For the purpose of this question, let's only consider traditional 1-hour escort or maybe FBSM appointments. It's pretty hard to have an after-hobby activity when doing a 4-hour dinner and dessert, let alone an overnight. Anyway, when you go hobbying, what do you usually like to do after your appointment, meaning later that day/night? Any specific activities that make seeing a provider feel more fun for you than it really was? Do you like to do something exciting or something low-key? Or do you simply want to go sit at home and type up your TER review?
If my appointment is in the afternoon, I like to go to a meat market club. Then I park my ass in a comfortable chair, sit back with a big grin on my face, relax every muscle in my body, and watch guys get rejected on the dance floor time and time again. Maybe I'll strike up a conversation or two, but with a very detached mindset. Conversely, I also like to go to a bar where *friendly* women hang out, and use my new-found confidence boost to get a civvie's phone number. If it's an evening appointment, I just phone in a pizza order after leaving the incall, pick it up, and rent a raunchy comedy from Redbox. If the comedy directly references the hobby, all the better. Maybe also get a 6-pack from a local liquor store, with the clerk wondering why the hell I'm grinning like that. Then I veg out by the TV, enjoying my food and the sexual buzz in my head. Not a bad way to cap off the evening.
Then I can simply stay in bed, turn the game on and enjoy my beer and pizza in peace.
Which is why I LOVE hookers, after civvie sex how the fuck can you enjoy your beer and pizza, much less even hear the game when the woman is still there asking you "what are you thinking about?" WTF, I am a guy, I don't think about anything after sex, there's simply not enough blood left to fuel both heads.
I feel the same way lol, but replace the beer with Vodka and the Pizza with a Calzone.
Which is why I LOVE hookers, after civvie sex how the fuck can you enjoy your beer and pizza, much less even hear the game when the woman is still there asking you "what are you thinking about?" WTF, I am a guy, I don't think about anything after sex, there's simply not enough blood left to fuel both heads.
I'm very emotional.
If my appointment is in the afternoon, I like to go to a meat market club. Then I park my ass in a comfortable chair, sit back with a big grin on my face, relax every muscle in my body, and watch guys get rejected on the dance floor time and time again. Maybe I'll strike up a conversation or two, but with a very detached mindset. Conversely, I also like to go to a bar where *friendly* women hang out, and use my new-found confidence boost to get a civvie's phone number.
If it's an evening appointment, I just phone in a pizza order after leaving the incall, pick it up, and rent a raunchy comedy from Redbox. If the comedy directly references the hobby, all the better. Maybe also get a 6-pack from a local liquor store, with the clerk wondering why the hell I'm grinning like that. Then I veg out by the TV, enjoying my food and the sexual buzz in my head. Not a bad way to cap off the evening.
I like to cruise, and listen to chill music. Occasionally, when the opportunity presents itself, I like to make contact with a different, inexpensive friend for round two. My last one was back in March. The opportunity definitely presented itself, and I couldn't resist. Most of the time it's with two different ladies, but back in March it was with the same lady three hours later. That was a great day!!
I have relatively limited experience since I'm new to the hobby, but my post-escort activities usually involve a short walk (15-30 minutes), get something to eat (probably takeout), and then go home to write my TER review. It's just my personal way of extending the enjoyment and then locking it away in my brain after writing it down.
...strip club for some beer and eye candy or I go to my local sports bar for a drink and meal.
Strip clubs are an ironic place to go after seeing a provider. They're a complete 180 of what the hobby stands for: giving you blue balls, as opposed to finding a cure for them. But I gotta try it sometime. I'll probably be a lot of fun to smirk at the dancers and the non-hobbying customers.
They ask you want a dance? I say no, I already got one. They seem to get it. Maybe because I just got there
...I go to see if I know they are working. I like to sit and talk. I don't say anything about where I've been. I have gotten a bbbj to completion in the VIP room after a session.
I usually send an email thanking the lady for a wonderful time we had.
Then go home and resume my routine of surfing the net and reading the paper.
Nothing out of the ordinary.
New to all this, but I would relax and just enjoy the moment plus call my HOT girlfriend and plan something for us to do within the hour.
At a nice restaurant with whoever friend is in town that day. I also grin like an idiot afterwards for a good few weeks and it just relaxes me so much, feeling so blessed to be able to hobby. And if the girl has a scent then i'll be smelling my upper lips and fingers too until i get home and shower. Theres something about that unique smell that just... Theres no describing it.
Then I'll close it out with a early morning snack. In LA, I'll grab a bite to eat then to my casa.
the evening. Hear you, man!
until I get home, reality sets in, and I wonder why anyone gets married lol.
More sex, more sex and more sex
I got swimming for about 8 to 10 laps to make sure all scents are gone from my body (perfume, female sweat, etc). Get in the whirlpool. Get a 2nd dinner with lots of protein just in case the lady at home wants to go for a round at 2:00 am. Most times when I hit the sake I go into a deep sleep, then wake up in the morning with another raging hard on ready to go again.
o back to the office and get back to work
but I have a buddy of mine who can usually tell when I show up at the bar right after getting laid. He's busted me at least a dozen times. The first thing that fucker will say when I show up (with that stupid FF look on my face) is "Dude, you just got laid, didn't you?" I don't think he has ever accused me and ever been wrong.
More like Willy Wanker, lol
and maybe pour some rubbing alcohol on it, depending on whom I've seen.
If my appointment is in the afternoon, I like to go to a meat market club. Then I park my ass in a comfortable chair, sit back with a big grin on my face, relax every muscle in my body, and watch guys get rejected on the dance floor time and time again. Maybe I'll strike up a conversation or two, but with a very detached mindset. Conversely, I also like to go to a bar where *friendly* women hang out, and use my new-found confidence boost to get a civvie's phone number.
If it's an evening appointment, I just phone in a pizza order after leaving the incall, pick it up, and rent a raunchy comedy from Redbox. If the comedy directly references the hobby, all the better. Maybe also get a 6-pack from a local liquor store, with the clerk wondering why the hell I'm grinning like that. Then I veg out by the TV, enjoying my food and the sexual buzz in my head. Not a bad way to cap off the evening.
...generally a stoly and oj since it is mid day and I have to go back to work
If I'm traveling since I like book noon time appointments, I usually go to an afternoon meeting. When I'm home I like to play on the weekend so afterwards I head home and go for a swim.
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...beeline it to a favorite tavern for lunch and a beer or two after, being as I mostly hobby midday. One time though, I went directly to a strip club (it had been years since I was in one) several blocks from my dates' incall, and woulda thunk, but that's the one time in my life that I struck pay dirt in that type environment. One $20 lapdance turned into lunch with her the next day, which ended up back at my place in the sack.
What you're describing is called "social proofing" by the pick-up artist (PUA) community. They tend to trash hobbyists immensely (because they see providers instead of buying their books), but bear with me. I do believe that the social proofing concept is true, and not just for sex. Also for things like getting promotions at work, making friends, etc.
According to PUA's, civvie women instinctively *know* if a man is desired by other women or not (also known as being an "alpha male"), from your body language or something. It's an evolutionary instinct for seeking out the best genes for their offspring, much like men like round hips and big breasts, which are best for supporting a growing baby.
So when you go to a strip club after seeing a provider, you have an alpha male vibe just emanating from you. However, since civvie women can't distinguish whether you've been with a civvie or a provider (unless you tell them), their sexual attraction gets triggered anyway. Hence, you bedding that lap dancer so quickly.
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I don't eat before so I'm usually starving by the time I'm done ...
If I'm doing an incall I prefer to be staying in the same hotel as the lady, this way I can ride the elevator back to my room after she's turned my legs into rubber bands. If I'm doing outcall, as soon as she's left I crawl under the covers. Naps are cool, and even better after having my world rocked.