Once you start hobbing for awhile, you noticed that there are some really fugly women walking around on the street, especially during the summer time like now.....
I find myself noticing hot women a lot more than I used to. Like tonight, I was in a bar/restaurant having dinner with a group of friends. I noticed a 30-ish woman walking down the aisle. She wasn't gorgeous, though quite attractive, but the way she walked, her confident manner, and her open leather jacket that showed ample, perky breasts bouncing just so under a thin knit blouse (with I suspect no bra) caught my gaze. I also noticed some of the female waitstaff were wearing tight jeans that showed off some great curves.
It was a very nice dinner. 
I've found that I like a very large variety of sizes and shapes and looks.
The providers I've seen have been mostly a variety of ages and looks. Thin, big, big boobs, small tits etc.
It's been quite eye opening.
But I guess, I just like women.
When, I walk around I see women, I surely want to fuck
I get to see some of them at work. At least in the winter things are more covered up.
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Before you start trashing the women, are you good looking? And for the record I don't START trashing the men first. I will, however, respond in kind if I find the blatant shit throwing just a way to put women down.
You do realize where you are right? A site where men pay to have sex because for the most part, they can't reel in the types of women they feel they deserve or are attracted to. We get to deal so be careful where you start shitting on the women.
You know, I've only been on TER for a few days, but that's one of the FIRST things I noticed. A surprising number of men seem perfectly comfortable showing just how rude, misogynistic, and generally bitter they are... despite knowing that their future choice in provider may very well be reading their posts. The OP was probably the least offensive thing I've read in that vein, but that attitude is surprisingly pervasive around these parts.
I don't know about you, but if I read some of that hateful garbage from someone who wanted to book an appointment I'd absolutely turn them down.
show their asses on social media! The thing is, things are saturated here as there are more men showing their asses sorta speak. For one, those men don't care what you think about what they are saying. Well at least I hope they do not!!! Even the assholes. Imo, be one with your convictions no matter how asinine they are to the point of not caring who may dislike. I would assume the many ladies now who show their asses via social media do not care either. It gets to a point though, one has to ask themselves, does it all really matter in P4P. I will say this though. I can understand how a providers persepctive would be more serious as far as what is said on these boards than a gents as far as what is said by ladies on here or social media for the most part. You all are more vulnerable in these situations. I do understand that! I just hope you're talking about serious stuff and not rhetoric or ideas/opinions you dislike. To me, that's taking it a tad bit too serious. Male/female, the same but to each their own as to whom they want to be around in any circumstance in life.
I don't have too much respect for most people's minds regardless of gender. So if I took too harsh of an approach, I would never talk to anyone. Well, I kind of really don't! Lol.
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If for no other reason than the incredible satisfaction of saying "no" to the ones who deserve it 
We all know the score - guys buy nookie for the obvious reasons, no sense in restating the obvious to all and hurting feelings of the innocent and decent guys out there in order to strike back at an insensitive dude or two. Why lower yourself to their level? I always appreciate the ladies who show their class by rising above. I gravitate toward women who deal with the knuckleheads with humor and grace.
I believe that the vast majority of men respect and appreciate the ladies here. I for one have several beautiful woman friends of whom I am quite fond who do wonderful things to and with me. I am no prize looks wise and I really don't need to be reminded of that fact.
This supposed to be fun.
is a new guy in a candy store and is running off at the mouth without thinking and might be abashed when he realizes he was essentially heaping scorn on other women.
I treat others how I am treated either directly or in general.
The "stooping" comment I get however you don't talk to a five year old as you would an adult. And I don't talk to a douche bag like I talk to a decent human being. When needed, I speak fluent douche bag, it is the only thing they understand.
Guys can disagree with you and as long as they are not being a douchebag you argue with points not with attacks. For example our disagreement on client reviews. The second the guy proves to be a douchebag you give them it right back. I like that can dish it out when given it, but doesn't dish it out all the time.
but why talk to them at all? they aren't going to learn.
it's like trying to teach a pig to sing, it only annoys you and frustrates the pig.
You can be silent and just take their constant shit or what I have found, and has also been documented, is that bullies are inherent cowards and a good dose usually sends them packing.
It does not annoy me at all, quite the contrary. I feel so much better that I stood up and refused to be part of the problem more like part of the solution...that's how i see it. I realize I won;t change them, bullies will just go off and find someone else.
On the odd occasion, a bully can be ignored if his turn on is attention, any attention, and those attention whores are easy to spot. Most bullies or douche bags just need a good smack and they back off.
Or is it only the hooker that have to be passive and take it. You know, not to hurt the johns feelers and all?
I don't recall you making this request of johns when they trick slap a DB.
walking down the street . Providers aren't exempt from that.
So what? Most people are average looking. That is why you notice the extremes.
One of the biggest turn-offs is indifference. A personable woman is much more attractive.
are you looking so hard? I mean I have very interesting tastes when it comes to women. Especially those in the Civvie world. Not so much in the hobby world. But you can find something unattractive about every lady? I suppose by your last statement you are referring to the whole being. Mental, physical, emotional and all. Well ok, I can agree there! But not physically. I for one love imperfections physically. They can be extremely cute and sexy. Depending on what they are. Lol.
Well no, you began talking about strictly from an aesthetic view. "Walking down the street". So again, Reaaaalllly? You can? WOW. Damn. Glad I ain't a woman who would have to please your eyes. Ummmm, no thanks!
What you look like Hercules? I mean such a mindset begs that question. Does it not. Lol. Hey, to each their own. You surely have the right to your stance!
my my friend at work (who is about my age) what I was up to, and showed him some pictures he kinda nailed it with...It must be hard for you to drive a Minivan now that you have driven Ferraris.