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Re: "The Eyes Have It"
AHappyCamper 9 Reviews 161 reads
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Interesting thought/perspective about vocalizing.  I've always been more on the quiet side, not one to talk much.  I've always preferred to watch or listen for reactions.  I've always taken the approach that if she is truly enjoying the time together, then she's going to want to make sure that I'm left in that same state of euphoria.

I was laying intertwined with a lover the other morning, and our post coital musings led us to the topic of sex tips and tricks…. (I believe his exact words were "How the hell did you learn how to do that?" lol  

Gents and Ladies, whats the best/funnest sex tip or trick that you have learned since entering this fantasy world of ours?  

When began this journey I was very sexually inexperienced, its amazing to reflect on the variety of insanely different experiences I've had the privilege of sampling… Sex Is Grand no?  

They say variety is the Spice of life :) I very much agree…..Mmmmmmmmmm :)

Follow her reactions, use your imagination and watch her eyes. Those are the three most important things I've discovered.

IRL I've had a few women say the same thing, "Where did you learn that" and I would just ask if they enjoyed it. Answering it would have been detrimental.

Yes they are. There is a certain warmth to a lady's gaze when the chemistry is there. It's a wonderful experience to see it. But that's just me.

And yours my dear are the most amazing to gaze into....  :)

Yes, the eyes ... Nothing turns me on more than to look into a womans eyes and see sincerity in them. That she is truly enjoying me and not just acting. Ummmmmmm.

Hello Eva, I hope your birthday has been sexy and wonderful today!! ;)
You posed your thoughts to both the "Ladies and Gents",
I'll be the second woman to join in.  
I concur with all of you that our eyes truly emote the delights that  
our bodies are experiencing.  Second to ones' verbal cues.  I tend to be  
very verbal during an encounter, especially if I am really vibing with the person.
It's such a "turn-on" to me to hear that I'm giving you pleasure.
If something feels amazing, I can't help but tell you!  If you walk in the door
and your fragrance is intoxicating, I will ask "what are you wearing?".
If you're bringing me to the brink of ecstasy, trust me you'll know!
Some people prefer to be completely silent.  I say, "to each his/or her own."
But imo, if you are not verbally communicating to me at all, then the "whimace",
on your face while I'm gazing into your "eyes"  
may be misconstrued as pain, when in reality, you're in the throes
of well,  "Eva Bliss"...tell me, I want to know. ;

Interesting thought/perspective about vocalizing.  I've always been more on the quiet side, not one to talk much.  I've always preferred to watch or listen for reactions.  I've always taken the approach that if she is truly enjoying the time together, then she's going to want to make sure that I'm left in that same state of euphoria.

Your "euphoria" is all my pleasure and desire!  I'm not a robot however.  (I'll leave that  
sad behavior to the wives and girlfriends of hobbyists out there).
I truly love pleasing someone, while enjoying myself.  That is a motivator for why I choose  
this endeavor.  
Everyones' sexual "demeanor" is definitely different.  As for you being the "silent type",  
that's all the more sexy reason I will just focus on your "eyes". ;

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