Re: I always ask the provider....

I'll chime in

I completely agree with at least offering the courtesy of asking the provider if she minds reviews-- especially graphic reviews!

Unless your experience with her was terrible, of course, which would IMHO, be in the best interest of your fellow hobbyists to spill the beans and if the provider is savvy enough, she'll learn from the review and make an effort to better herself and improve her business model, which in turn will be a benefit to her as well.  
It's only fair...

Also, on the topic of reviews:  There are "reviewers" out there who can be "malicious" with the ladies (i.e., hobbyist couldn't handle rejection or a jealous ex, etc.) or "promotional" of  the ladies (i.e., hobbyist has been offered generous incentives, is seeking brownie points, or is over-inflating in order to satisfy his own ego, etc.), which is unfair and an injustice to both parties.  

I wish there was a way to combat that on this forum, honestly.
I've seen so many over the top reviews that I KNEW were fake as well as reviews that falsely maligned ladies' reputations here and left the ladies in question no room to dispute them.

If there was some way to implement an opt-in/opt-out "White List" system of ladies for the gents, with a way to PM the white listing hobbyist directly to ask for details on their experience with the provider (much the same way providers do), I guess that would make many gals (myself included) a little more comfortable...
But that could also present loopholes and no system is perfect.  So, C'est La Vie, right? :/

I prefer NOT to have reviews-- obviously I do have plenty, but most gents have respected my request when asking me, thankfully.
On certain review boards like this one, respectively, and a few other review boards, they can be far too graphic, defeating the purpose of priding myself on being a low-volume, low key courtesan.  
I'm sure I'm not the only lady who feels this way.

Great topic, btw.
The feedback is quite interesting.

Cheers,
Gypsy

I agree.  Let others know how things went starting with scheduling the time, confirming it and then the details.  Give the details as they happened while you were there, not how they happened in your mind (every now and then some hobbyists will get carried away and exaggerate things).   Let us know any little tips as well (if any)

I Never thought about asking a provider if it's ok to review them.

D.

it should be no problem to do this in a respectful, gentlemanly way.  Even when an appointment does not go exactly the way I would have liked, I try to find a respectful way to inform my fellow hobbyists who may be interested in seeing this provider about the session in my review, while considering the feelings of the provider.

Like you, when the provider is simply amazing, I try to articulate that in the review.

On the contrary, when things do not pan out quite as well, I still try to paint a picture of the event while also considering my role in the outcome.  Yes, she IS getting paid, but I may have been the reason we did not hit it off exactly right.

Being objective and fair has always led me down the best path.  Just one man's opinion

But I do rarely ask what she does or does not want in the review, unless it is her first review. Then I write the review with enough detail and acronyms to satisfy my fellow members here and the TER mods, some sense of what being with her was like (businesslike, quick and out, any discussion and if so, what did she talk about, etc.) But in general, the less detail the better, and do not include anything she does not advertise offering, or any personal details she might have shared.

Some ladies read reviews, but most do not, IMO. The ones who read them may get back to you with a complaint or comment if you say something they do not like (I called one little honey voluptuous, which was completely true but the boys here translate that as fat, so she was not happy with me). I have edited a couple of reviews over the years, apologized a couple more times. A few thanked me, or said they wanted to meet the woman I reviewed, etc.

Anyway, keeping it as short as you can and still get it approved is always the best plan, not that I follow it.

zig

if you know the history of TER and the purpose of the site why ask. Of course I don't see 10/10 providers, nor "no review policy" providers. And as nick mentioned, off the menu services and any otc time is not mentioned.