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Never had a problem since I gently hold her head and get
sirbucky 31 Reviews 457 reads
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into a rythym-erotic

ttcttc1426 reads

When a provider is going down on me, I like to hold her head with my hands.  Not to ram anything into her mouth or force anything on her, it just feels right to have my hands on her head (and I like playing with hair, too).  But, I have found out thru experience, some providers don't like this and some REALLY don't like it.  I am just curious as to why. I've asked a couple of times and never really got a clear answer.

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dakine18781 reads

How does a provider know that you wont suddenly grab her head and try and ram your dick down her throat? She doesn't. You really can't see how that uncertainty would make her uneasy?

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ttcttc333 reads

there's no need to be insulting about it. As I noted, I don't ram heads into me, I just like the touch.  I explain this in session.

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ValuedCustomer654 reads

Past trauma - abusive spouse/SO.

Not interested in power exchange.  A BJ can be a dominant act.  Head holding changes it to a submissive act.   Control of orgasm is about as dominant as it gets.  Might be unconscious thing.

Something she saves for her SO.

You are doing it wrong.

You are interrupting her script/rhythm.

Womans prerogative... She just doesn't like it. Period.  No analytical reason.  Sometimes it seems like guys on this board have forgotten that providers are women. Her hot buttons are not all about you

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Heathergfe709 reads

Here are a few more.  
Your hands are covered in lube and pussy juice and she just washed her hair.
It is distracting to have someone rubbing your head when you are trying to work.
You are rubbing in circles and it is tangling her locks.  

I had a guy the other day scoop up my hair so gently while I was giving him oral pleasure. It felt great and was wonderful. I thought to myself that if everyone did it like this I wouldn't be so bothered by it. But most guys pull it, break it, rub my scalp and tangle it, or force me to go deeper than I can handle

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Debra_Hollander390 reads

If I ever write my memoirs, THAT will be the title.  :-)

 
Totally agree with Heather.... who, by the way, has amazingly gorgeous hair!

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London Rayne659 reads

it's no more in depth than that for me, really. When guys start messing around and tossing your hair all over, it gets in your face and mouth. We are better when we don't have anything but your pee pee in there. :)

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Katie_krush389 reads

Posted By: London Rayne
it's no more in depth than that for me, really. When guys start messing around and tossing your hair all over, it gets in your face and mouth. We are better when we don't have anything but your pee pee in there. :)

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sirbucky458 reads

into a rythym-erotic

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Jamie.Solo377 reads

doing this it used to REALLY bother me when gents put their hands on my hand, but now I can't say that it bothers me at all or that I notice. But, I also think that from then to now- I have a different attitude and my guests are different. So, that may be why it is no longer a problem. As long as you are gentle and sensual with how you touch me, it wont bother me at all.

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mrfisher335 reads

So read the reviews carefully and see if you can find those gals.

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Jamie.Solo254 reads

Ya know, I was thinking about it today, and I think the reason that it sometimes used to irritate me is usually it is when the guy is trying to push my pace. I totally understand that some guys want you to go all down- but ahem. I know what I am doing, and I usually like to start slow and build up- so when you push you are ruining my flow.  

Now- if you are holding and not pushing- go ahead. :)

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hbyist+truth=;(325 reads

If the hand is very gentle and not entangled in the hair or even gently holding said hair so it does not get into my mouth is appreciated.

If the hand pressure becomes firmer and there is upthrust, I will stop and ask that he remove his hand so I can control the depth. If he is a gentleman he does, if he is not, he feels teeth and that my friends, ends the BJ.

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JordannaLee246 reads

Most girls (myself included) hate that shit! I wouldn't do it to a provider unless she's ok with it.

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