ATF, and I've had the pleasure to see some amazing women.
The bottom line is that if she gives you this information, she is trusting you not to misuse that trust. The best thing you can do for yourself is to remember that this is an arrangement and don't lose sight of the indelible line. Be respectful, practice impeccable hygiene, make sure your envelope is always correct and have fun. This sport is no different than any other, stay inbounds and you'll do well.
I saw a lady multiple times through an agency, she told me her real name (first only), I had her personal phone number and email (neither one of us are on FB). But, I never used her phone number or email unless the contact was for or about an appointment. I had to travel to see her when she was touring, so I'd ask her which hotel she was staying at while in the city we were meeting in so that I could get a room at the same hotel, this way after she turned my legs into rubber bands, I could ride an elevator back to my room instead of having to drive somewhere else. She always made me feel amazing, in fact she is without a doubt my ATF, and I've had the pleasure to see some amazing women.
The bottom line is that if she gives you this information, she is trusting you not to misuse that trust. The best thing you can do for yourself is to remember that this is an arrangement and don't lose sight of the indelible line. Be respectful, practice impeccable hygiene, make sure your envelope is always correct and have fun. This sport is no different than any other, stay inbounds and you'll do well.
If she did, she made a major breach of her personal security.
But many girls give out a fake, "real" name to give the John a closer sense of intimacy and to further feign the whole GFE atmosphere thing.
But many girls give out a fake, "real" name to give the John a closer sense of intimacy and to further feign the whole GFE atmosphere thing.
Who would have thought right? Lol
It is not unheard of for girls to feel a connection with their clients.
Well, I mean I won't argue it strenuously, lol.
Do you think Rayne, er,....I mean L. Guapo, has any feelings? I think not.
The connection thing is quite different though.
Now the one thing I must admit, is that that "connection" is drastically improved due to the size of my......
envelope.
I will concede that may just be a co-inky dink, but there does seem to be some correlation.
Scientists are working feverishly as we speak to prove causation.
I'll post those results when those same scientists stop fking hookers. LOL
Conflict of interest can be a bitch! Literally! 
overrides the size of the envelop. There have been a couple of johns I have "fired' because of the "disconnect"...in other words their money was no longer the draw.
The connection for me is that the guy is an easy to deal with client and pays...very simple.
In order of success, not chronology:
Once, nothing came of it; she was young and being overworked and still is, but at least she has a better sense of her options. This was a Cap'n save-a-whore situation, but not a successful one.
Another occasion, with an agency girl, we just felt very comfortable with each other and exchanged real names in the course of talking. She seems like a cool person, but we didn't keep in touch after our two or three dates.
Another time, it went very well for a year or so, but then the relationship soured as she was getting into too much partying and subsequently retired (probably good for her too).
A fourth time, just starting recently, it shows promise of a nice, enduring friendship.
A fifth time, the most distant into the past, we had been seeing each other for several years and the information just came out over time. She eventually retired and cut off all contact with her escorting and even UTR clients. I miss her.
A sixth turned into what will be a lifelong, close friendship (with ongoing benefits so far) and one that already has extended many years beyond her exit from the profession.
There was drama only with one, and not much at that.
No regrets.
It's a good thing.
I can only guess that she is looking to go Indy. She wants to keep her best clients for obvious reasons..
So, she decided to reach out to you! You must be a safe guy to trust.
Good. 
It's a compliment...
thats a good place to be.