Just buy the hotel you want her to use. Adds a bit of additional cost to the session....but I can afford it.
I had a provider give me an address of her nice upscale hotel incall location. Everything seemed normal. When I confirmed the location again the day before our meeting, the location had suddenly changed to low scale hotel instead. When I balked, she was somehow able to re-locate back to the original upscale location in order to avoid me canceling.
This seems odd, right?
...so she tried to save $ by changing hotels. When she saw you were reluctant to go the the other hotel, she figured that something was better than nothing.
So to the OP, why was it so important to you to see her in this upscale hotel? I'd completely understand that you don't want to stay at the other hotel, but you're going to be with her for what 2 hours maybe, I'd be paying attention to her and her body for that amount of time and couldn't care less ( within reason) what hotel I'm seeing her in.
In fact, if I was her only appointment, or only one of a few, Id rather her save money on the hotel room. Remember the motivation for providers is to make money, if you cut into that profit margin because you don't want to see her in a lower rates hotel, then I'd imagine her performance may be less than spectacular. I look at it this way, if the lady is comfortable, then she's going to give me her best, and that's what I'm there for.
it does not seem odd and certainly wouldn't be a deal-breaker for me.
Upscale hotels, as well as "upscale" anythings in life can have their perks. But I, many times, will have just as much fun, if not more, in less ostentatious venues. A mixture of both are ideal, I have found.
My priorities in meeting providers are more focused on the lady herself, and the other issues I need to deal with. However, if the particular hotel was important to you and you let her know that, that's good communication and I hope things went well for both of you.
I don't even get the exact location of where she is staying until a few hours before the meeting. So it is impossible to tell if she was at a different place the night before.
In rare cases when I am seeing someone I've known for years, will I know the location the night before.
You are over analyzing it. Unless there was an imminent threat to privacy ( like a motel with doors facing the parking lot) it would not be a big deal for me if she changed her location from 4 Seasons to Holiday Inn
they may have cheesy commercials, but they have upgraded all of their hotels within the past handful of years.
crowne plaza with that chain is what you have to worry about.
and four seasons... may be pricey, but many are dated. and many need a key card to get to the floor. some have security at the entrance... what a hassle to have to worry about if the one you selected is a pita.
i would much rather consistency on what someone considers lower end then a who knows until you get there that some consider luxury.
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The newer ones will have more sophisticated things, while the older ones might lack some of the bells and whistles, they will always have the charm and personality second to none.
There are lot of older hotels in DC which demand top dollar, but have elevators that are sluggish as a snail. Churchill Hotel comes to mind.
I was in South Beach several years ago and I could not find a single hotel there, even at $300+ per night, offseason that I would consider staying in. The facades look great, but the rooms sucked balls, I ended up in a Quality or Comfort Inn, a couple of miles off the beach that had rooms MUCH better for maybe a hundred bucks.
Its' funny, I travel a LOT, enough that one year I made Diamond status with Hilton and Platinum status with Marriott, both in the same year. When I looked at my stays, I bet you 90% of them were at the "limited service" hotels like the Hampon or Fairfield Inns. I actually prefer them to the full service Hotels unless it's a resort hotel and I am there on vacation.
If I need something for utilitarian reasons, then I will go with average hotel. If I am in Vegas for 3-4 days on a vacation, you bet I am going to go for the best ones.
Not to mention reliable wifi, and that it be clean and modern.
Now when I go on vacation, yes I want to step it up, and I can't ever remember not getting a suite when in Vegas.
perfect match
crowne plaza with that chain is what you have to worry about.
and four seasons... may be pricey, but many are dated. and many need a key card to get to the floor. some have security at the entrance... what a hassle to have to worry about if the one you selected is a pita.
i would much rather consistency on what someone considers lower end then a who knows until you get there that some consider luxury.
xo
When considering the tier of hotel and the cost, would most providers say that the amount of bookings or request that she would receive dictate the amount that she would like to spend for a hotel? Although when considering your bottom line, it would seem that you would like to keep cost low and revenues high. However for certain appearances, would you need to spend more money on the hotel depending on whom you are seeing and also due to the fact that there could be a review that would elaborate on the hotel after the date?
Even within a hotel there can be a low end and a high end room. Many room types are "requested but not guaranteed."
You can request a high level ocean view, but if someone who has status also requests it, they will get it. 
The point is, there is more research behind a hotel then just its name.
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unless you are on a mission to collect toiletry products, why should it matter where one stays?
i have actually found nicer toiletry products at cheaper hotels (excluding boutique nyc hotels).
i have found more comfortable beds at motel 6s when I'm traveling with my dogs then i have found at $400 hotels.
i would love it when i lived in vegas and people were so concerned about a nicer hotel yet didn't bother to care that the wynn along with countless others are on the bed bug registry list and the cosmo has some of the most marshmallow beds on the planet!
there are some nice crowne plazas and some crappy ones.
there are some amazing motel 6s and some crappy ones.
"don't judge a book by its cover."
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What you say about hotels is very true. However, that statement applies for any "book". It is so much more fun and adventurous to turn a few pages before forming an opinion.
I'm sure that many of us have pre-judged or had certain expectations about dates, only to be disappointed or very pleasantly surprised. I myself, wouldn't let the hotel dictate that
....as long as the low scale isn't a vermin infested deathtrap, that is 
I haven't had a switcheroo from high to low, but I have had a provider change the location to one 50 miles away an hour before our session. Since it was a nice drive to a beautiful area to see a hot lady, I didn't mind. But I wouldn't want to make a habit of it.
Did she tip you and give you some Godiva's for your trouble?
Lol no.....but she did show her appreciation in other ways 
Reading between the lines here...she was so grateful of your commute, she allowed you to stay your entire time or she had many orgasms for you.
Either way, that was very nice of her! :
Neither of the above.....and yes it was!
happens quite often..just recently i had an appointment all set up when she changed hotels only hours before i was to arrive..she said she was spooked by LE concerns at her original venue..the ladies know where to go and where they feel comfortable..it simply makes sense and makes for a much better session when they do..
Hookers that stay one step ahead of the coppers are an aphrodisiac for me.
Its the closest thing we may ever have to "fugitive sex" and any George Costanza devotees out there know, that is the best sex you can have. Much better than the conjugal visit sex. lol
I have often booked as the gentleman confirms a few hours before.... I hate getting stuck with a room and no company. Last time, I trusted a long time hobbyist and he stuck me with a cancellation. Live and learn. I don't mind getting up to half of my rate, if I am procuring a client. And yes some chains are better in some areas than others. I always say if the location is not up to his liking, I am more than willing to outcall and possibly not charge a fee.
Only thing I have noticed is a growing instance or impatience with giving an exact location the night before. I get a couple hours before, but I don't like the sitting duck syndrome. Call me paranoid or call me cautious but you will get the exact location when en route and the room number when you are parked. Lol!
Just buy the hotel you want her to use. Adds a bit of additional cost to the session....but I can afford it.
Not unusual for this to happen as some females would rather just hurry up and save the extra dollar its about instant gratification for them not the quality of the individual. Therefore don't be scared but i would put too much effort into someone like this. You run with dogs your likely to catch fleas. Same goes for the hobbyist.
in the room?
I think this gal knows the answers however.
There is a crappy hotel close to me, I never really want to go there and I haven't been there yet. Any time I try to see someone who is supposedly there, they never answer the phone once I arrive.
It's comical to me at this point.
If I'm paying for a top level provider....at top rates....I don't think it's too much to expect a top level hotel incall location. Especially, if that's whats offered at the booking process.
Seeing a 5 Star provider at a Motel 6 cheapens the whole experience.
This seems odd, right?
It's simple.. If you're paying $500 an hour and booked three hours, sure.. She can spend more than $69 on a hotel room.
If you're paying $300 and you're her only date of the day and you're staying an hour.. Why would someone want to spend $150 on a hotel room?
Still, did you bother to search the hotel?
Was it actually a motel 6 that the lady moved to?
You stated your case, you got a lot of valuable feedback, which is rare for this board at times.
Feel free to take it or feel free to not take it.
It's a hotel room. Not your weekly summer vacation.
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