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Re: Often Legitimate Reasons Providers Change Names
Jboyes 74 Reviews 466 reads
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Point taken and I understand completely about the safety risks and weirdos these ladies have to deal with.  However, she booked with me and when I showed up and saw it was her.  She said she was secretly excited to see me again when I'd booked.  I didn't want or need to question her at that point, none of my business and not good for setting the mood.  So she knew she'd seen me when I booked and that I was unaware of her prior persona.  I'm disappointed she chose not to reach out before our appointment to let me know.  New clients I can understand because she's trying to establish her new persona.  
Anyway, just frustrated and a little let down.  But hey live and learn and move on.  I wish her luck .she still has her own following of WK's^^^


-- Modified on 9/9/2015 9:58:29 AM

And we are clueless that we've seen you before under one of your old names (3 in this case).  Please tell us when we book that you've seen us before PLEASE!  Although my first experience with her was fine, it wasn't repeat worthy.  Argh!

Yea I don't know why she does.  She has great reviews every time.  It's not to hide from bad ones if that's what you meant.
Just a bit irritating when I thought I was going to see someone new.  And epicurious, I can't post her info.  Tried reporting it to TER and they denied it.  Just frustrating I could have spent my time and $$$ on someone else I had on my to see list.  

Posted By: GoldieKnox

Epicurus61591 reads

Thanks for the clarification Jb. By your original post I assumed it was just a girl trying to 're-brand' herself. It now appears there are other issues and TER is allowing an identity change. That almost makes it worse that she didn't tell you when you booked the appointment.

You said yourself you would not have repeated but she had good ratings
So she got you to see her again under a different name - sounds like it worked to me

 
If TER denied it she told them it was a safety issue or LE issue or family issue for the name chafe wether it's true or not. TER will often try to "help out" in those situations so long as it doesn't appear she is running from low scores or negativity. That may be the case but it's also just as likely that she could be trying to get "new" or more business appearing as someone new or different so people who already saw her would see her again as a "new" girl (to them).

Posted By: Jboyes
 
 Yea I don't know why she does.  She has great reviews every time.  It's not to hide from bad ones if that's what you meant.  
 Just a bit irritating when I thought I was going to see someone new.  And epicurious, I can't post her info.  Tried reporting it to TER and they denied it.  Just frustrating I could have spent my time and $$$ on someone else I had on my to see list.    
Posted By: GoldieKnox

She has one excellent review from a know reviewer on here.  Shame on me, should have done more research.  But all the info and pics were different and kinda blurred.  She did give an excellent performance and is good looking, we just didn't click, it happens.  If I had reviewed her 1st time would have given her a 8/8 FBSM rating. So I guess it did work Goldie.  So here I sit still on the hunt for someone who hits on all 8 cylinders since my ATF retired.  Fun trying.

Posted By: GoldieKnox
You said yourself you would not have repeated but she had good ratings  
 So she got you to see her again under a different name - sounds like it worked to me  
   
   
 If TER denied it she told them it was a safety issue or LE issue or family issue for the name chafe wether it's true or not. TER will often try to "help out" in those situations so long as it doesn't appear she is running from low scores or negativity. That may be the case but it's also just as likely that she could be trying to get "new" or more business appearing as someone new or different so people who already saw her would see her again as a "new" girl (to them).  
   
Posted By: Jboyes
 
  Yea I don't know why she does.  She has great reviews every time.  It's not to hide from bad ones if that's what you meant.  
  Just a bit irritating when I thought I was going to see someone new.  And epicurious, I can't post her info.  Tried reporting it to TER and they denied it.  Just frustrating I could have spent my time and $$$ on someone else I had on my to see list.    
Posted By: GoldieKnox

their email, their phone number.  Even change up their photos sometimes to use the image of someone similar to them.  

It's a never ending cycle. Most will never say a word because either they don't remember you or more importantly, they are in the same boat as all the other ladies out there.  They'd rather you spend your money with them than on someone else.

There are often legitimate reasons the ladies find it necessary to change names/personas. I personally know several who needed to do so for privacy and security reasons related to child custody, divorce and alimony legal cases. Others had serious, hobbyist stalker problems for themselves and family members. These latter ones concerned safety issues that, in a couple of cases, necessitated actual residence changes. Sometimes, in our desire to connect for some fun with providers, it may be easy to lose sight of the fact they operate in an inherently dangerous work environment. This requires various precautions on their parts, including changing identities sometimes. These safety and privacy issues play into the policies of TER, and other similar sites, which discourage revealing the past identities of providers after they change to a new name.

Point taken and I understand completely about the safety risks and weirdos these ladies have to deal with.  However, she booked with me and when I showed up and saw it was her.  She said she was secretly excited to see me again when I'd booked.  I didn't want or need to question her at that point, none of my business and not good for setting the mood.  So she knew she'd seen me when I booked and that I was unaware of her prior persona.  I'm disappointed she chose not to reach out before our appointment to let me know.  New clients I can understand because she's trying to establish her new persona.  
Anyway, just frustrated and a little let down.  But hey live and learn and move on.  I wish her luck .she still has her own following of WK's^^^


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OF COURSE SHE WAS SECRETLY EXCITED TO SEE YOU AGAIN!

 
$$$$$$$$$

 
No offense but if she truly was excited she would have mentioned seeing you before.

I call BULL on her being "excited" about anything other than the cash.  

If it was a privacy (or whatever) reason for the name change and she was "excited" to see you why NOT tell you it was her (someone you have seen) if it wasn't about the MONEY!

 
UGH, sorry, but this is SO annoying to me
Name changes are one thing if it's for privacy or whatnot but to DECEIVE someone as she did. YUCK.

Report that to TER admin - shady shady shady!!!
But then again, I could be wrong ;)

Namaste
Goldie

She saw everyone in SD & may have a pimp to provide for, so she changes her name to stay busy.  Don't expect her to be honest if she has management.

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