You do want to know, but only if you attempt to reschedule. I think that's fair.
I have, however, and will continue to let clients know that I'd not like to see them again if I had a particularly unpleasant time with them. I usually do it through text, but have done it in person. I think sometimes they just need to know, whether they were planning to reschedule or not.If we can sense during the session that we'd rather not see you again, would you want to be told? Perhaps during the goodbyes or through a text message after you leave.
I suggest you save it until the next time he tries to schedule an appointment. Even then, you can politely decline without giving offense. Unless he's really dense (which is entirely possible in this business), he'll likely understand that things didn't go so well and will not try to schedule another visit. But if he does contact you again, you can still probably let him down gently without making him feel like a complete loser. If he persists, you may have to be more direct.
I mean, wait until I ask for another appointment and then let me know that you would rather not see me. That way, you don't have to break my little bubble unnecessarily. Again, that is not to say that I would not want to know, but I don't think there is any need to be gratuitous about it.
not to say anything in person or even via a text message immediately afterwards.
Consider that the individual felt the same way about the time. Most likely you'll not see him again. Telling him is most likely going to get you some very ugly reaction.
I would just put him a list of individuals that you're not interested in seeing again. If he contacts you, just use any excuse to decline. Keep in mind that some guys have overly sensitive egos, so don't be surprised at the reaction.
Apparently I was too much work. And it did take 45 min of a 2 hour session to get me there. We did rotate activities during that 45 min. But I guess 45 minutes of play time was too much for her out of twork hours I paid for. Not that she needed to tell me not to come back, there was zero chemistry and she looked very disinterested. I didn't review as part of the of the problem was I lost my erection a few times do to physical issues. Besides her numbers was all over the place so the fact she is a YMMV lady is known. But yes I was told not to return.
I knew no one enjoyed that session and it would be best not to repeat. No need to point out we just wasn't a match. But if I try to rebook I would like to know it is a no go.
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"I can't do this anymore" and I was fired by one of my pros!
Saw her again
hehe
So hot
4 good times
3 bad times
last time was just ok
moved o
as it"s not like a woman has never told me that before lol.
I wasn't going to say anything and just hope I'd never hear from him again. Then he wanted to rebook with me. I was going to just say I was busy but I thought he should know that he was horrible to me. So I told him. He said "thank you for being a pro."
I'd rather be told than just trying to figure it out on my own. It's not really a big deal. We just suck it up and move on (or we should) I get why providers don't want to tell a nice client and hurt his feelings, but it's better to be professional about it. Just my .02
How many times does your number have to go straight to voice mail? And then that other number you procured to use right after that ends up with the same thing happening. The darndest thing!!!
Not saying you, but there are people out there that get under your skin and can't get enough. They get off on making you uncomfortable and no, as nice as I am once you piss me off I won't give you any more ammo to jerk off to. I am blunt in my sessions and will tell you what I expect. This is the only way I work and I'm not all about rules, but if I say something it's to be respected or you don't see me. Thinking I'm going to act professional while you are not is laughable in my opinion. I do reserve the right to refuse service to anyone who pisses me off, over steps my boundaries or is a time hog. I do not believe I owe explanations as I don't get explanations on why some clients I really enjoyed don't repeat. The nature of this business is some like variety and want to explore other options, while others will take whatever they can get. I really enjoy what I do, so when what I enjoy is messed with I have no issues washing my hands of any of it!
That guy was mature enough to go that route. Many are not.
I would want to know, but only if I was trying to rebook. Saying something before that is kind of being presumptious that I would want to book again.
The exception would be a regular client.
If there is no chemistry they are most likely picking up on it too. There has been 2 people that I just did not click with. They were nice, we shared mutual pleasure, but there was no spark. I have never heard from them again.
I would not tell someone I don't want to see them again till they call for another appt, because they might never call so might as well save the akwardness.
Now if they do something to make me not want to see them, cross lines, be rude etc. I will tell them rite away that I don't want to see them and why.
I have only had to do that once, he still texts me on a regular basis even though I haven't said a word to him since I told him I don't want to see him...
Many fish in the sea to catch
Unfortunately, Kanye West intercepted fungy's grump speech and stole the spotlight from him though
I thought he was the reigning champion for 2012, 2013, and 2014.
Ya, I know, it doesn't make much sense, but I'm an American.
I once saw a provider a few times, we had a great time. I was at her place the last time and she left mail out... with her real name on it. Turns out our parents were very good friends and used to vacation together. Her parents had even suggested that I should meet their daughter once.... When I told her she was mortified. I explained that I would keep my mouth shut and that we both had a lot to lose, but she insisted we not see each other anymore.
I was sad because we really hit it off, but had to respect her decision and not push it. In all things show respect.
Tell me, how is it that you tactfully SNOOP through another's belongings....
I wouldn't see you after that either!
I was sad because we really hit it off, but had to respect her decision and not push it. In all things show respect.
I was using the restroom and there was an envelope right on the sink, it looked like junk male but she has a very unique name and it was right there in front of me, not snooping at all.
Discretion is used on both sides so that awkward situations like this one never rears it's ugly head! Some things you should just leave alone. She was either comfortable with you or you went into a room she didn't plan for, no matter what you were in the wrong for being nosy.
A Fav gal had me sit at her kitchen table while she prepared something for us. Her mail was right in front of me & even turned so I could read it. I think she did it on purpose as she knew my real info from screening.
I feel it is a responsibility on both of us to protect that information.
Dude, I'm sorry you don't get it. That is not only fucked up, but writing about it on the board like its no big deal is just insane.
I was sad because we really hit it off, but had to respect her decision and not push it. In all things show respect.
Do people around here take angry pills? This was like 15 years ago. She hasn't been a provider in over a decade and it was pure coincidence that I saw it
Oh well that TOTALLY changes things. It's not stalking if it was an accident.
If you already made up your mind you would not want to see me and my cash again why would you care whether I prefer to be told about it?
OTH consider why you would want to do that? IMO that would not be wise. You may risk angering him and getting a bad review in return. He may slam the door on the way out or left in a less than friendly manner. What good would that do you?
If you don't want to see me again just do the normal thing: make a note to NOT answer my number in the future.
There was a thread a few weeks ago about hookers lack of courtesy in not replying to emails whether it be first contact or a future appointment.
And here I read more than a few times, johns advocating her to ignore a future request.
Guys which is it!!!!!!!
I would rather be told in person at the end of the session, even though I would be totally embarrasssed by it.
I may be in the minority, but I would want to know... maybe the next day. Let me float on my cloud for a few hours, but I don't want to have any fantasies about seeing you again if it's not going to happen (my imagination tends to be on overdrive imagining the next time...)
Most importantly, I would want to know if there was something I can fix. Not to win you over (you have every right to decline and I respect that), but just as a friend should tell me I have spinach in my teeth, I would want to know what I am doing that would prevent the next girl and the next from seeing me.
If you just can't stand the idea of seeing me again - wait until I try to schedule again - then tell me nicely that you aren't going to schedule me.
Telling me at the end of the session would be a buzz kill for me - and you should be professional enough to let me enjoy what I have paid for and what you have worked hard to accomplish - despite your antipathy
She DOES want to see me again. That alone is not enough to see her again, but if she doesn't, I don't bother.
The ones I don't, I say nothing and then when they email again, if they do, I let them know they would be better off with another provider and then block their email.
she tells me it's because my sexual prowess is more than she can take .....
You do want to know, but only if you attempt to reschedule. I think that's fair.
I have, however, and will continue to let clients know that I'd not like to see them again if I had a particularly unpleasant time with them. I usually do it through text, but have done it in person. I think sometimes they just need to know, whether they were planning to reschedule or not.
I agree. I prefer to know but before the next session and please tell me what I done so I can correct myself if needed in the future.
Of course it would depend on how often I had been seeing her. But, yea, I would want to know if I was doing something off-putting. It is hard to imagine a situation where I wouldn't pick up an uncomfortable vibe from her but I guess it could happen.
In a polite way, so I could correct any behavior or action the next time with a future provider.
One lady told me my mustache hurt her when we did DATY, so I now make sure it is trimmed high above my lip and have had no complaints since.
Just an example.
Now if there is an issue with my looks or body type, I would hope the provider would be polite as well.