To keep bugging her.
This happens all the time in the civie world. It has happened to me. I was wondering if it happens in the hobby. Is anyone willing to admit that they have prevented a client or provider from seeing someone they knew because they wanted to keep the client or provider for themselves only. I have known this particular provider for many years. she has many friends in the business and every time I ask about one of her cute friends she comes up with an excuse for why she can't introduce her to me. The last time I asked she said her girlfriend had a boyfriend.Lol The time before that she said she didn't know anyone that she could recommend to me. Really! You have been doing this for so many years and you will see me but you don't have any friends in the business that you could recommend. Did you block because of jealousy or was the sex or money too good to willingly share with another provider or hobby friend. don't say that the provider or client was too good for hobby friend or provider friend.Lol That's the excuse they use in the civie world.
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I see two girls regularly, both very different, and a third I see whenever she comes in to town going on 4 years or so. So I think I must be the "anti-cock blocker" type. LOL
The idea of saving these amazing women for myself is absurd. I can't tell you how many johns I have sent there way. Dozens, if not more, for just one girl specifically.
There is another whole world of p4p out of the limelight of TER. UTR girls or just a large contingent of contacts bc that keep in touch, letting ieach of us know when a certain girl is coming to town or if we knew of a new girl not yet reviewed. It's amazing info sharing and network building, very similar to civie business cultivating.
I realize what you are describing goes on, as there are jealousies in the businesses, both ways too. But I have been introduced to so many cool girls through the two I know so well. On several occasions, one has brought a friend to play without me knowing. Just a civie girl into kinky sex or experimentation. Nice perk!
Personally, I find it a HUGE turn on to read a guys review of a girl I intoduced him to. And getting an email from the gal telling me what really happened, or her version of the date, is interesting and kinda hot too.
So, no, I don't get the jealous thing in p4p, but I know full well it goes on. I have seen it numerous times, as I think any guy or girl has who has been in p4p for any real lentgth of time has as well.
Just don't let it get to your head. It MAY mean something, but most likely it's just a girl protecting her territory like any biz would. No biggee.
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Not always, but sometimes you find out you are giving free marketing to someone, and getting your clients stolen in return. But idk why it would be a surprise in this business. Sorry that's how they need to do business. It sounds miserable!
If a provider's name comes up from multiple people that she is trying to beg them not to see you, then it is something to note - don't send your clients to her ever again lol.
Here - get a wing man lol.
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...but I generally don't ask providers for the names & numbers of their provider friends.
This whore monger will be asking YOU for your provider's names and numbers! 
Based on the fact that you have you're own following of ladies who seem to have YOU on their to do list, I don't ever think you'll ever have to worry about being clam-jammed
It's not like the civi world at all ... it's all about the Benjamin's
far more often I have had gals introduce me to other gals they knew, and in most cases those gals have been good fits.
So I would not say it is a problem.
I can't say I have ever heard of a guy bad mouthing a gal he likes to keep other gals away from her either. When a gal is good I let people know to help her out and increase the odds that she will be successful and remain in the hobby
although I'm sure it can happen at times.
I'd suggest you simply reach out to other gals you'd like to see and book directly, instead of trying to convince your current fave to do something she clearly doesn't seem to want to do. Why do you need an "introduction" from her
...searching for these ladies independently could be the solution? It seems as though you may already know their names, so why not contact them directly? I'm not sure anyone could reasonably blame you for wanting to explore...that's what this is all about, after all.
Everyone in this business knows that trust is everything. It is always much easier to meet a provider if you know someone that she knows. I am more than capable of doing the research for myself to find a provider. However, i was interested in meeting one of her hot friends and I get the feeling that I am being told in a non verbal way not to "go there" or you will be cut off.Lol
To keep bugging her.
Service. (Fantasy, dirty talk, bi talk, etc.) Could also be an uncomfortable topic for her.
There is one thing when you mention a girl's name, and she responds, (you asked,) vs. her bringing up different girls' names.
Sounds like she's gently saying "sorry - I'm not bi" or, "you do your own research," or "are you really asking me to suggest you bring your money to another woman, and you want my help with that?" Or "I'm too shy to talk to other providers." OR "my agency leader has given me these five girls to promote, and if he/she finds out I promoted outside the agency, they'll cut off my clientele in return."
(Not all Indy's are really independent. It's a thing to advertise them as Indy's nowadays because of the honing down on agencies.)
Like I'm the boring, old reliable wife.
It isn't quite jealousy, but sort of. It feels like a little bit of a slam. "Hey, I keep seeing you so I think you're mostly satisfying, but not quite. Maybe your friend could do a little better?"
I think she likes you and she likes your little mini-relationship. It sounds like you like it too, so if you want variety, call up a new escort yourself. Your current girl will almost certainly not mind anything you do in all your other hours, but if you want her to keep acting like she's your girlfriend during your hour (or few) together, don't sprinkle in little bits of talking to her like she's an escort.
PS: Asking once was perfectly cool. Just, dude, take a hint.
(I know, I know, I could never work at WalMart lmao)
The guy asked for "doubles with a girl that was a little more wild and skilled". So my reply was something along the lines of...
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Next time some trick asks that type of question, just counter with ..."Do you have any better looking friends with more skill you can recommend me to?"
It isn't quite jealousy, but sort of. It feels like a little bit of a slam. "Hey, I keep seeing you so I think you're mostly satisfying, but not quite. Maybe your friend could do a little better?"
I think she likes you and she likes your little mini-relationship. It sounds like you like it too, so if you want variety, call up a new escort yourself. Your current girl will almost certainly not mind anything you do in all your other hours, but if you want her to keep acting like she's your girlfriend during your hour (or few) together, don't sprinkle in little bits of talking to her like she's an escort.
PS: Asking once was perfectly cool. Just, dude, take a hint.
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Later she did.
I'm telling you this is the case. Bi doesn't mean she wants to share everybody. She likes you. If you can't even tell, then it's obviously not in an unprofessional or obsessive way, but enough that seriously, quit asking to bang her friends.
Hey Marie,
Just curious, are you and Courtney friends?
That is a game changer or did you just add this because you didn't like the way the comments were going?
How would you feel if she kept asking you if you had any hot friends she could see? Over and over again just to build her client base and all. Some guys with more money you could recommend, you know younger, hotter, better in bed type guys.
And then there is you standing there with your limp dick in your hand as she keeps asking about other guys she might prefer to see OTHER THAN YOU.
How about you just do what other guys do and find your next piece of ass on the internet (do your own research you lazy shit) and stop asking her.
Dude,
You don't know what you are talking about. I did mention that she was the one to first suggest that I see her friend. She suggested this several times. I never said how many times I asked about her friend but for your info it was only twice. As far as I know, her friend could have put her up to suggesting that I meet her because her friend was there once when I visited her so she saw me. Do everyone a favor and stop attacking people.
You did not mention in your initial post that she mentioned anything regarding other women BUT you did say EVERY TIME i asked her about her cute girlfriends...
Then you added after the fact that she supposedly brought it up...which one is it?
Does she charge extra for baby sitting your sorry ass? Seriously there is a sale on thicker skin...go grab some.
Then you added after the fact that she supposedly brought it up...which one is it?
Does she charge extra for baby sitting your sorry ass? Seriously there is a sale on thicker skin...go grab some.
AAAHHH! Now I see why there is so much venom coming my way. It has nothing to do with me asking about her girlfriend. I think it could have something to do with the girlfriend being.... The providers tell guys what they are willing to accept all the time be it age, race or income in terms of what they charge. So I don't understand why some are getting their panties in a knot because I asked someone about a friend. Me thin skinned! I think I hit a nerve.
Expecting a hooker to be your personal shopper and show up with other hookers you might like. If she is not coming through for you (and clearly she doesn't want to), get off your fat ass and find your own next piece of ass.
And yes hookers set parameters as to their level of service and who they will see etc. (not unlike other businesses), but they don't go asking other hookers to pass on info from tricks they have seen so they can cold call them.
And no I could not care two dobs of goat shit who a trick I have seen, sees after he has left me. There are plenty of guys to go around.
If you have asked twice, then get a clue and leave it alone. She is not that interested in being your personal hooker pimp.
I was really surprised to find out that you were a hooker since you had such a hard on for me. Everything was fine until you had to come over here and try to bust my balls. I am sure there is a line of johns waiting outside your door. Why don't you go take care of that and leave us alone.