Since I am gone.. I will not feel embarrassment. if you have RESPECT for your partner you will not leave any thing that will cause pain Like your reviews or ATF list or even her panties unless they may think you are a cross dresser. Most toys if gender specific should not cause embarrassment since I am sure the person who finds them knows you don't get much.
I am always amazed at the gents who keep a hobby kit. WTF are you stupid! A item her and there do not a picture make. But do not leave the entire painting.