This would be too funny (and maybe sad at the same time) I've often wondered how exaggerated some of the reviews are...like LFK is suddenly DFK; rimming is anal in the review; spitting is swallowing, etc.
I'm willing to bet some reviews are highly exaggerated...just like IRL when some guys are out with buddies for a few beers and start talking of their exploits.... DCan you imagine a site in which clients are reviewed by providers (with looks, performance scores, the whole shebang) ?
I just think it'd be hilarious to read their ratings and detailed version of events.
yep would be amusing... and keep the exaggerating down a bit...
TER: "She came like 5 times"
Reverse TER: "I think I felt something move"
This would be too funny (and maybe sad at the same time) I've often wondered how exaggerated some of the reviews are...like LFK is suddenly DFK; rimming is anal in the review; spitting is swallowing, etc.
I'm willing to bet some reviews are highly exaggerated...just like IRL when some guys are out with buddies for a few beers and start talking of their exploits....
D
Most of the time when guys are drinking with their male pals, talking about their exploits with women, the only action they are getting is at the table, circle jerking with their Choleric
Drunkard club.
Nine times out of ten, guys who are actually getting action with Gals in the real World are not telling anyone about it.
Only a fool soon to lose his fortune would tell other miners his newly discovered treasure's location.
Ninety nine times out of a hundred, drunks exaggerate and tell drunken lies.
In the drunks defense, the sauced mind can't differentiate fact from fictional drunken dreams .
In defense of guys who write reviews about his pay for play Gal cumming multiple times in an hour, those Gals are paid to be excellent actors, like Hollywood stars.
Most Guys are as gullible as a drunkard's eyes at midnight when women are in the picture.
I'm willing to bet some reviews are highly exaggerated...just like IRL when some guys are out with buddies for a few beers and start talking of their exploits....
D.
I created a little mock Excel rating sheet for look and performance (I didn't bother with the detailed "juicy details" section.) I tried to be as honest as possible (I gave myself a 5 looks and 5 performance) and think how my previous ladies would rank me; obviously I couldn't ask them as they would feel obliged to be much more kind and favorable than in reality if it was anonymous.
So far Ive sent it to ladies that I haven't seen before and quite a few of my existing relationships. Of the existing ones they have all said they "love it" except one who gave me the line of "you are being too modest in your scores and you are much more than a # in my mind and I value your personality so much more...blah blah" which was obviously written by a screener as there is NO way the lady would remember me after 3+ years. Of the ladies who would be new to me one said it didn't really matter to her and the others said they thought it was great.
I'm going to keep doing it as I think it helps give the lady a little idea of what is in store for her when she opens the door.
I'd be more than happy to share it with any providers to get there input on if there is anything I should change regarding categories or ranking system or with any hobbyists if they want to use it for themselves.
I don't have VIP though so no PMs at this time.
They say honesty is the best policy however in this case I doubt it. Sadly a reverse review board would be rather boring with every guy scoring a fabulous 10 in every which way!! Honestly
I actually find that surprising...
I'm sure providers talk and gossip with one another like any group of friends do.
Wouldn't it be fun to have an outlet to share what you're ACTUALLY thinking (given that it's somehow providers access-only)?
Might give the johns some idea of how some hookers really feel and their business would not suffer. Also "she" (the one who was telling it like it is), might be the next one he books and given the fact that her performance might be awesome, he would never really know what she is truly thinking or feeling.
I think most hookers feel similar at some point in the job. Great days, good days and hellacious days.
And some hookers stay completely to themselves.
... but not for the reason you gave. I think the vast majority of reverse reviews would be boring because providers would be describing Just Another Day on the Job. Consider... does a provider get excited about the thought of seeing a client, such that they can't wait to get it on with this gorgeous, sexy man? Maybe in a few exceptional cases, but usually? Are they describing what may be one of the best times they've had in a long time, maybe even in their lifetime? Is the client someone who wouldn't give them a passing thought if they were to meet in the real world, or are they the stuff dreams are made of?
Yes, some reviews would be hilarious because life is hilarious sometimes, and it would be interesting to see the provider's perspective. But most reverse reviews would make a good read before bedtime.
But I believe the main pt would be for it to know a little more about who they are meeting and decide if they want to meet him. They would know if he's aggressive, friendly, hung like a monster etc etc and then they could decide if they want to make the appt.
Your idea certainly merits consideration, from a provider's perspective. I always found it curious why TER doesn't include any feedback from the ladies during the review process. She only see the review after it's written and there is no real way to confirm what was written actually happened.
If providers were able to supply feedback to reviews it would no doubt become a huge pissing contest and the reviews would become tied up with a lot of squabbling. I see it alot on the stripclub forums that I visit - lots of not very pleasant reviews that are countered by pissed off strippers defending themselves. It can get very ugly.
I'm sure things could get messy to a certain degree depending on the circumstance. Just wondered how things would be if there was a way for a lady to comment.
I'm never really sure how much info is shared between two when one is checking references. This would kind of give a lady a bit more insight. Even if they only made it viewable to another provider.
Oh to be a fly on the wall when providers are sharing Intel about hobbyists!
It probably ranges from simplistic ("he/she is clean and not a serial killer or LE") to details about personal sexual preferences and physical attributes. OTOH maybe it's best that we don't know!
Part of me would like to know, or be aware of what get's shared. I know one lady I saw for several months did share some insight into my likes and attributes with another. It certainly lead to a very memorable experience since she had that insight.
For me it would mean a yes or a no as whether I wanted to meet him given the parameters you used. Could care less about his alleged prowess or his looks.
Agree completely.......as we cater to our clients....no matter the venue.......we are motivated to want to draw them back again. Hence a provider WOULD have a strong motivation to inflate her review of a hobbyist.
Reviews ideally. It would need to be accessible ONLY to providers and for their reference only.
So then provider reviews should only be accessible by hobbyist for their reference only, correct?
but I doubt if anyone would be too interested with it.
How would the site fund itself?
on a site like Yelp, reverse Yelp. Imagine waitstaff reviewing diners. lol
Yes exactly, thank you.
You got the gist of what I'm getting at haha!
If ladies used their real stage name to write reviews, we would be able to see who has too much time on her hands.
I guess a positive would be we could see who doesn't work directly under the management of someone else.
With a provider with whom you get along with, get her drunk at dinner, and start telling her hobby stories. She'll start sharing with you...then you'll find out!" what she thinks.
( in genaral, I've been pleasantly surprised at thongs I've been told about other hobbyists. I believe in that most providers don't hate or despise most of their clients. Like most people in most lines of work, people like parts of their jobs, and dislike other parts.)
My point is that you wouldn't expect honesty on a site where someone reviews their paying clients
The biggest site in the UK punter planet allows rebuttals to reviews. I think that's only fair.
I would like to see a site where providers, can give more Info on hobbyists ..This OK system is terribly flawed.
I saw a client with 25 OKs yet as soon as our session started he wanted BARE!!! Then sulked like a spoilt 3 year old when I refused. How is someone like that ok?
The current system has girls giving OKs just because a guy reviewed them but it tells us nothing about the guy.
Here's a list of things I'd like to see added to a guys OK award
On time or late (not just in call sometimes guys run late to their own rooms especially here in Vegas they get caught up in casino)
Clean & hygienic
Wanted services not offered after being told no?
Bought gifts (chocolate/perfume/etc)
Bought drinks
Rough or rude?
Tipped
Would provider repeat?
Other remarks:
I think about this every day: I know of NO other job in the world where every single time you go to work you are being studied and reviewed and your actions are open to be placed in a review for all your clients to see and your entire business relies on those reviews which you have zero control over or opportunity for rebuttal....Just think about that next time you are having a shitty day at work!
I've seen complaints by providers of fake reviews and clients who were intoxicated blaming provider when the hobbyist couldn't get it up after too many drinks that's NOT our fault..yet we can be reviewed poorly for someone else's problem... With no chance to tell our side. The system is flawed, it's unfair..
Very well stated.............hopefully all hobbyists will read this and take note. Can see how, under the current system, hobbyists can go virtually unchecked. There must be a way.
I think it would be awesome!