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Never.Landed 197 reads
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Why no one has when it would be so easy? Who knows. The ladies as a whole seem ticked enough at the current ad/review options that I think it'd be a gold mine for someone.

Imperatio924 reads

I wonder how the partners and dearly beloveds of the gentleman here would score if their significant others had TER profiles. My guess is that the overall average across all individuals is around a 4-5 in both performance and looks categories.

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HerrZunge283 reads

I have a close friend (who I met through AFF) who would rank reasonably low in appearance, as compared to the lovely providers who I have seen.

However, she has almost made it her life's mission to perfect the blow job. This has occurred somewhat with my help - I have shared with her the best techniques I have experienced from the ladies I have met in the course of the hobby.  

She has taken oral sex to another level, to the point where the quote "making love to my cock" fits nicely. So in the end, it's all about attitude - does a woman want to please or does she just want to put up with sex? Why should our partners be any different from us?

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Never.Landed304 reads

Have a little respect. I think everyone does a pretty good job of beating around the bush and ignoring the obvious for the betterment and comfort of everybody, but I don't think it's funny at all to bash or even pretend to bash a significant other. Providers and hobbyists? Sure. Whatever. They're all here. Most of the SO's aren't even aware though, and speaking about them this way just seems cruel to me. Of course they're not as "good" as providers. They've stuck with you for better or worse.

Your unpopular opinion of the day.

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OnlyLiveTwice208 reads

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Imperatio226 reads

We spend a lot of time dissecting, analyze and objectifying providers on this site. We scrutinize body types. We rate appearances on a numerical scale. We break people down into measurements (bust, cup size, waist size, height and on and on and on).

I just thought it was a sobering thought exercise to actually try to apply these principles to people in our actual lives. It's easy to say this girl's a 5 or a 6 or a 9, but I find it interesting to ponder the disparity between the women we rate here and the ones we can actually get with in real life.

The whole process really is quite callous and meticulous, but all part of the business as I'm sure providers have come to accept.

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Never.Landed222 reads

To be honest, the women don't have a lot of choice. Not even just talking about TER, review sites  in general have made it very clear that fuck us, they will do and say what they want with the pictures and information stolen off our websites. Some even charge us hundreds of dollars a month for the "favor" of hosting ads and posting reviews that we (loudly and as a whole) don't want. TER is by far the most "provider friendly", and all that means is once every six months they remove a review for someone who's loud enough that she'll post it on the PO board and proclaim that change is a comin... Don't get me wrong. I'm not painting it all bad, but I'm always surprised at how unaware guys are of what kind of websites they're supporting. Most women seem to just shut up and take it too which only makes things worse.  

It is an interesting dynamic, I will definitely give you that!

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Kitty_Rains200 reads

Very valid points
everythign is geared toward hobbyists or webmasters wo make money off providers
no site is effectively geared to be in te providers favor

as I'v said before.. I await newTER rollout .. if it hasnt changed  

i will reinvent the wheel

Posted By: Never.Landed
To be honest, the women don't have a lot of choice. Not even just talking about TER, review sites  in general have made it very clear that fuck us, they will do and say what they want with the pictures and information stolen off our websites. Some even charge us hundreds of dollars a month for the "favor" of hosting ads and posting reviews that we (loudly and as a whole) don't want. TER is by far the most "provider friendly", and all that means is once every six months they remove a review for someone who's loud enough that she'll post it on the PO board and proclaim that change is a comin... Don't get me wrong. I'm not painting it all bad, but I'm always surprised at how unaware guys are of what kind of websites they're supporting. Most women seem to just shut up and take it too which only makes things worse.  
   
 It is an interesting dynamic, I will definitely give you that!

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Never.Landed198 reads

Why no one has when it would be so easy? Who knows. The ladies as a whole seem ticked enough at the current ad/review options that I think it'd be a gold mine for someone.

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hey mikey253 reads

Actually, for fun I once did a review comparison of all of my civie relationships over the years vs. P4P experiences.  In general, the average "1st time" scores of all experience were almost identical for looks and experience for P4P and my civies... but the longer we dated the lower the civie performance scores became.  I was lucky to have dated some beautiful women and I married one also.  But, there was a time when a 10 performance score from Mrs. Hey Mikey was possible... but today, the maximum, on a GREAT day with a full moon and a nice bottle or 2 of Merlot, is a 7 or 8... and I BET she would say the same, or worse, about me!  LOL)  I guess this is why I have P4P'd off-and-on for over 20 years.  ;)  I am not saying this to be mean, just to be honest.  

(Full disclosure...if memory serves, my overall civie scores might have been ever slightly higher in the looks category but slightly lower in performance early-on in the relationship, and then a full point or so lower on the performance scale as the relationship grew stale... but when I did this comparison the number of P4P ratings was greater than the civie ratings. Though, to be fair, my P4P experiences in the last 15 years have likely averaged slightly higher in both categories than my overall civie experiences or my P4P experienced in the first 5-10 years in the hobby... as I also spent more.)   Perhaps I should update my comparison and post the average data?  LOL



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hey mikey174 reads

If your average real-world dates have been 4/5 in looks and performance, I feel very sorry for you!

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fallaciouslyiced186 reads

Just thinking about all my chubby old fellow hobbyists out there :)

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SexyAssNightmare217 reads

Shed say I am a 7/7 all around. Of course I give my past girlfriends 7/4 once we commited.

Posted By: Imperatio
I wonder how the partners and dearly beloveds of the gentleman here would score if their significant others had TER profiles. My guess is that the overall average across all individuals is around a 4-5 in both performance and looks categories.

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scoed196 reads

Posted By: Imperatio
I wonder how the partners and dearly beloveds of the gentleman here would score if their significant others had TER profiles. My guess is that the overall average across all individuals is around a 4-5 in both performance and looks categories.

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