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race of clientelle that contact you cause drama then you have every right to pick and choose and to say to hell with it i dont even wanna meet with any one from that group of people .  

 
I meet with every race and do not discriminate, BUT.
my first time i ever posted an ad for escort work was in 2002, in boston phoenix and also craigs.

 
   Since that time , ahem so baSICALLY I AM STATING I HAVE ALOT EXPERIENCE IN DEALING WITH CLIENTS . i HAVE NEVER HAD A BLACK MAN GIVE ME MORE THAN 150. iN MY EXPERIENCE SINCE 2002.

 
    Does this mean none of them have money? well no it doesnt  but if i chose i rather just state no black men in ads and deal with white sincethis isnt legal i can make my own laws and rules if i choose.

 
then in past few weeks i got annoyingly harrased by not one but 2 black men, They were rude to me, annoyed the fuck outta me, and again it made me say geesh, I CAN kinda see how after bein in the biz a while, IF OVER AND OVER AND OVER your experiencing dramA, RUDE BEHAVIOR, NO MANNERS, CLASSLESS TREATEMNT, BY ONE PARTICULAR GROUP OF MEN ,  

i WOULD SAY THEN FEEL FREE TO PRROVE ME WRONG, iF THERE are IN FACT GENEROUS POLITE BLACK MALES OUT THERE , PLEASE STEP FORWARD AND CHANGE MY MIND, mY EXPERIENCE WITH THEM,
IN ALL MY YEARS IN THE CLUBS AND ESCORTING ECT ECT, iT IS WISE TO AVOID THEM IF YOUR GOAL IS RESPECT AND TO MAKE MONEY,

 
               I personally always run into drama and nonesense in my dealings with black men, I also in all my years have yet to see one book more than a half hour.
                            Oh yes and just this week I had one call me seventy times and ask if i will claw his back and skin open on film, for 15o for the hour, and will i do a second hour for 50 bucks. ...........

              he said he wanted to kiss my stomach and be dominated and have me yell at him scratch him with my nails, ..........he harrased me by email and phone and did an awful lotta time wasting and when he pinned the  oh , so how about the second hour of video how does 50 bucks sound?

 

then he ALSO  asked if i can arrange the camera man or camera women to do the video shoot, further expecting just an awful lotta work outta me for a shit money pay.

 

at some point i have to say i grasp and can understand and see thier concept and there reasoning,  

 
In my personal experience in my what 12 plus years of being a full time dancer aDULT MOSEL AND ESPOCRT, i HAVENT HAD THE BEST EXPERIENCE OR LUCK WITH BLACK MEN AS CLIENTELLE, fROM THE WAY THEY HAVE TREATED ME BEFORE THE APPTS AND THE AMOUNT THEY SPEND.

 

                 Many many black women I knew well at the clubs also refused to approach black men for dances for the same reasons, they felt they simply just dont spend ect ect.

 
            if you been repeadetly treated like dog shit by a certain cluster of men folk, and by a landslide. sure i can get deciding to set a rule.  

 
I also had tons and tons of voicemails a w few weeks ago with some one screaming i am an asshole cuz i wont see black man on my voicemail and tryin to sound like freddy crouger into my work cell phonw,

i have had more drama surrounding black men lately.

 
BUT i still am not racist i still dont post no black men, I still would be open to trying to meet with them...

 
BUT in my experience so far I have yet to ever have one book a full hour, and as of late i have had some drama with mean voicemails and also the guy that waNTED THE DOMME VIDEO WHEN HE SAID OH BUT I AM A BLACK MAN DO YOU MIND?

 
    i said no that is fine.

but then he sprung the offer for 50 bucks for the second hour the video is filmed, then he sprung the wanting me to arrange some one to film it, I was like seriously?

 
all in all i am sure one say a black man will book a full hour and be polite and be ok with being screened, I am still waiting on that day but , am open to it possibly happening .

but I do kinda get it, and dont see an issue if people wanna see certain races because of thier personal experiewnce, i do get it.  

the end result at end day is to have fun make money and deal with as little bullshit possible

I look at ads on bp  before I go to a new area. I often  read   NO BLACK MEN PLEASE.  I understand personal preference and that's cool.  But given the special circumstances,  I don't believe this is really about attraction or lack thereof.  I am ever so curious about this.  I didn't pay too much attention until I saw a black womans ad that said it.  I am going to start putting the types of men I don't want to see in my ass. NO ARROGANT FUCK STICKS PLEASE.  😉

Posted By: realcrimsonlass
I am going to start putting the types of men I don't want to see in my ass.

Do you like arrogant fucksticks in your ass?

Thank you, Captain Obvious. Tell me, does day also turn into night?

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The earth rotates around the sun.

Posted By: GiantBombing
Thank you, Captain Obvious. Tell me, does day also turn into night?

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... I don't see black men either!  

;)

....then waste a lot of time sending emails asking. At least that way I can write her off immediately and not waste my time. I am someone who appreciates it when a provider includes in her ad the people that she WON'T see. Saves my delicate typing fingers for better things, like contacting gals who will entertain "my kind"!

but still would not give it a rest. Every three weeks someone have to ask again.  

People have the right to provide intimate services to whom they want to. EEO doesn’t apply.

Tell me what to read and what comment?  
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This is public board ass hole

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This is public board ass hole!!!!!!! Deal with it.

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Though JCA is giving him a firm run for the money especially today.

It's 2015 for GOD'S sake and it sickens me... WE ALL BLEED THE SAME COLOR.  I don't care if you are black, white, yellow, brown, WE ARE ALL HUMAN!

It's a great place for exposure and many do use it to get the traffic, even if it's only occasionally. The bad side of BP is it's riddled with the unsavory, you'll find all kinds of goings on that roll through and are gone in about a week/month and then you'll find a lot of those fishing for girls. The comment No AA on BP I believe is to not have to deal with the constant bombardment of handlers (no matter what name you want to place on them) it's annoying to get hit up by someone offering services or wanting to "help" and most of these girls you see probably are tied up daily with offers to work with them. There are plenty upstanding AA out there and I doubt they'd be seeking out the shady posts of BP for entertainment. I do believe that is posted to cut down on the nonsense, it honestly gets tiring replying to the same BS day after day.  

So I wouldn't be too discouraged if a provider on BP doesn't want your business, more than a taste factor it is a safety issue and it's to keep the headaches to a minimum. Plus how weird would it be for two handlers to meet, awkward!!! "Fancy meeting you here, oh, she's yours? Sorry, my bad!" Yes, it's sarcasm FYI and I've seen really tense exchanges happen while driving down the streets here late night.

The best thing you can do is make sure she's well reviewed and be the kind of person she'd like to see. There's plenty text I ignore because "you avail" just doesn't speak to me for some reason. And I'm sure these girls get far worse. Speak/text and act appropriately, what every provider wants is a gentlemen, your ways of communication do come across very strong. Also a well dressed man is nice to see coming to your door...  we'll see your buns soon enough, we don't need a preview before you get inside!

Not to mention size, plenty reasons why a provider can and will shake her head furiously NO! Sometimes it just won't fit, be kind, we're all built a little differently! Never one size fits all! "Open wide" nope, not happening! As lock jaw sets in!

Look at the news, A white guy is beat to death by LE, for no reason other than  mental illness, police are charged, not convicted, hardly a peep from  the insignificant white crowd.
  Same scenario, Blacks unite with passion, while  standing up vehemently for their rights.
     
Now, let's put  that passion from  the perspective of rip off hookers who don't perform as advertised.
  White taffy man lays his donation on the table, rip off hooker places $$$ in her pocketbook.
   He asks her to take her clothes off, she replies  take a hike, she ain't no HO!  
   Elmer Dudd leaves without a peep, Hooker keeps Elmer's  money.  
 
  Next customer, young Black male, 25,  enters room, gives hooker  donation,  asks her to  take her clothes off, she says no, she ain't no HO.  
  He takes his donation back, tells rip off Ho he don't play no Elmer  games, he's a man with pride.  
   Next time rip off hooker's places an ad , "No Black men under 30".  

 I hope I helped your curiosity, with a reply, taffy ass fuck stick white  Elmer's, often forget.  :-D

Posted By: realcrimsonlass
I look at ads on bp  before I go to a new area. I often  read   NO BLACK MEN PLEASE.  I understand personal preference and that's cool.  But given the special circumstances,  I don't believe this is really about attraction or lack thereof.  I am ever so curious about this.  I didn't pay too much attention until I saw a black womans ad that said it.  I am going to start putting the types of men I don't want to see in my ass. NO ARROGANT FUCK STICKS PLEASE.  😉

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Our little tidwit is worse than any lily white "Elmer Dudd" hobbyist.

Next customer is Tiddles, enters room, gushes about what a pretty ladee she is, sets down the donation, never asks her to take off her clothes as he is too bashful, starts some small talk, after ten minutes rip off hooker goes beserk, says she IS a ho, not a fucking shrink and tells him to GET THE FUCK OUT!!! Tiddles apologizes, leaves a thirty percent tip and slinks out the door. lmao

Ooops, I almost forgot, he then goes home and writes her a ten/ten review and starts stalking her on the boards.

the problem is too many white guys are sooooooooooooo fucking entrenched in defending this SHIT they can't even see when it personally affects them.

90% of the time if you see that NBA on BP it is a rip-off.  The crackheads know brothers don't play that shit!!!!!!!!!!

But I know several White guys i grew up with that would not play that shit either.  Take their $$$ and they are coming after your ass - straight up

Your White friends must have  Italian, or Native ancestry mixed  in their veins.
   
   Almond white, Antique white, Snow white, will usually melt quicker than  a Cream sickle on a hot  summer day, a  Rip off Ho's  Dream sucker .

 Plus, a majority of  under 30 Black guys are not married.
   
 When you see an ad proclaiming,  "I love older white men" chances are  that rip off Ho
knows,  older  white guys are more worried about  getting caught by their wife than  
losing money.    
 No chance he'll be making a war path disturbance, demanding his dollars  back, from a  
  rip off Ho.  

Posted By: Ridgetucky
the problem is too many white guys are sooooooooooooo fucking entrenched in defending this SHIT they can't even see when it personally affects them.  
   
 90% of the time if you see that NBA on BP it is a rip-off.  The crackheads know brothers don't play that shit!!!!!!!!!!  
   
 But I know several White guys i grew up with that would not play that shit either.  Take their $$$ and they are coming after your ass - straight up.    
   
 

that the first and last people to defend it are the lame ass white guys?

For the record I am AA and I just want to know upfront so I don't waste my time.  I could give a shit about her personal preferences.  Just let me know so I don't take time off then get to the hotel and be left with my dick in my hand because of a personal preference.

I do find it funny that the most notorious case of a violent Hobbyist was a White medical student in Boston that killed a White Provider.  Never once heard jack shit about how that reflected badly on White guys.  Never, ever, ever, ever, ever, never did that come up.  Had that been a Black, Hispanic or even Asian Hobbyist that did it you would have heard non-stop don't take date with (insert that race here) Hobbyists.

RT (my favorite song is True by Spandau Ballet)

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They say NO BLACK MEN OR NO AA because they lack the skills and talent.  I've study providers that say that and 90 percent of them have poor reviews or no reviews.  Very few of them have high ranking in their performance.  Check it out for yourself.

The provider that I was with who had that posted in her ad told me it was because most all of the black guys want to try and recruit her and make her work for them. They supposedly offer to get them alot more business if they will allow the black guy to become their pimp. She said it had nothing to do with not being attracted to black guys, but by posting no black guys in her ad, that it prevents the drama of the black guys approaching her to work for him.
I forgot to mention that this is mostly only on BP. I don't recall seeing No black men on any of the P411 ads and if so, it's a very small percentage compared to Back Page postings.

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Here’s the thing, though. If she cut off all Black men after say, five pimp calls, how does she know there weren’t 15 other non-pimp Black men waiting to become regulars? And another 10 after that after eight of the original 15 moved on? It’s not like there’s an infinite supply of pimps out there (and for the sake of argument, we’ll assume there’s no such thing as a non-Black pimp, though there are), so after they tried to reel her in and got nowhere, they’d eventually go away. (I hope.) Meanwhile, she’s turned away a steady supply of customers.

But hey, it’s literally her business, so I guess her pockets aren’t hurting because of it. And everybody has a limit on how much irritation they can take. And it has to be scary. So God bless her.

I would like to know if the ladies who say specific things like “no pimps” in their ads and use other kinds of pimp garlic have any luck with their warnings. I don’t have the time, money, or energy to find out

And they were perfect gentlemen. I am thinking the demographic that might be the cause of such ire are those who might troll BP. And that might also depend on what state and if BP is the only form of advertising. I used to advertise in other areas and had no issue with pimps or slang talking anyone.

And one of your messages up there about those type of emails, exactly. Being at a certain donation point, screening your clients, and paying attention to how they express themselves, will get you more times than not (most times), those two black gentleman you have seen. All lower class black guys are not assholes and talk down to women but the environment most of them are in unfortunately welcomes that type of bs too much. For the record, there are a lot of black women within those environments that can't stand that crap.

I've been in a melting pot since I was 5. I've seen, known, befriended all types of people. All colors, a lot of nationalities, rich and poor, and so on.

You're not at all wrong about the way you're looking at it. If a person can't even begin to express himself properly in writing and give respect in writing, why would anyone take the chance to see that person. Just to say you don't discriminate. Hell no. Agreed.

I could go all day about this but I won't. You seem to be one of the only ones on this thread with legitimate intellectual thoughts running through your mind. A few others but you are surely one.
 

Posted By: hbyist+truth=;(
And they were perfect gentlemen. I am thinking the demographic that might be the cause of such ire are those who might troll BP. And that might also depend on what state and if BP is the only form of advertising. I used to advertise in other areas and had no issue with pimps or slang talking anyone.
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If you speak about provider about "lady" you are respectfull gentleman.
 

Posted By: realcrimsonlass
I look at ads on bp  before I go to a new area. I often  read   NO BLACK MEN PLEASE.  I understand personal preference and that's cool.  But given the special circumstances,  I don't believe this is really about attraction or lack thereof.  I am ever so curious about this.  I didn't pay too much attention until I saw a black womans ad that said it.  I am going to start putting the types of men I don't want to see in my ass. NO ARROGANT FUCK STICKS PLEASE.  😉

I've never met a black man whose admitted to seeing a provider.

Anybody check the news?  Ferguson, Baltimore....Too bad "the button" does not exist to blow those ignorant, looting fuckers and those states off the map.

Posted By: ChaChingChump
Anybody check the news?  Ferguson, Baltimore....Too bad "the button" does not exist to blow those ignorant, looting fuckers and those states off the map.
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And presently what I'm seeing is a lot of black folk burning down and robbing their communities when shit don't go their way.  Raise taxes and build more prisons!  If you can't kill em, lock em up.  

If the Jews can get over Hitler, I think Black Folk can drop the whole slavery debauchery, no?

someone else communities would have been "smarter". It was surely ignorant, foolish and misplaced but there were waaaay more black folks along with many other colors voicing their concerns the right way. The mere fact that you think that faction of black young idiots were doing that because of their thoughts or anger at "slavery" surely makes you one of the most ignorant. You won't find the average black person to disagree it was asinine. They were opportunists. They weren't angry at any injustice which may have occurred in Baltimore and definitely weren't angry at "slavery" as you call it because they have never experienced it motherfucker. I won't get into why those idiots are the way they are but they are not the majority of black men. Multi-faceted, multi-dimensional and I know for sure too complicated for your simple mind. Without question.  

Your simple-minded, sensationalized thoughts and "solutions" prove you are indeed ignorant. Now I ask you plain and simple, what is your reason for such ignorance and short-sided thought process.  

You can raise taxes and build more prisons for sure. You wouldn't need to if too many poor black, white and brown dudes were in there for non-violent drug "crimes" anyhow. Thanks to the dumbass Ronald Reagan who children don't even respect him. You know, the one who listened to psychics for advice during his terms. Yeah, him. While the white motherfuckers who for the most part only have the money and the connections to PUSH those drugs in BULK are chilling and still pushing them. You want some jails for them too? You want jails for those crooks on Wall Street? Huh, do you?  You want jails for those white pedophiles running a muck out there. For them kidnappers. Mostly white. Them older white men with 5 to 10 DUIs on their record and still driving drunk? Huh. You want jails for them sports nuts burning shit, and causing chaos for their team losing? Huh. Did you want jails for them hate groups who burned shit, actually Killed people in the past and still now if you pay attention to more than just the sensationalized news cycles. Huh?

I'm sorry that your mother and father were brother and sister. It's not your fault and I know you're still mad at them! Let it go! You're breathing! Btw. Are you Jewish? I've known a few Jews and The Holocaust effect still reigns strong in the minds of many but it's beyond the point.  

You're not living in the present if you think a lot of black men are savages who need to be locked up more than the corrupt dangerous white men out there. You're living with your head in your ass! Funny Goggles my man or my woman! You surely sound like a female!

And you had best be an atheist! That still wouldn't help you out in my eyes but you at least best be that or I could come at you 10 thousand ways sideways with your hypocrisy on that front.

Wake up and if you don't want to actually help people even in the face of what you see as being savages, shut the fuck up. Those savages ain't worried about you and never will be! Stop worrying about them because you saw them on your TV!
 

Posted By: ChaChingChump
And presently what I'm seeing is a lot of black folk burning down and robbing their communities when shit don't go their way.  Raise taxes and build more prisons!  If you can't kill em, lock em up.    
   
 If the Jews can get over Hitler, I think Black Folk can drop the whole slavery debauchery, no?

you want jails for them too. I could go all day with you but I'm tired.

Peace out Mofo! Good luck to your KIND! Lol. Smh.

Posted By: ChaChingChump
And presently what I'm seeing is a lot of black folk burning down and robbing their communities when shit don't go their way.  Raise taxes and build more prisons!  If you can't kill em, lock em up.    
   
 If the Jews can get over Hitler, I think Black Folk can drop the whole slavery debauchery, no?

Racism, like sexism is here to stay.

Posted By: ChaChingChump
And presently what I'm seeing is a lot of black folk burning down and robbing their communities when shit don't go their way.  Raise taxes and build more prisons!  If you can't kill em, lock em up.    
   
 If the Jews can get over Hitler, I think Black Folk can drop the whole slavery debauchery, no?

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Gorilla Pimping is fading and being replaced by Finesse Pimping. Pimps need to recruit and contacting girls who aren't on the track is now necessary. It doesn't matter if the girl has a pimp or not.  Girls now have the option to leave one pimp for another with a certain protocol. If a pimp is smooth he will be successful.

The second problem in Wannabees. Thug culture glamorizes hustling. There are young guys who are enamored with the idea of being a pimp, but have not been on the streets and don't know what pimping really is. They are usually just crass, rough, misogynistic jerks. They don't try to break into the game on the street. They don't know how. They just call ads, book a session, and wing it. (These are the same knucklehead you see at strip clubs posing as rappers.) They are assholes when it comes to women.

Easy to understand why any provider who ran into one of these guys once would decide no black guys.

There will always be a lower element in any race. if that is not your cup of tea, then advertise (website, images etc) to who you want to see. It really is not that hard.

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Rampant naivety.  
I mean you are spot on. Unfortunately, not everyone can figure that sort of thing out on there own.

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