What really goes on behind close doors or between consenting adults is really not anyone else's business.
Nosey people who live in glass houses and people who just like to gossip make it seem wrong.
and just proves what I have been saying for years.. Pick 10 houses on your street and I can promise you that in each and everyone of those houses is at least 1 hooker, 1. who is seeing a hooker, 1 is having an affair, 1 has a drug and or alcohol problem, drugs etc, 1 is a swinger and the list goes on and on...
Last night while visiting some friends.. The boys were drinking and one of them mentions that he is a Friend Jewel's. After further conversation, I hear that he has made his way around the block with several well known ladies.. ( I just smile and listen) Not my conversation.
On Monday, I was spending time with a dear friend and I am sharing with him that I went to a football play off party and meet some very nice people.. Who also happen to be in healthcare as well. ( Did I mention, we are good friends) He then informs me that that they are swingers.. Oh My.. She was very friendly and pretty too...
So, why all the judgment from everyone? We are just all human beings with various faults and interest....
Just my observation!
What really goes on behind close doors or between consenting adults is really not anyone else's business.
Nosey people who live in glass houses and people who just like to gossip make it seem wrong.
You should never trust someone opinion who says they heard this or that. Because most likely they have the most skeletons in their closet.
I just finished a book called "Sex at Dawn" which talked in depth about these very issues in our "monogamous society". Good book.
Sean
Of the 10 houses around me I wish I knew who the first one was so I could be the second,, Save gas money for play money. But seriously I have seen 4 marriages that I thought she was being treated like a queen, she cheated. Many where she was being abused to some degree and she stayed. I saw two couples swap spouses, try explaining that to the grandkids. I saw a provider that is in the swing lifestyle and she was telling of a Very good friend that works close to me. I have in laws relatives that are Very good friends with someone that works at the same place and does the same unique job. has to be the same person, there is only one job. Can not ask, too many skeletons of my own. I stopped judging a few years ago, Respect me, your self and others and I work real hard to get along with others. Don't take this to be condemning women, those are just examples of my observations. mostly because I prefer the company of women over that of men, so I tend to hear a little more girl talk. now a question. Why does the worlds second oldest profession (lawyers ) work so hard to keep the oldest profession illegal? Wouldn't it be better if providers could get healthcare and insurance and not have to worry about some of the legal issues?