I'm in my mid fifties and the 40+ providers I see can relate to having children at least in their teens, some older. I'm just not comfortable being with someone who is younger than my step-daughter (30) or my son (26).
Aside from all that, they damn gorgeous and incredibly talented, kind and did I say gorgeous.
Hi all,
I'm curious: If you seek out older (40+) providers, what are you looking for?
I'm thinking about creating an advertising website specifically for this market. Some of the answers I've heard from clients so far include:
Experience. Intelligence. Connection. Trust. Confidence. Compassion. Open-mindedness. Wisdom. Talent. Generosity. Freedom. Acceptance.
Anything you'd like to share?
J
I'm curious: If you seek out older (40+) providers, what are you looking for?
I'm thinking about creating an advertising website specifically for this market. Some of the answers I've heard from clients so far include:
Experience. Intelligence. Connection. Trust. Confidence. Compassion. Open-mindedness. Wisdom. Talent. Generosity. Freedom. Acceptance.
Anything you'd like to share?
xoxo
J
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Plus my dick in some pleasurable, moist, and orgasmic female body part. 8o}
I love older women in my personal life. When I seek out couples, I do like it more if the female is over the age of 40. It's the way they touch you so the experience. I like the milf look, I like their bodies and the ones that I have encountered do know their way around a vagina. 
To me, older is very alluring
Put all of the characteristics you mention together and you find someone who is "comfortable in her own skin."
My observation over the 35-40 years I have been a hobbyist is that providers over a certain age appear to honestly enjoy themselves during our evening together more than providers below a certain age. I can't exactly pinpoint the age, but 40+ is probably close enough.
The amateur psychologist in me would say that being comfortable with oneself allows a person to be comfortable with others.
As a lot of us here are even a bit older than 40, and what I find nicest is that we've got the same cultural landmarks. So even though there's still a really nice age difference it's not a canyon - and when we talk about the Beatles they're not thinking 'oh yeah, that's Paul McCartney's old group'
I once went on a road trip with a client. Maybe 3 hours drive, in his Maserati. This is very relevant to the story, lol. Anyway, he was playing all this music and getting excited and I had never heard of any of it. He's like, "WOW! I just love this song by the...." I can't even think of one band's name he mentioned. I wanted to play Jay Z and he was appalled. He and I were easily a generation apart.
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Until he yelled to pull over and get back in the passenger seat
. You guys are so controlling with your precious cars, and frankly, it's a bit rude.
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Did you see him drop it off too?
Just kidding...maybe. LOL
. You guys are so controlling with your precious cars, and frankly, it's a bit rude. -- Modified on 5/15/2015 8:01:22 PM
One gal loves to reset all the presets on my radio when we're together.
Oh well, she's a great lover and friend, so what the hell?
I don't "genuinely" share any cultural landmarks with women of any age group.
Attractiveness, Experience, Grace, Sense of Humor, Intelligence, Connection, Trust, Confidence, Talent, and the sense that she is happy to be there.
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In other words you mean Portia Eden.....right?
most of all... is her experience.
She doesn't just lay there & expect everything will just happen... and if it doesn't, she has a good idea on how to get my motor running.
A possitive attitude... "Your cum belongs to me!"
A no quit attitude. She will make it happen.
She is happy to see me again.
Experience. Intelligence. Connection. Trust. Confidence. Compassion. Open-mindedness. Wisdom. Talent. Generosity. Freedom. Acceptance.
Of course, the reason for the season for me will always be (I think) primal physical attraction: without that I don't see the point.
That being said, there is a different intensity when having sex with a peer. For me, when it works, it is less primal and more refined or spiritual...
Great question. Thanks.
I'm in my mid fifties and the 40+ providers I see can relate to having children at least in their teens, some older. I'm just not comfortable being with someone who is younger than my step-daughter (30) or my son (26).
Aside from all that, they damn gorgeous and incredibly talented, kind and did I say gorgeous.
All of the above sounds great. However they're just that, soundbites. Pretty much any provider can promise the moon and the stars so meh...
If I was looking I'd be looking for something more "substance" than marketing soundbites.
Nothing surprising here: I'd be looking for reasonable pricing AND as broad a menu as possible.
Realize that the pool of potential clients looking for 40+ providers is a lot smaller than the general population of clients meaning you're in a very competitive market with low demand.
Just like the saying "I don't have to be faster than the bear I just have to be faster than the other guys also being chased by the bear" your real weapon to fight against the competition is 1) pricing and 2) menu
I look for some kissing,light and tender,soft touching,a few moans when i'm touching the right spot.cuddling and soft kisses after the main event ,gives me that intimate feeling that some youn providers dont understand.
If I was looking I'd be looking for something more "substance" than marketing soundbites.
Nothing surprising here: I'd be looking for reasonable pricing AND as broad a menu as possible.
Realize that the pool of potential clients looking for 40+ providers is a lot smaller than the general population of clients meaning you're in a very competitive market with low demand.
Just like the saying "I don't have to be faster than the bear I just have to be faster than the other guys also being chased by the bear" your real weapon to fight against the competition is 1) pricing and 2) menu.
The list of words in the original post just pass through my mind as meaningless advertising. A part of the draw of an older woman for me is that generally they are more genuine, less reliant on acting or bullshit. In this profession especially I think pictures speak louder than words. If you can convey class, kindness and beauty through your photos, then words will be superfluous really (you just want to avoid setting off alarm signals). Photos + reviews will draw clients more than any magic combination of words.
The Mature category gets the highest amount of traffic on a major ad site whose name I am apparently not allowed to mention here (some other categories being Busty, GFE, All-Natural, Petite, College Girls, Blonde, etc).
I've met some of those 40+ ladies. They BANK. Most of their rates are average or slightly higher than average (in a major metropolitan market). And they're really not hurting for business.
I'm sure they get emails saying that they're too old and charge too much for their age, etc. I'm sure they laugh all the way to their financial consultant's office.
One that is of legal age to give consent of course.
I know most women don't have daughters older than them.
Physiologically,women over 40 are often peaking sexually and are often more interested than younger women.
Older women (says me whose oldest daughter is in her mid 40s) are often more comfortable in themselves. Know what they want what they do and do not want to deliver and
with the knowledge of how best to deliver it.
In short a mature spirit and mind in a mature body often makes older women very exciting.
My preferences are always changing. I use to like the more mature providers, this board has changed my opinion of them.
And a few of the other things that people have already mentioned.
hank you all so much for your input ~ I really appreciate it
I take a lot of heat for this because the vast majority of gentlemen say that it can't be found in a place like this. That it's wishful thinking to hope for this, let alone think it has happened. Nevertheless, what I look for in a lady has to do with subtlety, nuance, distinctiveness, spirit, and essence. I'm here to tell you that it can, and has happened.
The other thing that I look for that isn't already on your list is the sexuality of the lady. Yes, some ladies are here for the $$$, and are great actresses in portraying some of your listed qualities. But there are some ladies out there, who are here because of their highly energized sexuality. Yes, it's nice to have a $$$ sidelight, but make no mistake, they're here because they enjoy themselves immensely in this endeavor. It's not common, but I've experienced it eight or nine times over the years.