e you get away from the hobby, some oddities will jump out at you. This is a big one. Many of the guys here get *offended* by the thought of a provider asking for client photos. They think providers should just agree to have sex with anonymous men on the internet, without a clue as to what they look like. This sense of privilege is quite strange. Even a streetwalker gets to look over a guy before agreeing to anything.
For those who think there's little difference between providers and SBs: this is a deal breaker in the sugar bowl. Forget about fucking a top tier SB--she won't even meet you for a lunch date without first seeing your photos. --z
I have seen a few higher end providers are asking client to upload a picture of them-self along with the screening. These are usually providers that have un-blurred pictures of themselves and many even have videos on their website. What is the reason for this if you have multiple referrals and have a history of reviews on TER
n one case it was because we were going to meet first in a public area, and she wanted to know whom to look for. I did not know what she looked like.
In the other, the gal told me she wanted to see if I had "kind eyes". I guess I did as she agreed to meet
I suspect it is just part of her screening and process of feeling comfortable with you.
I suspect most guys, myself included, would not choose to send pics and in almost every situation would simply find another provider.
I did send a pic once, but that was a very unusual situation and I fully understood why I was doing it. I also made sure to not send a pic that could be "google-imaged" and lead back to too many personally-identifiable details
It was from another site where that was standard mo. After inspection she decided to see me. She wanted to make sure it was not too big lol.
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I would love to be able to have a pic to attach to the contact so that when they call "next year for the convention" I can remember who they are. Have you any idea how many of you are Bob, Dave, Steve, John and Bill? But I've always been shy to ask. I understand the need for privacy and discretion.
e you get away from the hobby, some oddities will jump out at you. This is a big one. Many of the guys here get *offended* by the thought of a provider asking for client photos. They think providers should just agree to have sex with anonymous men on the internet, without a clue as to what they look like. This sense of privilege is quite strange. Even a streetwalker gets to look over a guy before agreeing to anything.
For those who think there's little difference between providers and SBs: this is a deal breaker in the sugar bowl. Forget about fucking a top tier SB--she won't even meet you for a lunch date without first seeing your photos. --z