I cannot read between the lines.  If some woman advertises erotic massage and is listed as a massage person, how do I know if having sex with her is off limits?  I have no objection to the massage, but this woman is very cute and I certainly would be very happy is she wanted to provide everything.  Still, I don't want to scare her or get her upset by asking her.  Does anyone have any ideas about how to handle this?  I know I can just ask her, but I am sorta stuck.  I would rather make love with her than just have a HJ or even a BJ.  I think I am kind of shy to be so explicit with her.  What is the inference of an "erotic massage"?
Thanks!
Keith