Just like the ads that say "This is not an offer for prostitution" are true as well, aren't they?

Since I am actually looking for a prostitute when reading such ads, I simply skip over them since they clearly state that they don't offer what I am looking for, please don't tell me that I am missing out on actual hookers by not responding to those ads.

I don't usually see anyone for more than an hour.

... and then chase every ISO up and down the coast.  Go figure.

When I got into this, I started by emphasizing a connection. Why? It was what was missing in my life. I had everything else, including the money.

The mention of being "particular" was a shot at capturing the attention of men who wanted some chemistry.

Turns out, most of us want chemistry and that one liner alone isn't going to solve the issue. Which may be why 2 hour minimums are set. Not to filter out guys who don't understand the woman's chemistry desire, but primarily to be taken more seriously. As well as allowed the time to connect mentally and play. Connect mentally sounds deep, but my point is 2hrs gives room to laugh, play, get to know, etc.  

I've failed to consistently be particular and am making the adjustments as a summer project. One thing for sure is that some of us can, those who emphasize being particular, do a better job at "filtering." Some ladies have reached that optimal point already. There are reasons we who aren't consistent don't always stick to it and I honestly in my heart don't think its because of money. There's a learning curve that I would blame.

.......as well as statements like "only upscale gentlemen" the type of value and importance that they really merit - NONE.

meanwhile the pro has 125+ reviews on TER and tours the States like she's about to face deportation and the American girls average 20 clients a week. AVERAGE

I'm very Particular. Arrangements, Chemistry and My Peeps!

I am particular

I don’t mind 1hr clients, I actually think these are great! Keeps the suspense going in the arrangement.  It’s the one-timers, collectors and out of towners I’m not so fond of…but then that’s because I prefer arrangements.

Many of my clients are repeats and I often say no to new screenings based on job title, race/socio-economic background, location and or referrals.  
I have a physical type that I like and prefer to be around a man with a few common interests to my own…
Weight has not come up, but I’m not surprised. Americans (esp Californians) are ‘look-ist,’ and I don’t see a lot of companies or middle management run by overweight people.  

If anything, my clients tend to be eerily similar- healthy, wealthy, disciplined, clean, well mannered and middle-upper class. Handsome.
Strangely enough, the better looking they are, the nicer they tend to be, too.
It’s usually the runts that have the prickliest of personalities.

I have to discriminate.
I require work verification for all my clients, but I am especially weary of anyone under 34 and non white. Unfortunately, they are put under more scrutiny during screening and communication is key.
I don’t care about being politically correct when it comes to my physical safety and well being.  And unfortunately, stereotypes are often more true than not…  
Luckily, most of the men who screen with me provide their work info. rather than referrals from their other Providers.  So, no biggie…

*Also, if I don’t like the way a client does something, or if he fails to do something important for me- he talks too much, is clingy, draining, bad in ^&*, etc… it’s too much of a drain of energy. It’s not a match.

At the end of the day, I don’t really make money of one timers. It’s my repeats that keep me interested and in business. I do my best to earn and keep their business.  

I prefer getting a msg from someone I genuinely have chemistry with- knowing I am going to enjoy a wholly satisfying session with them- it’s wonderful…

So, yes- I am particular and thanks to my Peeps, I can afford to be

With the way  everyone throws around all the marketing slogans I think they all have become worthless.  

I simply try to reflect my personality in my ads and my likeness in my photos. Hopefully that will spark your interest and if you are looking for any particular qualities you can find out when we communicate.  
Anyone can pay someone to write an ad saying they are well educated and can acclimate to any environment, but when you start to communicate and you can barley decipher what she is saying and she is planning on wearing her new stripper heels and a fishnet mini to a Broadway play chances are she's full of it. When you send a couple of wasteful or rude communications and stop getting a reply you should be able to tell she has some standards.

I was actually discussing this w someone w last night. I feel my (everyone's) marketing and price will set certain expectations. When I show up I feel I should show that I will meet all those expectations within the first few min of our meeting. It's frustrating that so many of you guys have to be worried (sometimes w good reason) about turning away someone who falcly advertised.  I spoke to someone who would say something came up w him and he can't do the appointment and give the girl 100 if she wasn't what she was supposed to be. He was afraid of her retaliating if he told her its was because she wasnt what he was expecting. If the girls who used some of these terms way too loosley kept getting sent home empty handed maybe they would stop. Then maybe some terms would regain their value and make everyone's life easier.

I have lots of money but I have been screened out.

She emailed me back that she didn't know any of the ladies I used as references asked if I had any others. Sadly at the time the answer was no as I had just got an all is good after some major health issues that knocked me out of the hobby for the most part (I seen a few favorites who would understand some of the issues my health caused) the previous few years. A year latter we hooked up as I seen some more ladies and she knew them. It happens.

But I think with anything, if you have to repeat it over and over, it loses meaning.

Do you even know what kind of emails we get? lol! Being financially stable enough to ignore the ones who can't be bothered to type a whole sentence, set an appointment up within 20 emails, or who pop up on blacklists can move a lady into the "very particular" zone very quickly, depending on where she is and the type of market she's dealing with. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to do that, but almost everyone has a line where they'll say "no... not even for the money", and you would be surprised how often that situation comes up before an appointment is even set.  
 
Beyond some of the emails that make you question the entire male gender, there's also just flat out screening. Again, depending on the market, you're going to have at least a few people who think that simply having cash is enough to see you, making that group fall out of the "Potential client" category before they send even the first time wasting email. And when you factor in all the different ways screening can be handled, it's pretty obvious that a woman can be more or less particular about who she meets. Some want you to call on the phone and promise you're not a cop, some want even more than employment verification. This alone makes your comment "I've yet to see any hooker screen out the dudes who have the dough" very confusing. You're either offering her that full time job from a few months ago up front, or playing in very different fields than you've been telling us  
 
And then of course there is the behavior in appointments. Some women won't even see you if they hear that you like face slapping, are high energy, enjoy role play, are extremely overweight, or over or under a certain age. Those are all examples of women being picky about who they meet with. Some are even particular enough that they will kick you out for bad behavior. Again, not everyone is lucky enough to be in this position, but showing up cash in hand isn't even a guarantee when you think about it. Some can and will ask you to behave like a gentleman or get out of their sight.  
 
The above is mostly educational, not necessarily directed at anyone in particular. This just seems to be a very common misconception - that if you have cash, you can kind of behave however you want. Sure, you may be able to get away with a little more than with your wife or civilian girlfriend, but if you think you're going to rest on that excuse for much, then you're going to be stuck in the dregs of back page almost as fast as a bait-and-switch girl.  
 
You, Sug, are light trolling, I know. But you're throwing some very particular shade lately for someone who never has trouble flashing the cash and getting the girl