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re: nonresponse from me by Brooke April
Brooke April 11459 reads
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I would just like to say that I have replied to EVERY e-mail that I have ever gotten except to those that gave me misleading information.  If a "potential" gives me false info about themselves, in order for me to verify them, then I will no longer converse with them... no more e-mails.  I did have a technical problem just recently that caused me not to get any e-mails and even deleted some of the ones I already had.  If I didn't reply to your e-mail, then it's a pretty good chance I didn't get it.  For that inconvenience I am sorry, but it was by no fault of my own.  If you would still like to get together with me, or even chat, then by all means please try to contact me again.  I do check my e-mail daily, except when I am on location shooting a movie, and I have been asured that the problem will not happen again.  Those of you at TER that know me know that I am a very responsive and responsible provider.  My e-mail is :  [email protected]     I look forward to hearing from you soon.
Brooke

Looking for info about Brooke April.  Interested in seeing her, but am curious as to donation, pics etc.

I emailed her over the weekend and have not gotten a reply. Makes it hard when that's the only way to contact her.

Odd.  I got replies from her about two weeks ago fairly promptly.  I haven't set up an appointment yet, but she seemed fairly quick at returning my emails then.  Maybe she got really busy or had to leave town?

BKMan

You can read a review on Brooke off my link.  Note to Staff - I filled out all of the Provider info to note she works out of San Diego - it appears my review is link back to the main Boston provider page info.  This may make it harder to find.

Brooke quoted me $350/hr or $450 for 2 hours.  I took the two hour option.  We have a great time - and I would welcome the chance to visit with her again.

Fitguy

mssmarterthandkotasdog10468 reads

Stay as far away from DKOTA as possible. Since providers don't get to write reviews on "bad news" hobbyist, this is my best effort to warn you all about this person.  He is as bad as it gets, huge ego but nothing to back it up and all the accompanying problems you could imagine in your worst dreams.  Be careful out there!!

Perhaps you have me confused with someone else, I am a part time hobbyist who to the best of my recollection has never had a problem with a provider.

mssmarterthandkotasdog12075 reads

No, I don't have you confused with anyone. You're the guy.


Enough.

I struggle with these provider based warnings. I have no way to verify either argument except by posting history and reputation.

This sub-thread can quickly turn into something ugly enough to get you both banned from TER.

I don't want details of what happened to be posted, nor will I allow this discussion to proceed.

A warning to all should be sufficient.

Brooke April11460 reads

I would just like to say that I have replied to EVERY e-mail that I have ever gotten except to those that gave me misleading information.  If a "potential" gives me false info about themselves, in order for me to verify them, then I will no longer converse with them... no more e-mails.  I did have a technical problem just recently that caused me not to get any e-mails and even deleted some of the ones I already had.  If I didn't reply to your e-mail, then it's a pretty good chance I didn't get it.  For that inconvenience I am sorry, but it was by no fault of my own.  If you would still like to get together with me, or even chat, then by all means please try to contact me again.  I do check my e-mail daily, except when I am on location shooting a movie, and I have been asured that the problem will not happen again.  Those of you at TER that know me know that I am a very responsive and responsible provider.  My e-mail is :  [email protected]     I look forward to hearing from you soon.
Brooke

I've found Brooke to be very easy to communicate with via email.

Fitguy

I tried to contact Brooke through TER mail.  I'll try writing to her email address directly now.

Brooke April12229 reads

I would just like to start off and say that I now know why there has been a posting of "nonresponse to e-mails" sent to me.  First of all, it is quite likely that a few were not received because of the technical support problems that I had recently experienced.  However, from coming into contact with a few of you here at TER, I now know what I beleive is the real problem.  It seems as though several members of TER were sending me e-mails to my TER Mailbox, despite the fact that in EVERY posting I have written on TER I have given instructions to be e-mailed directly To My Yahoo Address if anyone would like to contact me!  I have basic/free memebership here and do NOT have the ability to pick up, read, or respond to any e-mails in my TER Mailbox.  Hence, my instructions in Every posting.  So, if any of you are still e-mailing me here at TER then please stop.  I will not get them.  You need to e-mail me at:  [email protected]
Thak you.

I would also like to address the issue of my timing for response to e-mails.  I do try very hard to check my Yahoo mailbox on a daily basis, but sometimes I am physically unable due to working or not enough time to respond.  (IE: If I am filming, working a convention, trade show, doing a photo shoot, t.v. pilot/show, music video, or even just having a once-in-a-great-while day off.  Most events are done on location - sometimes very remote - & I do not have a computer with internet access handy with me.)  Also, please keep in mind that I do get about 250 - 350 e-mails per week!  I answer all of them that have a question or comment.  So, please be a little understanding & patient if it takes me a day or two to respond to your e-mail.  I sometimes spend hours just typing to try to address as many as possible.

The only other reason may be the sole reason why I have had to setup my screening process.  I have met some real "doozies", and it has become a necessary safety issue for me.  I think it my be doubling important because of my PS status.  My process is this; I am contacted me via my Yahoo address, I verify them with the info. they provide, and then I give them my contact information.  I would like to state upfront that the Main reason for noresponse has been either the verifying info. is false, the individual openly expresses hostility towards women &/or providers, I have made several appoinments with them and they have repeatedly flaked without even giving me a cancellation call, or they want to use me as a device to flaunt & create jealousy &/or hurt emotionally their spouses/ex's.  I do not tolerate any of this behavior.  I stop e-mailing them, and never deal with them again.  I sometimes even get e-harassed because I will not meet witht them & comply with their sick little scenarios.  Hence, the reason i started my screening process.  I am sure that you all here at TER can understand these reasons.  So, in the future, please contact me at my Yahoo address ([email protected]) and I do hope that this helps clarify everything.  I look forward to seeing some of you soon.
Sincerely,
Brooke

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