.....both men and women cheat. I'm a married woman and I still get plenty of action at home. I partake of this hobby because I like sexual variety without an additional commitment. There are many hobbyists like me out here

Not to burst any bubbles, but we only have one head and two eyes and ten fingers and toes like everyone else. If our leading "normal" lives didn't seem to be so offensive to a large portion of the clientele, you'd probably hear more about it. But, it "ruins the fantasy", so we generally play along like you pay us to because honestly, it's not a big deal to skip over that part of our lives. Kind of like I'm sure a lot of the guys do "in the moment" too

I would not want to get married to a larger portion of the population simply because I'm more aware of red flags from doing this. But, that's not to say I have anything against marriage, just doing it wrong. I think I had more than enough reasons to never want to before even starting this, so I can't exactly blame the hobby for anything more than continuing education in that area

And viola, they come to us to take care of the rest.

And have sex at least 4 times a week, sometimes more.....granted it hasnt always been like this but for the last two years its been a wild ride.....and we also play with others now.........and now looking into joining some of the local Adult clubs.......so there ARE still long time married couples sexing it up!!