which is understandable. The guy very well could have been wasting your time. If so, he's a DB. However, some of the gents do have logistical issues in trying have a fantasy life in Hobbywood and maintain a normal life in the real world. Before Blacklisting him ..... or anyone for that matter ... I would hope you would really look at the big picture:
- Is the guy established on TER?
- Does he participate on the boards?
- Doe he have reviews?
- Is he whitelisted by ANYONE?
I'm not saying that the above is the sole criteria to consider if a guy is a "nice guy" that has had logistical issues in the real world or if he is just a D.B. I'm just saying it could be part of the evaluation process.
I would like to warn the other ladies that a man emailing me under a name i can give you if you PM me, has hugely wasted my time using the excuse that his wife keeps showing up unexpectedly. He will Email your eyes out and make false promises the WHOLE time (a month in my case). I HAVE BLACKLISTED HIM AND IF YOU ARE A PROVIDER SO SHOULD YOU!!!! Don't be fooled like I was...
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which is understandable. The guy very well could have been wasting your time. If so, he's a DB. However, some of the gents do have logistical issues in trying have a fantasy life in Hobbywood and maintain a normal life in the real world. Before Blacklisting him ..... or anyone for that matter ... I would hope you would really look at the big picture:
- Is the guy established on TER?
- Does he participate on the boards?
- Doe he have reviews?
- Is he whitelisted by ANYONE?
I'm not saying that the above is the sole criteria to consider if a guy is a "nice guy" that has had logistical issues in the real world or if he is just a D.B. I'm just saying it could be part of the evaluation process.
If you feel in your heart that the guy is a bad guy, it is certainly your prerogative to Blacklist away. However, I don't really think it's fair to ask other providers to Blacklist a guy just because you have had issues with him. Shouldn't it be up to them to Blacklist him if or when they have a bad experience with him
oh i have and appreciate the advice.Iv'e been doing this for 4 yrs however, and know a time wastere when I see one. He offers to buy lunch everytime askes you what you want and never shows up. For an entire month. It's one thing to miss a couple of appointments but to never make it for an entire month? Maybe you should avoid this particular hobby if you cant show up (ever)!
Not all ladies that read this board have your best interest at heart. To make it perfectly clear, not just you but other ladies in general.
In the future, I wouldn't say anything publicly about blacklisting. Some providers will run and tell. Makes no sense I know but it happens.
I know you are pissed, trust me. Sometimes it's best to be more private about what you have done to sometime like the jag off timewasting idiot that did this to you. No harm in posting and telling ladies to PM you for the info. I'm sure the dude already knows what you think of him. But the whole blacklisting thing should be kept off this board.
Sorry this happened to you. Lordy I can't wait for you to get on the PO board!
Hugs,
Steph
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me too i mean it could prevent stuff like this GF lol And you have a good point thanks for the advice
In the future, I wouldn't say anything publicly about blacklisting. Some providers will run and tell. Makes no sense I know but it happens.
I know you are pissed, trust me. Sometimes it's best to be more private about what you have done to sometime like the jag off timewasting idiot that did this to you. No harm in posting and telling ladies to PM you for the info. I'm sure the dude already knows what you think of him. But the whole blacklisting thing should be kept off this board.
Sorry this happened to you. Lordy I can't wait for you to get on the PO board!
Hugs,
Steph
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