I have had them contact me, tell me they are traveling to my area, they have something new, etc... But always on PM here or by email. I never leave my "other" phone on unless I am using it.
Hey ladies,
I was wondering if you call your clients or do you wait for them to call you. I asked this question because a lady I had seen a month prior called me and asked if I was interested in seeing her again. I have only seen her maybe 3 times over the past year and I was surprised and pleased that she called because I am pretty laid back and I probably wouldn't have called her but I had a great time and I was surprised that she remembered me since I was not a regular. In fact, I am new at this. So, my question to the ladies is: Do you call clients for dates and which clients do you call? Do your call your regulars or do you call clients that you like?
I'll lay you odds right now you won't get a single hooker to say calling guys for dates is OK. You put up an ad or send out a blast email. Then it's up to the guys to respond. Calling them comes across as desperate.
... but potentially hazardous to the client.
I'd hope no provider would ever call a client without first confirming it's ok to call. Some clients may not mind getting calls out of the blue from providers. Others will mind very much.
Absolutely not. I live my life without drama, I assume others would like to do the same!
Abbey
.....or email/texts?
I am sorry! She texted me. Does it matter that she texted or called?
...called you. You're easy money. Also, it's near the end of the month. Still, it's not a good idea to cold call clients as others have said.
I've received invitations to have repeat visits via email and via text. I've received email invitations from ladies who I had been unable to meet previously who were then traveling in my area and wanted me to know. I've also had some notably delightful encounters with total strangers who approached me via PM on websites. So I think it's fine and I like it a lot. One huge caveat is I have no job or boss to hide this from and my wife totally supports me in my hobbying interests so no worries about been found out there either. If I had those kind of concerns maybe I wouldn't be so ok with this practice.
I don't know what her client base is like. Maybe she has a lot of clients or maybe only a few. Having said that, I still think that the last person you would want to contact would be someone you have only seen a few times unless something else was going on. Maybe I would have been a little more uncomfortable if she had called me instead of texting. All in all, it was beneficial for both of us.
Saying "come fuck me in the ass". Needless to say we were both disappointed when I replied: For free?
Moral of the story? Don't text/email/call me.
Just for casual conversation, or to let me know 'it's been too long' I'm always happy to get them but then again I am pretty careful when I choose who to see so more often than not we just sort of get along inside and outside the hobby. And yes, while the emails and texts come whenever, those who call will always text or email first asking if it's ok. Obviously YMMV, but for me this sort of back and forth has been all good so far.
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I've gotten texts, emails, and even occasional phone calls. Was never a problem. Was always from ladies I'd seen a few times. My ATF would call from time to time, sometimes to discuss marketing ideas, other times just to chat about her kids, family, share a funny story, etc. Never got my back up about it. In fact, I loved hearing from her. She knew my work schedule though, and always called me at work. I certainly understand the need for discretion. The escort's "code of silence". I just took the view that when I made the decision to put my dick in another woman's vagina (several, in fact) while still being married, that I opened the door for a some potential drama in my life. Big time. I did this with my eyes wide open. These are speaking, thinking, feeling women after all. Not rubber fuck dolls. If you really want zero drama in your life, take up some other hobby that doesn't involve getting naked with women. If your gonna hobby, be prepared to deal with it, and the fallout if your "found out". I know most hobbyists don't look at it this way, but I do. My 2c, for what it's worth. ~~~~Rob
I had to do this to one who text my home address with wife's name on it when I was not responding to her text. Look up her license plate and disclose some information to her that might make you think you are creepy. She won't call you again for sure lol.
I really hope that that was your last resort, because I can think of at least a couple of other ways that you could have gotten her to leave you and your family alone without resorting to the same kind of disgusting, threatening behavior that started this in the first place. And- bonus!- you wouldn't have come out of it looking like a scary asshole in the process lol
I received a random text one time when I stated NEVER TEXT! Needless to say I was not pleased at all it it was relayed as such. One other time I had contact after an appointment that questioned my review and why I presented the number I did. That was a bit out of line as well since I felt the review was dead on and the number more than fair she wanted it bumped up to help grab more clients maybe? In any event it was certainly odd to see an email from a provider after the fact being it was only one appointment.
My rule of thumb is to NEVER contact a client without their express permission to do so. Cold calling clients is not only a bad look... it's incredibly indiscreet. Not everyone is out in the open about their hobbying, and there are just too many potential ways for an unexpected call or text message to cause major problems for someone. The only exception is if a client has specifically asked me to let them know when I'm going to be in their area, or something of that nature.
The provider in your situation must have either felt pretty confident in the knowledge that you wouldn't mind being contacted out of the blue, or she felt that the risk of upsetting (and potentially losing) a client was worth the potential booking. Who knows. The good thing is that, in your case, everyone ended up getting exactly what they wanted-- Even if they didn't realize they wanted it lol.
Unless a client has specifically asked me to call him regarding setting up a session I would never cold call someone no matter how many times I've seen them or how much I enjoy their company. I just feel it's bad form and completely goes against so many gentleman's need for discretion.
-Eve
They call me when they want to see me.
In 7 years, I've only had one escort cold call me. I think her rent was due ...
I was wondering if you call your clients or do you wait for them to call you. I asked this question because a lady I had seen a month prior called me and asked if I was interested in seeing her again. I have only seen her maybe 3 times over the past year and I was surprised and pleased that she called because I am pretty laid back and I probably wouldn't have called her but I had a great time and I was surprised that she remembered me since I was not a regular. In fact, I am new at this. So, my question to the ladies is: Do you call clients for dates and which clients do you call? Do your call your regulars or do you call clients that you like?
...I have ladies asked to contact me by PM or email when they plan to visit my area again. I think that is pretty normal and is good for both of us IMHO. Otherwise it is up to me to call them.
If you're single and she knows it, then it's not a big deal. If she's unsure (and she should have been, since it had been a while since you last met), then it's a serious faux pas, since discretion is paramount in this game. I've had that happen and I don't see those ladies anymore.
Over the years there have been several ladies who have had the ok to call or text me on my personal phone anytime they felt like it.
Not all, but some have taken advantage of the offer and we have had opportunities for conversations whenever needed.
I have never minded being an ear to listen when they needed it.
In addition, I have been told by some to feel free to contact them via email, phone, text, anytime. Sometimes I have taken advantage of the offer, sometimes not.
But, that's just me. May not work for everyone.
I have had them contact me, tell me they are traveling to my area, they have something new, etc... But always on PM here or by email. I never leave my "other" phone on unless I am using it.
Smart and savvy businesswomen go out of their ways to court (returning) clients. Generally speaking done within reasonable limit they can make me feel wanted, desired, not just another soon-to-forgotten ATM machine on two legs... They also imply that they're needy...
I'd like to reward that. If everything else being somewhat equal and/or I'm on the fence a little personal touch will win me over.
That said of course I prefer texts over phone calls as they are more discreet.
For the marketing-challenged clueless or too-proud providers: yeah it's only potential business and money you're giving up so no big deal! LOL.
Man who is soo much in love with your body
I for instance always sharing my sleep dreams with my clients lovers
And I not making up a one word - I see HIM in my sleep dream all eager and aroused and hungry horny
Not enough of kissing
Him touching shameless all of my kissing me to biting my lips holding massaging breasts and getting his manhood between my legs, pressing with all his body. Leaning down to start kissing me knees inside of my hips... Those hot sleep dreams are soo vivid.. I can not just keep that to myself - I always share with man I saw in my sleep dream - and it happens just random - without me specially thinking ab his busses ... he is never ATM for me.. just. Male male to please me, male to kiss and gave him myself
I've told ladies that my hobby E Mail, phone etc is strictly for the hobby and they can leave a message any time. Lots of them will E mail you when the rent's due!