mmmm hmmmm
Would you allow bbfs. Would you charge exter to take it and if so how much.
BBFS!!!!
NO! and NO means NO
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He means extra. lol
mmmm hmmmm
Like them fried taters ....
IF the exhorbant price set for BBFS were met, and all tests were negative, and there were admittedly no history of STD's, would it be unheard of and so crazy to say yes? Given the risks, and we all know what they are, what else would be the issue? Someone is barebacking someone as we speak, and is the nature of the relationship really the issue? The last post regarding BB was pulled, but I have GF's BBing for hardly anything. So if free civvie raw dawg is the norm, why not take the superficial precautions and be paid out to be comfortable; possibly being on antibiotics for a couple of weeks and getting follow up tests for the next year? It would be no different than being in the hobby or IRL and fucking some random guy and having the condom break... Any hooker here takes that same risk for only $$$ per hour. I am sure most don't want to talk about that but hey whatever.
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At least not monetarily.
Some people won't.... for money.
But will for .... love... emotions....
Stupidity....
Not arguing for or against what you reasoned, but some people do not have a hard dollar line where a person can be bought.
FYI, HIV antibodies can take up to 6 months before they test positive, and may & can test negative until that point.
https://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/hiv-testing/get-the-basics/
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And yes, I did state follow up testing for the next year... BUT would there be any difference in fucking a client at $$$ and the condom breaking or not breaking? No, not really. I get that folks have their "morals" and "standards" but I am playing devil's advocate today, and I really don't see the difference in a hooker, who is already fucking for money, not taking a proposal IF the situation where presented and there was a "perceived" low risk involved. WE all know providers and clients who take the risk without a proposal, doing BB for less or equal to their hourly rate and they are all justified in their mind as to why they take it BB. So the "price" is different for all of us, but it will happen.
I think this argument also begs the question of IF you have multiple partners, and are only using barrier protection, are you less likely to get tested often? This is where the fallacy lies, don't say oh just because you BB you can transmit something; NO just being sexually active you can and may transmit something! Let's get real, there is risk involved every time, it's up to the individual to own up to it. Monetary price or not.
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Therefore BBFS with ANYONE is off the table..unless they have Grand Canyon depth pockets. Not because I am anything special but I am so pathologically against that stuff inside of me, always have been and always will.
The antibody based HIV testing is obsolete. You should get the NAT assay which is an antigen based limiting incubation period to 8 days! This is STANDARD for American Red Cross blood donation (that's why the infection rate now is 2 in a million transfusions) and is standard for porn industry, and this is why porn stars do not develop AIDS despite traumatic gonzo anal sex and fisting!
You can find local draw facility. Panel is $180 included Hepatitis, syphilis, gonorrhea, etc (but not herpes which is preventable valtrex). See below link. I am sick and tired of all scare and being unscientific. Worse case scenario, you bareback a provider who is in her 6 days of incubation, the risk to catch it from her is 1 in 400 to 1 in 900. Look it up.
See link below.
Some people won't.... for money.
But will for .... love... emotions....
Stupidity....
Not arguing for or against what you reasoned, but some people do not have a hard dollar line where a person can be bought.
FYI, HIV antibodies can take up to 6 months before they test positive, and may & can test negative until that point.
https://www.aids.gov/hiv-aids-basics/prevention/hiv-testing/get-the-basics/
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I keep telling him to PM RTucky for lessons, but so far at least, he seems to be ignoring my advice. I guess if we ever created a contest for "weakest troll" he might rate three yawns.
And if he asks for BBFS he's out the door with his clothes thrown out after him. I don't care what he claims others are doing, that just tells me he's high-risk even for the hobby and it would be safer to take up smack and share needles.
Disgustedly,
*Maureen*
Right answer!
Do idiots need to be told there is no such thing as "clean"? You may test negative today, but have something that hasn't shown up yet. HIV, the Herp, all of that shit can test negative but you can still have it. That's why most responsible providers get routinely tested quarterly.
You want BBFS? Get a wife or a gf. This is not the place for it.
Those who do are going to do it regardless. Is there any guarantee those opposed it and come across with a holier than thou attitude never do or never have done?
Don't think so.
Blast away Garbage
And don't call her garbage. I HAVE NEVER BARE BACKED AND NEVER WILL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So there is one you know of. Not that you care. I wish something, anything would brighten what appears to be a very dark soul that you have.
I'm "garbage" because I'm right?! Bahahaha! At least you capitalized it, lol!
The OPs question had nothing to do with who does it and whether it's right or wrong. It was asking a what if scenario if a test was taken on the spot. The answer being that the test on the spot does nothing to mitigate the risk.
There's a big difference between being holier than thou and just simply being educated. I BB'ed the 15 years I was married. Not since. Why would I? It doesn't feel any "different" for me and I won't take the risk because I have no reason to.
I'm perfectly fine being over-precatious while you'll be pissing one day and your dick will fall off in your hand. Good choice!
Don't think so.
Blast away Garbage
This topic come up OVER AND OVER AGAIN.......Now I need NoDoze to make it through the day.
Should we go thru the alphabet of what other nastys are out there?
I will never BB anyone because how the frig do I know where he has been and what he has been doing for the past 10 years? Being a civvie does not protect anyone from this shit yet they fuck raw like rabbits. So even getting a boyfriend/husband does not protect one...especially if he cheats and is on here or picking up strange off the street.
ask your doc to give you the Hep B vaccination series (3 shots) lasts for > 10 years.
Should we go thru the alphabet of what other nastys are out there?
But I also might just have my pimp bum rush you from the closet.
Either way, it will be 20k.
Nor do we trust you enough to consider it. We already know you're not the best in the gene pool and are dangerously lax about hygiene.
It ok to get hiv if you married?????
Uh no shit, but not with YOU lol. I had a child BEFORE becoming a provider, not afterwards.