because you obviously care what hookers think.
I recently found out from a provider that all my references in Date-Check (about 7) have described me as "highly recommended". Before this goes to my head, I wanted to ask the providers here at TER just how common is it to give out a "highly recommended"? I know every provider will have her own standards, but overall are the standards high or low? What is the difference between a client that you would rate as "recommended" and one "highly recommended"?
I don't need to see more than my rate implies. And this gent in love with himself
Just spell out asshole. Asterisks are lame.
Really... sorry but I'd rather some cushion and a sense of humor than some one with too much money and not a lot of respect. Give me fluffy all day long!
Woo-hoo!! I would be highly recommended!
because you obviously care what hookers think.
When a man is kind and respectful that will get you very far. The men that don't treat us like blow-up-dolls, but instead like real women. You can't just tip your way to "highly recommended" or "whitelist" status. I ask myself, "Do I wish every single client would treat me this way?" If so, that's worth a "highly recommend."
to the "highly recommended" type clients? This might encourage the "big spender" type clients to act a little more gentlemanly. They probably act that way because they want to get their "money's worth" out of a session.
Jade, I could not agree more. A provider once emailed me during the process screening to tell me it was unusual that a dozen ladies on Date-Check all gave me "highly rated" for which I was flattered.
In addition to what you mentioned, I must add being non-judgmental is a big virtue, on both sides. On one end of spectrum, this could be perceived as a prostitution board for whores and johns (like myself), or a platform for providers and hobbyists (like myself as well). It never hurts for our perception to be on the latter end. It's like half glass full or empty. Being a respectful gentleman who treat providers with kindness and generosity goes a long way. P4P is the essence here, but it's about how we conceive things and conduct ourselves.