i am always fascinated by reading reviews, and one thing i just do NOT understand.........WHY would ANYONE see a provider who had done a cash and dash??????? i dont care if you have 1 or 100 great reviews after reading that you have done a cash and dash, i would NEVER EVER consider seeing you, and it shocks me that people STILL see providers that do this, what is the reasoning for this? they is no pussy worth the possibilty of someone stealing my money, so i am really just curious why this is allowed to happen, or why those providers are "forgiven" and given a second,or third chance..........like i said im bored and like to read.........
Maybe they think they are special and that the hooker/john will be perfect for them...sorry VGL. I really have no good reason unless it is stupidity.
You must be having not just a bad day...but a bad decade!
Desperation can make people do some crazy things. It's sad and terrible, but it's true. At least that's definitely the case for some providers.
I have a much harder time understanding why a hobbyist would pay money to potentially get ripped off/disappointed/scabies lol. Not when there are soooo many other options to choose from!
but scabies beats incurable viruses all of you girls knowingly spread
ok, not ALL but most of you spread knowingly or otherwise. There should
be a TER section for those who have herpes. Help get rid of the stigma and
you could charge more.
I have a much harder time understanding why a hobbyist would pay money to potentially get ripped off/disappointed/scabies lol. Not when there are soooo many other options to choose from!
UM, wow... sounds like you got burned and not in a good way. WTF are you still doing here if you're a bigger germ farm than that monkey in 'Outbreak.'
People like people who are similar to themselves. So if the guy is crappy, he may seek out crappy providers. And also if someone has low self esteem, they don't want someone "too good" for them so they aim low. But I agree, it's funny and sad to read some guys reviews who seem to pick really poorly over and over and over!!! There was a funny one I read a while ago- he had like 20 reviews of BP girls who would cash and dash him or were drug skinny, had mysterious "spots" on her body, pimps, disgusting incalls, etc. Only one or 2 of his reviews were positive.
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As far you OP. Are you talking one review? How many other reviews were there. What did they say about the provider?
As far as hbyst. A "bad date"? That can be subjective as all get out. As with the OP, hope you mean a pattern. From several ladies. Shit, several for you can be a threshold of Two. Lol. Just hope its more than ONE.
Whatever, you both have the right to feel what you want. Again, I just can't stand extremes nor short-sidedness
By a bad date I mean he was/is known to be rough, short the fee,try and take off the condom... the type of behavior I would think a safety conscious hooker might want to avoid. I have seen reports that plainly stated, ..."a reference said he was rough but I thought what the heck, let's give him another chance"... And there she was writing a report because he did the same to her. When I read that I think FUCKING STUPID!!!
Yep...what a shock LOL
The nonsense that people post for their own reasons...hysterical.
I've read some of that crap...and it's about as funny as the reviews at times. But then someone like you believes it.
And I hope any intelligent mind understands the loopholes, bs and nonsense on some of those sites. It's so obvious a lot of times though isn't it? Lol. How many have you read up there, where you're like.....um, obviously the poster is on crack. Sooooo. Lol. We nee to send the grammar police over there to start Bob. That's the first thing! Lol. Get to doing some real good mofos!!! Lol.
I get where you're coming from. Which was my overall point to start with. I hope the negativity one is talking about towards a person is of more than one testimony. However, in regards to safety, that is touchy. Shit, if I was lady, I don't know if I would need more than one. With that said, the good providers, the intelligent ones, the structured ones, know that there are multiple screening methods. The best is still provider to provider. Multiple of direct personal references or sites like the famous reference driven one these days. Of course, even they are not fail proof but surely better than the sites of which you speak. Lol.
They get this game...show up...pay...leave. No nonsense. And then rinse and repeat.
Same with the hookers...they do their thing...suck/fuck...on to the next thing.
There are risks in life. Having some guy want to fuck a gal for an hour is not on the list of serious injuries. I get that some hookers would rather not have to fuck for an hour...but then that is the game. Trying to determine from an email/text/phone is not going to get that for them. Reading some hooker bitch on a private site that Johnny wanted to "get his money's worth" is often times code for various other issues.
Sorry...but when a hooker wants to bitch about hating this world they are stuck in is just pathetic. To guise it that there are soooooo many bad dudes who want to fuck them silly...is just stupid as well.
The good hookers know how to move the action. The shit ones bitch on here about having to fuck johns.
If they want to experience a dangerous situation....maybe they should apply to be a firewoman/policewoman/military woman. Being a hooker is pretty low on the "risk" factor IMHO.
I get where you're coming from. Which was my overall point to start with. I hope the negativity one is talking about towards a person is of more than one testimony. However, in regards to safety, that is touchy. Shit, if I was lady, I don't know if I would need more than one. With that said, the good providers, the intelligent ones, the structured ones, know that there are multiple screening methods. The best is still provider to provider. Multiple of direct personal references or sites like the famous reference driven one these days. Of course, even they are not fail proof but surely better than the sites of which you speak. Lol.
The last sentence I just don't know but I slightly understand your narrative there. I think you and I are both scientifically driven minds. I don't know about you but I truly am. Being a hooker surely can have its potential dangerous element to it, no? How high of a risk you want to take that in comparison to those others you mentioned, is up to you. All I will say is, where are we getting the real stats for this? It's hard enough to get real stats for regulated enterprises is it not? So one that is not regulated. Ummmmm?
And even if we were to pull up published stats...all depends on who published them and for what purpose.
Given the available methods to try and determine that a guy/gal isn't a psycho serial nutcase...most "smart" gals are at low risk of anything bad happening (again IMHO). I've been on this particular board for over 5 years now...and can count on one hand the number of public posts of a serious problem. That sure seems like the overall "risk" to either side is minimal. I'm aware that some of that shit never gets posted as well...but eventually something is discussed elsewhere.
And FWIW most of the hookers that I've discussed this topic with rarely are not equipped to deal with a nutcase. And I'm not talking about just having a big mouth to yell at the dude LOL Again...have rarely heard of a situation that required the use of force/violence to stave off some guy.
The bigger issue the hookers have are the stalker nutcases who honestly bought the GFE shit. Those tools have NO problems texting/calling/emailing and physically stalking a gal post session. The smart ones know how to deal with those issues as well...and in years of reading here (and other sites)...only a couple of instances which required some serious recourse on those nutcases.
Last I checked guys are hiring hookers to fuck.
Are we discussing something like shark baiting or something?
Thank heavens most of the hookers actually enjoy fucking. And any guys can easily pick out the ones that just hate that they have to do this.
That's also why the guys have their sources to discuss this. Have you read any of the shit on the hookers private sites about this? It's hysterical LOL
As if you should need this example to understand, but what if that was your daughter, your sister, your friend?
Hbyist clarified what she meant by bad date. In all honesty, even if she was talking about things outside of safety, that's her right too. We don't have to see her. Lol. Not at all and surely not twice! You understand me?!!
And nope...I don't worry about their safety as they are smart women.
But then they also like having sex (with men). The poster h+t simply hates sex with men....she's posted that numerous times and continues to state that. It's fine...but it's far from a safety issue. Simply a disdain for having to prostitute herself.
If you'd like to see her posts prior to this handle...shoot me a PM and you can see the history and decide for yourself. I don't think TER would allow me to post her old handle publicly...but all the posts are still there.
The sad part is there are indeed a percentage of hookers who hate doing this. It's almost as bad as being enslaved from what I read. I wish they had options...but without the requisite skills to work in mainstream America they have to do this and hate themselves everyday of their lives.
I trust you know of people like this.
Hbyist clarified what she meant by bad date. In all honesty, even if she was talking about things outside of safety, that's her right too. We don't have to see her. Lol. Not at all and surely not twice! You understand me?!!
I don't need the rest of her history. I know her type and her mindset. Without question. Just like I know of another famous female posters mindset. She tries to cover it up more while seeming to be a little daring but she doesn't fool ME. Plus the couple of foreign representatives we have floating this board, lol. And yes, just to keep it 100 full-circle because I'm me. A lot of these men don't fool me either. Lol.
I gotcha but you're not going to change her. What's the point of going after her constantly about what she says or the way she thinks? Let her think what she wants and do how she wants. In this hobby and out of it. She is not wrong on everything. She has some good points and some bad! Don't we all! 
Again, in terms of this hobby....We do not have to see her or anyone we do not want to. If you happen to meet her and the date is not to your liking, then I would hope you would know that it's ok bc there is nothing forcing you back.
She is here under THAT name for guys just like you are being to her. Hbyist+Truth=;( I mean no shit. Provider+Truth=;( It's just as true. Lol. Why? Bc Humans+Truth=;( Lol. Not all humans are liars or have blurred vision. Not all providers not all hbyist either but damn if it's not enough of them around. That will always be the case because you are dealing with humans. Gender has nothing to do with it. Stop allowing her to fuel your flames Bob or whatever, continue what you are doing. I mean it's a Free Board for the most part . Heeeeey Admin! Lol.
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who gives a fuck?
I guess the ones who won't be friends with you are the dumb ones?
Newsflash: There are hookers that hate having sex with men; some disdain prostituting themselves. Bob Sugar reporting live at 5!
Please share the handle. Like, we couldn't actually decide for ourselves. Sugar to the rescue, saving all the dumb Johns!
The sad part is there are indeed a percentage of tricks who think they are THE SHIT. I trust you know at least one person like this.
We can do the Waffle House?
I guess the ones who won't be friends with you are the dumb ones?
Newsflash: There are hookers that hate having sex with men; some disdain prostituting themselves. Bob Sugar reporting live at 5!
Please share the handle. Like, we couldn't actually decide for ourselves. Sugar to the rescue, saving all the dumb Johns!
The sad part is there are indeed a percentage of tricks who think they are THE SHIT. I trust you know at least one person like this.
there was more than just one provider with these types of reviews, one was a VERY well know provider, these are NOT BP girls, a few had awesome reviews, a few were crappy, but when i see 10 more raving reviews AFTER the bad ones, im just thinking WTF, i can see 1 or 2 or maybe even more being lies, but that is why we do our research, to weed out these types, i guess im just very jaded, if you burn me or anyone once i refuse to give you a chance.......but im also surprised at people making comments about pictures, and ages, if they say they are 26 ish on thier profile, yet you can tell they are NOT, dont get all pissed when you see them in person they clearly look 40, i get that this is all supposed to be "for entertainment purposes only" but when i read a girl stole someones cash, i am no longer entertained.
I think a lot of men and women are jaded from this shit for various reasons but that's a whole other discussion. I understand your sentiments. I do. Earned money is important. Don't get me wrong. Please don't and it's good to be diligent in your research. It is. Without question. I understand you on that.
And let others do what they feel is necessary. You cannot control how other johns write reviews.
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Let's start there. By the way. So, is this world. Hobby is a subset of this world. So there. Johns are no different than men and hookers are no different than women. There is a whole lot of bullshit involved is what I'm saying. I'm not saying your thoughts are unjustified entirely but come on. Until you experience a person directly, you never know the truth. It's still hearsay. Especially if there is not multiple occurrences of a negative thing whatever that may be. Now, our money is less important than a providers safety. So their tolerance on those sort of comments from other providers even if just from one provider, is understandable in my mind. Safety is a serious fucking issue. For women and men but especially for women in this hobby. Money, "bad times", oh she didn't like sucking my dick, oh he is just in this for the sex, oh this, oh that. Fucking child's play.
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you are correct..........i always take the reviews as 5% truth and 95% fantasy.
I will say this though. Shit, if there aren't a lot of females included. In the hobby too. Yes sir. I shall not go further but shit! Smh. Wow is all I will say. Lol. It is surely and predominantly more of a male issue though IMO. Lol. Men get aroused and lose common sense. The research phase is surely included! For sure. Agreed. Lol.
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