Me, I just like sex, and sex with a hooker is great as there are no expectations of flowers, candy, endless texts etc. We can simply have some fun, and then as you say "adieu 'till next time" That works just fine for me.
Ladies, I would like to present this for consideration among potential client turnoffs, if you will allow me.
I've heard it a surprising number of times now. I don't know why ladies even mention it but maybe I should just chalk it up to honesty and be done with it.
What I'm talking about is some reference to having to make arrangements with the babysitter so we can proceed with our "date".
In my fantasy you are NOT a single mother who needs to hire a babysitter so please don't spoil it for me.
Many people have children, and those children are a lot more important to the mother than any of us ever will be!
If she arranges her schedule around that, I would greatly appreciate it rather than condemning her for her priorities.
We all have our own fantasies about the gals we are about to see, but having to get a babysitter in order to see me, seems to be a bit hot.
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I may chat about this n that before we begin. I am after all a human being like you. Not a stepford wife. Ever see that movie?
I am very dotting and totally cater to clients needs and desires. But please dont make me stay in character when off the clock. i am real person with a real life just like you.
Like wise, my clients , most of them i have seen photos of thier kids, I know how many kids they have. Or when they are gettin dressed after they may say, like one regular client of mine once said . " Well off to pick up my daughter at hebrew school now!"
as he was gettin up to get dressed. To me thats him kinda gettin ready to go back to his daily grind and daily life, me getting back to return to mine, If either of us brings up a little snip it of our real life activities we were just wrapped up in before or after the meeting, I guarantee i have more experience in this world than the poster of the thread.
he is not seasoned vet in this life for certain for having made a dumb statement like that.
sweetie-
let me school your dumb ass.
the guys WILL mention a few tod bits of where they just arrived from or where they are off too after. Its called being a human being, interacting with another human being. And when the appt is over or maybe in those exhillerating moments right before. It is totally kosher to make a little polite banter now n again. If it does not petain to the fantasy then that is acceptable.
Try a blow up doll or the porno and your hand if you dont like people and are not a people person sweetie. just a suggestion!
oh my god! what a total dick.
a lady happens to mention how she just finished up arrangin the sitter. before they get ready for the session. OH GOD HOW DARE SHE DO THAT TO YOU!
YOU POOR TORMENTED SPOILED ASS HOLE>
who gives a fuck people chat before and after the appt about LIFE hun, the clients do it to us too,
god forbid you ever get to know a escort and know about her real life and become friends with her. That would be terrible wouldnt it?
try watchin a porn that cant talk back to you next time, ............maybe thats more your pace you dick
I've reached a point where I'd rather see someone who prefers a 'hooker' to a 'fantasy date'. Some guys enjoy spending time with a human being who just happens to be a 'hooker'. They don't require me to be a model of elegant deportment, or act so lustfully that I quiver whenever they touch my finger. We simply have fun together. Then, it's adieu 'till next time (with maybe a few emails in between). Perfect.
The guys who want a 'fantasy date' often end up posing boundary issues, to a greater or lesser extent. They aren't looking for a 'real' person, or reality... they want to lose themselves in hormones, pheromones, and emotions. That can be dangerous in the hobby, for obvious reasons...even at the lower end of the spectrum, it can be very annoying for a girl to deal with.
I think the girls are bringing up the sitter because the OP seems flaky or indecisive when scheduling. Only a very sick pig would keep changing his mind about appointment time, or pull a NCNS, when he knows a girl has hired a sitter. It's a tried and true method to make a guy see the REALITY that she isn't sitting around all day, dressed in heels and ready to run out the door. That she has to plan and switch her schedule around to accommodate him, and will actually be inconvenienced if he can't just schedule and appointment and GO to it, just like he would with a doctor..
Me, I just like sex, and sex with a hooker is great as there are no expectations of flowers, candy, endless texts etc. We can simply have some fun, and then as you say "adieu 'till next time" That works just fine for me.
I've never asked for role play. But I can think of several times where it was requested of me. In two cases there were special circumstances where I told the girl, "It's your session. We're going to do whatever you want."
In one case she wanted me to pretend I was her ex and had been missing her. In another, she wanted me to be the high school football coach while she was a slutty school girl. Who could say "no" to that?
By 'fantasy date', I mean the guys who take GFE way too seriously. Like the OP...bring up the fact that you have kids, and it's an immediate boner killer...really??
a mom at all, but I have used that as an excuse to leave. I only did it twice, because it was just too complicated a lie to maintain. One of the guys became a regular and always asked about my kids.
In both cases, the guy pretty much expressed a desire/request for huge amounts OTC even before we met. For instance, guy 1: We had a dinner date. He told me I could arrive earlier for a mani/pedi, and sleep over after if I wanted. I didn't really want to.
A mother's need to get home to children is the one thing a guy can't argue with, and he knows it. I can tell him I have the most important final of my life the next day...he tells me to skip class. No joke, it's happened. Same thing for Mom's birthday dinner, vague 'plans to meet a friend' and most of the countless other excuses I've thought up over the years.
Edited to say: she might also be mentioning it, to emphasize the fact that her time is money. Hopefully, there would be less chance a guy would flake out, or be a wishy-washy scheduler, if he knew had to plan for and spent money on a sitter.
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bring up thier kids in front of me, because they are off to go tend to something concerning them after our session.
One guy was leaving an appt with me to go with his daughter to have her teeth fixed. He told me about it. Sometimes clients cancel because thier daughters cars break down or whatever , and again i hear about it.
and its a-ok with me. ..
proberly a third of the women here have children, so your really narrowing it down oif you require a lady to not have kids in order to service you.
he needs to get over himself, he thinks he is a prince or sumthing, speaking of mommies his mommy proberly still cooks and cleans for him. what a big baby.
Step back a bit...
Hijockey I once bedded a reluctant SB, who told me afterwards that the tipping point occurred when I offered an extra $40 (in addition to $300 a week) to pay for her sitter. Sometimes a few extra $$ buys a lot. We all have fantasies. My SB's fantasy was an arrangement that covered her sitter.
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but I have mentioned my child on the boards in passing. It is simply not the place to be talking about children, period. Notice I do NOT mention that at all on my website or my ads, because my child is not a way for me to get business... that idea is a bit off putting to be honest. I am a hooker, not my child, and she has no business being brought into such an arrangement... in any way, shape or form.
MANY guys get creeped out by having to hear that. It opens up a more personal element they really do not want to think about whilst getting strange ass... especially from a paid companion. Now, some will say the opposite, but the majority do not give two shits about our personal lives nor do they want to hear about our issues. Christ... those who claim to be sooooo good at Marketing must have taken that class from the same series that offers "Hooked on Phonics."