I've been with my fair share of providers and there are some that upon meeting I'd just prefer to not go down on. From reading others reviews on here though, I seem to be in the minority as a vast majority of the reviews involve dining at the Y for some time.
So ladies if a guy isn't interested in going down, does it upset you or is that no problem?
But with little to no foreplay for her, you better be a fan of lube. I am sure some ladies would have a problem with it, but only because it is expected and some appointments are DATY only. Sucks if she cuts your time short too, I mean DATY takes at least 15 mins or more out of your session... Besides your reviews will lack the plsyback of the multiple O's you have given her. Bummer.
And as a whole they would probably prefer that you didn't waste her time, but then again, it's your dime so knock yourself out.
EOM
-- Modified on 7/21/2015 10:21:00 PM
don't put YOUR face where you don't want it to go. What the hell. If you need to ask the ladies about this, I say you need a new perspective on things. You decide whether you want to or not. I'm sorry but the ladies feelings should not be considered in that as far as I'm concerned. Again, da fuckity fuck. So you're actually alluding to the admittance that you would go down on a woman if you didn't want to for whatever reason because of how she may feel about it. Maybe I'm just being an ass tonight but that some bizarre shit in my world. Da fuckity fuck is that?!!!! I'm basing this off of your first sentence by the way. You don't want to after meeting them, then DONT. No more information required from anyone.
-- Modified on 7/21/2015 7:59:45 PM
Maybe some ladies here will chime in with some stories of awful munchers who just won't stop until she has (to put on a show about having) a big O.
Remember, it's about *your* pleasure. As long as you're not doing anything hurtful, she can take pleasure in knowing that she showed you a great time.
Being on the receiving end of DATY is really very nice, but I don't think most/any ladies are upset if it doesn't happen. I've been a bit confused when the session is progressing and I haven't felt his lips there, but that's totally my issue, and it's because I am so used to it happening.
Generally, I don't encourage or discourage DATY. If they head that way (pun intended 
), then I am more than happy to enjoy it. And if they don't, we just do all the other fun things that adults like to do when they're naked in bed together.
Ultimately, no one should do anything sexually that they aren't comfortable with. And if you're not interested in giving kitty kisses to a woman, for whatever reason, then don't. It's your body, your choice.
-- Modified on 7/22/2015 8:30:21 AM
....because generally speaking most providers probably don't care one way or another. But lately I've been wanting a taste to really get my motor running. I'm sure that there were a few of the providers that I have visited who might have been curious about my oral skills, but unless they ask or push my head down there, its just a cursory exploration before they begin some DATY of their own.
I list what I like. It's not required that you do the things on my list. It's your time to spend the way you wish, and as long as you don't cross my boundaries, you can do what you like the best.
for you to reciprocate is a bonus for me
Why would a provider be offended..spend your time how you want. Now if a quy doesnt want a bj, then....whoa
It's rare to meet someone who doesn't like giving. I've met a few who are so disease conscious, they won't permit ANY contact that could put them at risk. Still, it's just not some people's bag. There are so many creative things to do in bed, it just changes the flavor of the session.
Cheers!
If I was dating a guy and he wouldn't go down on me I'd dump him, fast.
Hobbying is different. It's the guy's time, and my goal is to make him happy. Some guys love going down, so if he wants to make me cum that way, I'm happy to oblige.