As a fifty-something hobbyist, I often find myself automatically telling a provider when I arrive on a one-hour appointment that I'm only looking for one pop. Part of that is because I am worried the session will feel rushed if I don't say something, and I don't want any pressure on either one of us. If I am in the mood for two pops, I will usually book 90 min or two hours so that we can still take our time. The surprise has come a few times when a provider gets two out of me in an hour without me even realizing what is happening until she is finished. So I agree, sometimes we psych ourselves out, and miss out on a little more fun as a result.
I have always been a single goal player. Frankly, I realize now it is my fault. I assumed if #1 was in the first 5 minutes we would be playing canasta for the next 55 minutes. until I saw a fbsm lady who advrtised "msog". I was intrigued. First goal, 10 minutes. Massage for 40 minutes. Second goal, I was skeptical, but wham, she did it! Frankly, never has a high end lady ever made the effort to try, or offered. This lady took it as my hour to be pleased and her mision. Others, it is a routine to get me finished with #1.....
If you know you're hit/miss for the 2nd please share and we can get the 1st one out quick then you can really relax and have no pressure on trying for #2 weather or not it happens! Was this post about me? Ha, kidding (but it applies to me too!). Guys, I always want to try for two and there is NO PRESSURE if it doesn't happen (or does, teehee).
*Bounce*
GZ
i wouldn't call myself a single goal player, but lately in my old age my second goal is not as flashy, or shall we say, productive as my first.
however i enjoy it, whether or not the players have to clean up the field.
also, my goal is usually vesuvius-like in its eruption, if i may mix metaphors.
I've only managed to get off twice in a session on two occasions. And Gia's method really worked.
i have gotten up to 3 and 4, but i always attribute it to my partner's expertise...
And your apprciated. We elder statesmen need care and nurturing....lol
They get into their head "oh #2 won't happen, but she can try" instead of relaxing and let your body just respond. You put too much pressure on yourself sometimes to "get there" and then can't because you're worried about NOT making it happen or maybe even just trying too hard.
Put your mind where you need it to be
Ask for what you like - tell your partner "higher" "slower" "faster" "rite there"
Or maybe try taking a pee - sometimes that can back things up and you don't even realize you had to
Namaste, GK
As a fifty-something hobbyist, I often find myself automatically telling a provider when I arrive on a one-hour appointment that I'm only looking for one pop. Part of that is because I am worried the session will feel rushed if I don't say something, and I don't want any pressure on either one of us. If I am in the mood for two pops, I will usually book 90 min or two hours so that we can still take our time. The surprise has come a few times when a provider gets two out of me in an hour without me even realizing what is happening until she is finished. So I agree, sometimes we psych ourselves out, and miss out on a little more fun as a result.
goldie is more than a pretty face, great knockers, a tight ass and legs that go on forever (plus a very gifted mouth).
one of the reasons i love her is that her sexiest asset is her brain.
goldie is one of the smartest ladies i've met in this endeavor.
Like I said in my opening like, I realize now it was my fault. Limitations on myself amoung other things. The other comments are what they are...but I am open to discussion.
For me, it's all about the partner. If she is enthusiastic about chasing down that second pop, the more likely I'll get there. It's things like dirty talk, teasing, eye contact, etc that get me over the hump. If a lady just offers up a unethusiastic hj for pop number two, it'll never happen.
. . . more than two cents worth. Good point.
Two great points here.
The girl's effort is almost always the deal breaker for me. It's easy to tell if she really wants to make you finish twice. That extra enthusiasm is incredibly sexy.
Also, having to pee always ruins it for me. I've had to literally stop and pee mid session multiple times. The girls have never cared and it's always made the difference for me.
So, make sure you pee before you have fun 