Yesterday I had an appointment with a provider who has excellent reviews and ratings. Her photos looked great. Her rate was high for her city, but the photos and reviews made the rate seem fair.
Well, the photos are about ten years and 40 pounds ago. The reviews didn't make sense. She pretty much just laid there. When I tried CG with her, she was sweating and panting so much I decided it was best to quit. This is the second time this year I've booked with someone new who's photos were old and who had gained a lot of weight. At least the first one was a good performer. For those who say I should have walked out, I know. I should have, but I'm concerned about being blacklisted. If these providers didn't misrepresent themselves, I wouldn't have seen them, I wouldn't have spent the money, and I wouldn't have written the bad reviews that have now upset them. I'm sure some guys would see them as they are now. Between the two, I'm out about $2300 for misrepresented "products". That ticks me off.you've been out $2300 ( or maybe not) and got an experience. Xo
I have walked out on several ugly ass hippos... I have kicked out an ugly ass hippo out of my hotel once too but she tried to make a scene too. These fat ass hippos have a lot of nerves and sense of entitlement which makes me laugh my ass off cuz the only thing they are entitled to is the equal and opposite force from the ground which is the ONLY thing keeping their fat hippo ass from falling straight through to the center of earth.
I try to stay if possible but walking out is always available as an option if the girl isn't as advertised. Hobby number and hobby email comes in handy
I've had a lot of experiences with fantastic providers. All had excellent reviews. Their photos showed really hot women.
Both of these had 75 to 100 excellent reviews, and both had photos that made them look really hot. What would your intuition tell you
you may have hit the record...
Don't presume to know your specific situation but were these multi-hour appointments? If so, you will probably do like the rest of us and change to short (say one hour) first encounters.
Sorry this happened to you but there is a lesson for all readers here and if you share some details of where you found the ladies in questions (nothing that identifies them) you'll probably help the next guy...
How am I going to know if I want to spend more than an hour with someone I've never met before?
that it is possbile to notice the provider age on her main profile ( it diesn't change at all.. does it) and rewind back the years she is in business. So if reviews date back to 2005 and her main profile says she is 35, plain math shows that she is 45 yo now. Am I wrong?
Although some ladies seem to forget, lol!
Steph xoxo
One hour has never been enough, except for these two. With every other provider, if I book two hours I wind up asking if she can go another hour or two.
With the bad one earlier this year, I asked if I could book two with an option of going for three, but her assistant said I'd have to schedule three if I wanted three. Her reputation on her regional forum is almost legendary. Guys always talking up how hot she is. That's what I don't get. She had a double chin for crying out loud. I went for three based upon reviews, photos, and comments on the forums.
! This is exactly why I offer a "lunch only" meet and greet option so that anyone considering booking a multiple hour date can see and talk to me in person first. Shopping online can be tricky and some go way overboard with the photoshop. It happens to me too when I shop online for clothes. The clothes look way better in the photos than what ends up coming out of the package.
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Sorry that happened to you!
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Do you actually read any of the self-promoting nonsense some of these ladies write?
Bitch, moan and whine.
Stop crying. You either didn't do your due diligence or you based your decision on too few reviews/reviewers.
Either way that is ultimately your fault
While part of the blame can be placed on the either blind, tasteless, or cowardly reviewers he relied on, his lack of balls for not simply walking out makes him part of the problem instead of the solution.
I don't mean to sound harsh, but going through with not one, but two appointments where he should have walked means the next two poor slobs can at least partially blame the OP for their screwing/s.
When you see an honest reviewer finally tell the truth about either of these lying, cheating bitches, remember to send them an apology for your cowardice. Remember if any of the last guys had the courage to write an honest review, you wouldn't be out the 2,300 bucks. They will be saying the very same thing about you, because you KNOW neither of these women are going to change their ways until they have to.
I don't care how legitimate a provider claims to be, they are still hustlers who hustle their time for money.
I did reviews for both of them in which I said that they were older and fatter than their profiles and photos indicated, and the experiences I had were not like those of the providers' other reviews. I hope the reviews will help other potential customers.
Yes, I should have walked. If it happens again, I will. In each of these cases. I was like a deer in the headlights, just trying to figure out what had happened and how the providers could have such incredible reviews when they looked as they did.
I found out how after the review I did of the first one. She emailed me to change it, at first begging and then threatening. I'm sure she's gotten most of her negative reviews either removed by admins or by intimidation
Next time you'll assume all of the praise with a grain of salt. And BTW, are you believing all the media has to say?
It is not always in the reviews. The pm's are the more valuable way to ascertain the real dealio.
The OP either didn't use them, doesn't have VIP, or didn't have a girl with enough reviewers where a few would have fessed up to her pics and weight issues bc.
Either way, it is on him, not the girl and not the public reviews.
With tHe kinda coin he is talking about, to get burnt twice is 100% his responsibility.
Hey, I'll take some responsibility. I'll have to look for where, but I will. I do PM guys about providers I'm interested in. I didn't on these two, and that's the last time I don't PM.
I just said the women had 75 to 100 reviews, all great. They're just about all 9's and 10's. Nobody mentioned weight or age. Not a single reviewer.
Now how is there nothing on the women who are misrepresenting themselves? Both are using very old photos on their websites. You think that's okay? Both have their ages understated by at least ten years in their profiles
You are like a few women here who have told me privately "I usually screen but on the last few I didn't and one was a cop." The several girls who have admitted that to me over the years didn't blame the cop. They blamed themselves.
That's good advice for you. Do I have to remind you this is an illegal activity? Do you think hookers have a customer service department you can go to for a refund or exchange? So what does that mean? YOU have to be ultimately responsible for getting fooled like this.
If it really makes you feel better, yes, the women in p4p shouldn't portray something to the public they are not. But what line of work doesnt? There are unethical salesman, attorneys, plumbers, etc. Why work hookers be any different? You have to do your homework and you are stating you didn't.
Look, everyone makes a mistake now and then, but you said you got burnt TWICE. And you want to blame the gals. Really?
You have VIP and didn't take advantage of it and you want me to blame others. This would have been avoided if you took just a wee bit more time. And with that kinda bread on the line, you had even more reason to do your due diligence.
Now...step up, man up, stop crying and from this point forward, do the right thing, Spike Lee.
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If on the regional forum Friday Shill thread, guys would post "she's a cop! She's a cop!", then I'd get the idea. But instead they post about how great these two are. They're mentioned in the shill threads at least once every two weeks. That's what I don't understand. Could be white knights I suppose.
I won't book again without doing some PM's, although I've found in the past that even in PM's, one guy's 10/10 is another guys 5/5
Mini reviews, and any other public reconditions... It's marketing and nothing else.
He was careless and certainly a lot of it's on him But how is it a woman who no longer looks like her pix and is therefore marketing herself falsely gets a pass?
They are both to blame. I leave it to others to figure out if it's 50/50 or anything else
but I also blame the gutless shills who continue to sing the virtues of some of these OTHFB's that advertise themselves as "young hotties" without a bit of pushback from these gutless, tasteless guys, who won't stand up for themselves, even via PM because they either don't want the women mad at them, or because they simply have no taste and really do consider a five foot two, 175 lb fifty year old woman whose tits sag even more than her bloated stomach to be a "ten"
Yeah, I blame the guys at least as much as the women.
and I did read all of your replies, how about providing links to your two reviews of these ladies?
You started this...
and not the bad.
What the fuck are you whining about? Everyone else? No mirrors handy
Fuck, if I weren't drunk, I would really appreciate that little paradox.
Oh what a tangled web we weave........ I'd finish it, but as I already alluded to, I am a bit PUI, but still lucid enough to realize the corner the OP has backed himself into.
Why do I read this shit after I posted? Oh yeah ... maybe because I'm under the influence, but in all fairness I misread the Rx about not taking with alcohol. Man were they WRONG. This shit's awesome!
Oh what a tangled web we weave........ I'd finish it, but as I already alluded to, I am a bit PUI, but still lucid enough to realize the corner the OP has backed himself into.
Well, better than DUI. I think. Some of my best thoughts come while drunk, but I can't remember them the next day. Maybe they weren't that great.
Why would I post this if it were not true? There's nothing for me to gain from it, and nobody to be hurt since I'm not naming names. It's not like I'm doing this because it's better than jerking of on the Fourth
to preserve his anonymity as the reviewer and avoid backlash. However, he said he was getting the backlash.
That doesn't match up.
Could be he created a new handle to post this, too. That might match better with his story.
Personally, I find a reviewer hiding reviews as deceptive as a provider manipulating them or posting fake pics. I know many, many guys would disagree with me on that.
No matter... he is blasting everyone else and not taking responsibility for doing a bit of homework on his own. You and I both know that just a little bit of homework can easily keep us out of that "I feel like I should walk out" situation
I admitted to making a mistake.
Who have I "blasted"?
I got backlash from the provider under the handle I used to write the review.
I post under an alias because I don't want board bullshit interfering with my hobby life. As for me being deceiving, what would I possibly have to gain? I haven't mentioned anyone. I'm not selling anything. I don't post here often. I'm not looking for friends. What's my angle
post your various handles and aliases.
Tell us how those various identities have not been created for the sole purpose of selling yourself, when you fear that "yourself" is not sellable.
Tell us how your OP isn't an angle to gain support/empathy over backlash or B&S.
It's easy... I'll show you:
My handle was initially MasterZen. I retired Zen at one point for about 6 months and used the handle Look2Me. I had personal reasons to do so. Things changed, I resurrected Zen and have posted as Zen since then. I do not use an alias to review. I have an alias that I use very rarely to post... and I won't share it.
I've been turned down once for being a poster on the boards. I've been approached many times for my posting on the boards.
Conclusion: I do better owning my shit than hiding from it.
Step up, now
You can't trust reviews, because someone will give her a 10 and swear she's the best. What pisses me off is the "GFE" providers who aren't. How hard is it to correct a TER profile? I think it must be impossible. Please write a accurate review, but be ready for the WK's and other TERHOLES to come out from under their rocks and tell you you're full of shit, outright wrong, and must be lying. It happens all the time. I have a short list of reviewers I trust. I have a long list of reviewers who hand out 10's all the time and write BS reviews. Back channel works better than reviews. Start PMing guys who write good (informative) reviews and tell them that you read it. Networking will save your ass and get you some great ass. 
Well, the photos are about ten years and 40 pounds ago. The reviews didn't make sense. She pretty much just laid there. When I tried CG with her, she was sweating and panting so much I decided it was best to quit.
This is the second time this year I've booked with someone new who's photos were old and who had gained a lot of weight. At least the first one was a good performer.
For those who say I should have walked out, I know. I should have, but I'm concerned about being blacklisted.
If these providers didn't misrepresent themselves, I wouldn't have seen them, I wouldn't have spent the money, and I wouldn't have written the bad reviews that have now upset them. I'm sure some guys would see them as they are now.
Between the two, I'm out about $2300 for misrepresented "products". That ticks me off.
Think we have been trolled ...again.
Why would I link to reviews with my real handle when I obviously want to use my alias?
This one has one of those little yellowish envelopes. TER alias's don't have those. But carry on Slim Shady!
Steph
Looks like you've caught another one...maybe?
Nah...but you can think whatever you think LOL
Maybe vote Main off the island? Yeah...that's what you should do 
Steph
What you’ve done is pay for an invaluable lesson. Although sometimes the lesson doesn't sink in the first time. Over the years I’ve come up with a list of hobby rules that are inviolable. Of course, one of them is that if it’s not the lady in the pictures, I leave, but not before telling her why. I’ve heard a few ‘f&ck yous’ in my time. My rules are not foolproof, but because of them, I have a high success rate. I won’t go into all of them, but another rule is that I never let my cock do the thinking. I’ve walked away from a few precarious situations when I’ve been damn horny.
So congratulations. You’ve made an excellent discovery. Think about what your rules are, and add this one to your list. The most important thing is to stop seeing ladies who misrepresent themselves. If you stop, it helps everyone else down the line. When you walk away, and tell her why you’re walking away, and can handle a few ‘f%ck offs’, maybe, just maybe, she’ll figure out she better hit the gym, and up her performance level. If you continue to shell out thousands in these situations, what you’re doing is f*cking me over. Probably why you’re not garnering too much sympathy. I hope all gentlemen can learn vicariously from your important lesson.
Has happened to me before. I give her $50 and say, sorry for wasting your time but we are not going to have good times so this is best solution for both of us.
Don’t have to be dick but you can do it in a reasonable way.