Have the lady over in June instead.

Think "CSI"

A "wife" does not need physical evidence or a swab of DNA. They can smell/detect strange female pheromones and their recent presence even if you open all the windows for 24 hours after the visit. It's a sixth sense that has evolved since the creation of alimony, child support and community property. They may loath you as well as not have given you sex for a year or more while treating you as an unwanted boarder; but they WILL NOT give up their sovereignty over you in any degree. They are like proteges of the "vengeful God" described in the Old Testamate. A 13 year marriage and 25 years of serving divorce papers has taught me this.

I have had several providers to my home and it has worked out great. I highly recommend.

Some think being married and having sex outside of your marriage is not being courteous but nature and circumstances can put a slam on that thinking. But allowing a stranger into your common place that you share with your wife, fuck that. There are douchebags and then there are gutter douchebags. Just my thoughts. I'll always have douchebag tendencies in me (nice caring douchebag, lol) but never gutter. Douchebags have fun. Live longer too! Lmao!!!!! True shit is it not. Oh, I'm dying laughing right now. Just stay away from the gutter moves is all I'm saying. If you could tell your wife and she be cool with it, that's one thing! Lol. If you can't, as most cannot, hell no.

If you do decide to however, be safe and thorough. Very very very thorough! Lol. Make sure she is a very well reviewed and reputable lady pleeeeaaaase. Lord mercy bc then you still should be praying before, after and all month to year long to make sure that decision doesn't come back to haunt you. Pray to about five to six different religions I say. Cover your bases! Ha.

I would never have a girl w no reviews over, too many horror stories. If she is reputable enough that you feel comfortable then go for it. You can always ask she not wear any heavy scents if your wife is sensitive.
I have a few clients that I go to their place when their wife is away. As far as I know they have never had problems.  

As far as shitting where you eat, I usually don't think or care. I had one guy who wanted to see me on a night I was only doing outcall... He asked if I was ok with being quiet because his wife and kid would be upstairs sleeping. Now that's douchebag! I Didnt even answer because it wouldn't have been any kind of nice ha.

that she won't come to see you there even if you have excellent references?

She must have a very small client base.

I live alone but still wouldn't have a gal come over to my home on the first date till I get to know her pretty well.

Most gals are also rather skittish about coming to a guy's house unless they know him well also.