...as I have never had a provider offer to bring one, nor have I ever brought one myself. I am tempted to try one in a session one of these days, tho. Should make for some fun
I suspect that I am finished so quickly she never has a chance to whip one out! But I would be way too sensitive after an O to ever even think of using a vibrator.
And brand spanking new, still in the plastic if it came in a wrapped. I've been with a numbs of providers who keep the Hitachi nearby. That thing is industrial strength. Others like the Lelo's.
I personally keep a collection of various toys, but it's best to either find a provider that's open to toy use or one that openly advertises that she's into toys.
If you'd like to bring a toy for a provider to use, it would be really classy if it was new. Most quality toy stores like The Pleasure Chest will indeed open and test a toy prior to you purchasing it however, so I wouldn't expect the toy to be unopened if i were the one receiving it.
YES - I get that a provider really doesn't want a used sex toy. I don't either.
BUT - reality check - All of the sex toy shops I have bought stuff at - test out anything with a battery or wires before you walk out the door. They REALLY don't want them back. This may be a local thing but it makes sense - and I suspect that it's a common practice.
Further, the packaging is not exactly hermetically sealed - though there are exceptions - some dongs, for example. And many times packaging has been opened by someone (though not necessarily used...) - which is WHY you clean/sterilize them when you get them home. So - sealed packaging is NOT really an option with a vibrator from a local sex toy shop. Best you are going to do is to have all the packaging with you...
Bottom line - send it to her via Amazon or go sex toy shopping with her - which I highly recommend as an interesting diversion. Obviously not an option if you haven't seen her before
of working at Le Sex Shoppe now Romantix as I see when I drive by. Back in around 1997 I worked there and those things had to be tested with batteries.
Guess where I work now? An agency sent me to work where they make those things. I won't be there long. But what are the chances. But I have worked in a bunch of places of different industries so, whatever. But thank you for reminding me of working at that crazy place. Before there I used to work at a Video Liquidators.
I guess these toys are very popular as I see constant orders in the hundreds and even thousands. There other places that make them and some come from China. So is like wow millions of sex toys around everywhere. But if you didn't know you wouldn't know.
at a personal level that makes me feel bad. Like I was never lucky with civies. But there they are using dildoes and stuff. then there is videos of girls even doing it with animals and stuff, whatever. I have to thank providers and I do. Thank you providers. It's been and still is being a nice trip. Thank you very much
You are too funny.Lol I was just curious because I have heard from friends that some providers won't allow a client to please them because this is too personal and something that they only reserve for their SO. as a man, I have no idea what to look for when selecting a vibrator.Lol Could someone suggest a brand or model that they have used and enjoyed? Thanks!
Like this one...but I've had it for a while and it makes a horrible noise LOL
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Posted By: ladyrose317537
And YES we can use it together
You are too funny.Lol I was just curious because I have heard from friends that some providers won't allow a client to please them because this is too personal and something that they only reserve for their SO. as a man, I have no idea what to look for when selecting a vibrator.Lol Could someone suggest a brand or model that they have used and enjoyed? Thanks!
I have not run into a provider that did NOT have a vibrator (or five or six...). I don't know if that is common (my sample size is way too small) - the providers I book are mostly sex-positive, more mature women. I don't book a second time with one that is not sex positive. The ones I see on a regular basis are really pretty open about sex and what works (and doesnt).
Some like really the Hitachi- some like something a little less like a bullet. So - rather than bring her one, probably best if you use hers if you are using it on her. Key rule with this - Pay freaking attention to what she tells you.... a good rule to live by in or out of P4P...
You can use the Hitachi with your fingers between the vibe and the vulva as a pad so things don't get too intense. Remember to start slow, caress and don't attack her clit like a demented weasel. In fact, until she lets you know, stay the heck away from it. Lube is also your friend... take your time. She'll let you know when you need to get there... Do it right and you will get a marvelous response... or a really good acting job - and honestly, as far as you are concerned, why would it matter... As participatory performance art goes, it's really a lot of fun.
If you are using it on you - and you have seen her before - ask her before your next session. It can be a lot of fun - BUT you might want to try it on yourself first just so you know what's good on what part... taint, testicles, frenulum, corona, shaft whatever - and let her know. If she does it right, you'll hit the ceiling (in a good way..). It turns out that you can, in fact, ejaculate without an erection just using a vibrator... So if junior ain't cooperating in the second or third round - there is hope..
Just make sure she is a willing participant beforehand. Some ladies have wishlists on their websites that may have toys as a wish gift. You could also discuss it together in private during your date. There is such a wide variety of styles and their uses, but the outcum is always the same....Pleasure!!
This style is popular among the ladies and hits the spot everytime...WoW!!
If not then it's cool. But I'll never push it on anyone, but if she's into it then it makes for a great time. I had one young lady actually have me put a condom on it. I still have the pictures...weird. I'll normally introduce it as my "little friend"... If she wants to use her own, then great but by then she'll know that I'm into it.
If not then it's cool. But I'll never push it on anyone, but if she's into it then it makes for a great time. I had one young lady actually have me put a condom on it. I still have the pictures...weird. I'll normally introduce it as my "little friend"... If she wants to use her own, then great but by then she'll know that I'm into it.
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The condom situation is really funny. Maybe she thought you had used it on someone else. i would never force anything on someone. I have only seen her once and I asked if she had toys. She said she didn't but if I purchased the vibrator we could use it the next time we meet.
I love Lelo products they have many different toys to choose from. The one I got is waterproof multi-speed and looks like a lipstick. And it does not run on batteries it charges by being plugged into a usb I always have one on hand. I do ask gents if they like toys some do and some do not.
My suggestion if you are seeing a provider who does not have any toys or you are bringing one to use please make sure it is brand new and unopened. There are some guys who will bring toys that have been used previously and cannot understand why a provider would not want to use them. Check out the Lelo brands.
I think this is a pretty funny question. Of course they're used.
And I don't think you have to insist on a new one all the time. Just use reasonable precautions. Wash everything well with a good toy cleaner.
My three favorites:
A true hitachi magic wand with several attachments. For years I have used a black silicone head on the hitachi rather than its standard white one. Recently I have found another pink silicon head that has two ears. Can be used for mutual simultaneous play. I have used a Magnum condom on the black head just to be extra special careful. I also have a hummingbird attachment for me. Very enjoyable
A true eroscillator. Recommended by Dr. Ruth. Devastating on a clitoris. The interchangeable heads can be easily washed. Expensive.
Finally a JimmyJane Form 2. Very effective. Also expensive.
Probably best to see a girl first, determine compatibility and then come back equipped for a repeat. Have fun.
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