Is sadly higher in the hobbling world than in real life dating...that's why I don't even bother with dating.
OK ladies.......when I visit with a provider.........it is just like a "date" to me and I effortlessly try to be as polite and gentlemanly as I would on a "regular" date. Not only do I believe providers deserve it...........but it enhances our rapport and the overall experience.
So.........ladies.........what percentage of your clients ARE polite and gentlemanly?
And hobbyists........am betting you too go into an appointment as complete gentlemen
All hobbyist that I see are usually, always polite & carry themselves like a gentleman...
& if they don't I normally just won't book with them, because I am not an object, I am a Lady & I am there to fulfill your needs...
Now unless there is an agreement & the rudeness is just apart of role play or something, then that is a whole different story!
xoxo,
Ms. Leila Lovely
I think some people in general just have more open and warming personalities then others. I personally would not see anyone that gave me the impression of being anything less then a gentleman. But for me, I go by the "you treat me good, I'll treat you better" approach.
I would say 80% of my dates are just that. They are dates. Some how do shorter dates don't have the luxury of time on their side so they treat it a bit differently. I have had many who started out with a shorter date extend it so we can have more time together to get to know one another and enjoy each others company.
a gentleman.... if they request GFE, that is
PSE... its a whole different story. Not to say they arent gentleman but since its mostly off the wall action theres not a lot of chance to get to know someone in that manner.
Then there's the odd 1% who do strange things/ play mind games/ or are just comeplete assholes. But very rare.
***But no one is such a gentleman as you!!!***
xo
Nobody is as beautiful as you..........or as worthy of courtesy/respect.
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A date is so much more fun that way. Besides, I am so grateful to these wonderful ladies for not making me have to beg.
Had an experience with a provider today who will go unnamed as I am writing a review........she was beautiful, perfectly desirable in every way (perfect body), intelligent, articulate, and somehow........even though she was way, way out of my class/league.........she was equally beautiful on the inside. Her style and grace not only made me feel comfortable.........but left me appreciating everything about her.
This one-of-a-kind lady truly deserves all the respect in the world..........I would cringe to think a hobbyist would be with her and not treat her respectfully.
So........it is nice to read some of these posts and find out the rude hobbyists are exceptions.
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Yes, I too saw someone today who treated me with kindness, honor and respect. We had a wonderful time discussing our lives. She was an amazing lover and a just as amazing person to talk with.
It's not surprising to receive a great response from a lady after they have been treated well.
"Thank you for being so comforting, sweet and a gentleman." was part of the follow up email that she sent me.
I am pretty new to the hobby and I'm just amazed at how I've been treated by all of the providers I've seen. I understand the business relationship, and I might be buying the IOP, but I can't help but be myself and treat these women as ladies that are giving me me their greatest gift.
I know there are lots of men that are different than us, but there are enough that are like us too.
100%....just through my screening process and chats i know they will act accordingly...usually from the first contact...they start with introduction and pleasantries then i will respond in kind and that tells me more about them...if i get a text "hey are you available?" and i do not know who you are, i will not see you...have some manners...i am a person and not just a service
. . . to be rude? If nothing else, consider this:
1. The activity may be considered illegal, and there's a lot to lose if the lady decides she isn't safe, and the client "presses his case"; and
2. This is a profoundly intimate moment for both parties, the client is a stranger, and anyone can be a nut case. Why put a provider (or any person) ill at ease under such circumstances.
See "American Psycho" for tips on how not to do it.
Jesus.
it should be........but unless you live in a bubble.........isolated from the world...........you should realize people are people.........and believe me I have met all kinds.
Have even met some who would pass any provider screening.........and then..........
Was at the fitness center a few months ago and was on a treadmill with a lady who wanted the staff to change the channel of the TV. The man next to her said no, he was watching...........all 3 TVs.........he was there first and refused to allow the staff to change any of them. Went to the manager and insisted they change one of the TVs to whatever the lady wanted.......two members against one should make total business sense. The idiot member who wanted to watch 3 TVs did not get it.
So you see........there are some really messed up people in this world.......am pleased by provider responses, that overall they do not put up with this kind of BS.
Yet I can see this same stupidity transferring over into other areas, provider appointments included........oh, and if you have read enough reviews.......you would see a taste of it. More than once have seen a provider with countless stellar reviews and one hobbyist goes out of his way to mark her with very low scores. Clearly in the context of the other reviews........he is a jerk.......who knows what the provider he had an appointment with had to put up with.
So.........things are NOT always as they should be!
The answer to your question.................stickythong..............see, it takes all types.
and say, "start sucking sweetheart." As long as the envelope is there, well it happens. That's the nature of the business.
If you want a regular date experience ask Clara from Accounts Payable out.
So.........ladies.........what percentage of your clients ARE polite and gentlemanly?
And hobbyists........am betting you too go into an appointment as complete gentlemen.
We don't even need to unzip. She does that, as courtesy begets courtesy.
Such is the life of a gentleman. You might try it sometime... You might like it! 
I guess we all get out of it what we want...........otherwise we wouldn't pay for it, now would we? But we can still do so in a respectful fashion.
Is sadly higher in the hobbling world than in real life dating...that's why I don't even bother with dating.
Even though my sample size is small, I have never been treated with anything but courtesy and respect from the ladies I have met. If you were to ask them I'm sure they would say the same about me. Some who have retired are still my friends and we stay in contact.
However they have told me that not all of their clients have been gentlemanly.