If it's in a heat of moment thing, like they're begging for your cum, "hurry up and cum for me baby" or sth, that's one thing, and not a bad thing.

But if a hobbyist is maybe having some difficulties performing or taking a while, then a provider saying anything to the likes of "hurry up and cum" is an instant mood killer and turnoff. The only way it's even remotely acceptable is if the guy is seriously running overtime (say, 15-20 minutes past what he paid for), and even then there's more diplomatic ways to do it. If any provider seriously said that, for me at least it would be an instant end of the session, negative review, and blacklist. I'd think this probably happens more on the lower end of the spectrum, and not going to be too common for providers charging 200-600+/hr with MSOG.

Hurry your ass up, my roomate, sister, boyfriend will be home any minute is different.

She had some issues checking into the hotel, so our date got cut in half. I like to chat and take my time and so probably should have canceled at that point, but I had already planned to meet and was on my way. This was an agency girl, and when I got in the room she indicated that she had a "full schedule" that day.  

I'm in the midst of enjoying the slow grind when she looks back and says, "Hey, are you close? You HAVE TO be out of here in 10 minutes!" Definitely a buzzkill (it didn't help that the clock radio was right next to her face), but being the respectful gentleman that I am, I proceed to jackrabbit to completion, grab a quick shower and skedaddle. BONUS: she said she had three orgasms!

Certainly would be a bummer....  I would feel that I had really wasted the time and the fee.....

However. It would seem avoidable.  Simply book more time.  You may have seen  the poster -Failure to plan on your part does not constitute an emergency on my part...  

So book another hour or two up front and the problem goes away.... Sometimes economizing has a downside.  Now if the girl is going to seriously short you on the time that is a very different issue.  

But I imagine some BP girls doing that.

For me, it would be the worst thing she could do, I'd lose any mojo I had.

The best thing she can do if she wants me to get off fast is to act like she's into it, talk dirty, fake an O.  

Look, I'm well aware that women who see me are acting, I'd never be able to get any of the women that Ive seen in the hobby IRL. And it's fine that they're acting, put on a performance for me for 2-3 hours and I'm very happy, regardless my envelope is always correct. It's been said many times by many providers that the best compliment is a client that returns. I return for good actresses.

because if she is saying it, then I am past the point where it has entered my mind...this doesn't help.

Do you rather have quantity or quality?

The "hurry up and cum" sometimes its influenced by both the client and provider. To clients is such that quantity 2 pops become a necessity, to the girls the "in and out" with less work is desirable.  

I rather have a prolonged romance/ foreplay and feel the intensity of the sexual energy than getting to the destination. One can channel the sexual energy and really have a memorable intense experience that can be absolutely mind blowing.  

zp

Some people act as if saying "Come for me baby" is like talking to a coffee pot and it just starts pouring out... um, no. When you're pressured to come, you usually can't.

I'll simply pull out mid stroke, take my cum with me and go home.

Sometimes the rush happens, and sometimes not. That's the way it goes. It doesn't mean the session was any less thrilling. Yeah, it's nice when it happens, but the older one gets......

Even so, I still try to avoid the 'hurry up and cum' girls. If you do your research you can generally find a patient lady. In fact, I've only had to deal with that scenario a couple of times in my hobby career. The vast majority of time it's patience. Take my friend ZM for instance. With her it's cum whenever you wish, but she'll want an extra one for her hard work and patience. With her, one never thinks performance. One simply thinks fun.

That's a wrap folks. I've had one provider do that when I first started in the hobby. I laughed inside bc I was like....Damn babe, it's you. Lol. Maybe she sensed that. We just weren't compatible as far as compatibility goes in the hobby. Lol. No biggie to me. Still, no matter the reason, if it's in the agreed upon time and the entire time hasn't been from first sec to last, a romp focused on only you the gent, then frankly, those words should never be spoken. If so, they should never be allowed to speak such words a second time on a later date ever in the history of time to you For realz. I can definitely understand how some men would allow it to bother them and trying to get there. I would most importantly just take it as a learning moment about that provider's personality when times get crucial (lol) in general or specifically her personality around me during "crunch" time. LOL.

Keep the band moving after that!

Yeah I Get That Sometimes

Wine helps take the edge off and usually leads to some good conversation. However id say I don't cum half the time when I am meeting a new provider. Usually the second dates is much better!!!

My dates are based on time and time alone. If they feel they can only pop once then it is what it is. I have stayed and chatted and thats fine. I have also had them pop only once and they ended the date and gave me my full donation. I have had them pop multipule times with no word from me about "cumming and getting it over with." I don't want either of us to ever feel rushed in this experience together. I know some probably do want it to be rushed and to get it over with. I personally don't.