Ever been to a doctor? What, you couldn't heal yourself? Ever attended a school? What, you couldn't learn that stuff on your own? Ever had a problem and gotten help from someone to solve it? And maybe you wouldn't have solved the problem without their help?
Your handle is well-chosen.Ladies, are you somewhat put off if you know a client is married, is it a potential turn-on or are you neutral on the subject? And did your opinion on this change over time? Just wondering.
Married men have never put me off, they do turn me on though. It's the naughtiness, we aren't supposed to be together. When I was younger about 18 it was a bigger deal than now at age 25 about to be 26. I've realized married men are deprived of a lot of pleasures in life once they are married. Women shut down once they are married and its not fair to their husbands.
So in my eyes some women have broken their vows by not fulfilling their husbands needs, sexual needs.
Hehe anyway thats my opinion. 
providers want the money, not all the drama that comes with trying to be a kept woman i would think. a turn on? no. that would be an ego problem if a provider was naive enough to think that she was somehow better than the wife just because she is willing to spread her legs for money. i don't see too many smart, successful men leaving their wives for providers.
What's the line...and the amount?
Lordy, I had no idea my simple little comment would unleash such a torrent of ones and zeroes.
I'm no Jimmy the Greek, but here's my completely un-researched take on this:
An awful lot of wives cut their husbands off from sex a few years into the marriage. Most of these husbands are going to start looking somewhere else for sex. They have more or less two choices: Escorts, or people from their social/work environment.
If they choose the former, the discretion practiced by escorts and (hopefully) the client will forestall any discovery of the husband's infidelity. It the choose the latter, then sooner or later someone is going to let the cat out of the bag and the wife will find out leading to divorce.
Now sometimes divorce is the answer all along, but there is something to be said for two people staying together and raising their kids, etc., while finding whatever nooky they need on the side. Supposedly this is a very common scenario in some European countries, if you believe the movies, anyways.
In any case, I think we can agree that if a guy is going to seek out sex outside his marriage, he's better off with escorts than screwing around with the neighbor's wife or the secretary at work as those can lead not only to divorce by all kinds of problems including getting fired or shot to death.
That's all I wanted to express.
And by the way, escorting was the supposed reason for my divorce*, but I did manage to get away with things for over ten years and I got caught because I got too complacent and took chances that now I would not do, having the benefit of experience from TER.
*My wife decided that she didn't like me, my family, or the area, so she decided to create a new life for herself. Discovering my escorting just gave her the lever she needed to justify the divorce.
That's all I was commenting on...they don't.
When anyone is ready to move on from a marriage...they're going to do so.
As myself and others have babbled...the # 1 reason for divorce is financially related. Sex is just sex...easy to obtain for most folks.
No need to put hookers on a pedestal for providing sex. Any more than I'd put the barkeep on a pedestal for pouring me a drink. It's a job...some do better than others.
At least you are smart enough to not want to wager that hookers save marriages...can't say the same for dadada LOL
I'm no Jimmy the Greek, but here's my completely un-researched take on this:
An awful lot of wives cut their husbands off from sex a few years into the marriage. Most of these husbands are going to start looking somewhere else for sex. They have more or less two choices: Escorts, or people from their social/work environment.
If they choose the former, the discretion practiced by escorts and (hopefully) the client will forestall any discovery of the husband's infidelity. It the choose the latter, then sooner or later someone is going to let the cat out of the bag and the wife will find out leading to divorce.
Now sometimes divorce is the answer all along, but there is something to be said for two people staying together and raising their kids, etc., while finding whatever nooky they need on the side. Supposedly this is a very common scenario in some European countries, if you believe the movies, anyways.
In any case, I think we can agree that if a guy is going to seek out sex outside his marriage, he's better off with escorts than screwing around with the neighbor's wife or the secretary at work as those can lead not only to divorce by all kinds of problems including getting fired or shot to death.
That's all I wanted to express.
And by the way, escorting was the supposed reason for my divorce*, but I did manage to get away with things for over ten years and I got caught because I got too complacent and took chances that now I would not do, having the benefit of experience from TER.
*My wife decided that she didn't like me, my family, or the area, so she decided to create a new life for herself. Discovering my escorting just gave her the lever she needed to justify the divorce.
less likely to cause a big upset like seeing neighbors and/or co-workers.
They too would be considered helping to "save a marriage"?
When you find yourself in a hole...best to stop digging LOL
The escort saves the marriage by allowing the husband to get sex in a discreet manner.
Seeing the neighbor/co-worker would be indiscreet and would end up threatening the marriage.
If you honestly believe what you are saying...that's great.
But the reality from my world is simply that sex is pretty far down the list of items regarding marital dissolution.
It's far too easy a commodity to acquire, be it P4P or otherwise.
Seeing the neighbor/co-worker would be indiscreet and would end up threatening the marriage.
Not just saving marriages they also help reduce and prevent many, many possible sex crimes.
And not just sex crimes but also unwanted pregnancies.
Which in turn also prevent more abortion AND drain on our welfare system from unwanted children.
Yes prostitutes do serve a very necessary and useful role in society.
There's a reason why it is called the oldest profession and is always around everywhere.
i think you are trying to make yourself feel better about what you do by so much projecting. you do not know one iota of what a man thinks and if he tells you that you are saving his marriage, he is an idiot. prevent sex crimes? are you saying the men you see would be rapists if not for you? so you see dangerous men? geezus christ on a fucking cracker. you are off your rocker. if sex for an hour with a hooker can save a marriage then so can one night at the strip club. that marriage was doomed. if it were only that simple.
I'm glad you believe your nonsense...but it's just not true.
I guess you need to tell yourself this to feel good about wha you do.
That's OK...I understand.
I also hate to break it to you, but Santa isn't real either.
And not just sex crimes but also unwanted pregnancies.
Which in turn also prevent more abortion AND drain on our welfare system from unwanted children.
Yes prostitutes do serve a very necessary and useful role in society.
There's a reason why it is called the oldest profession and is always around everywhere.
I wonder what the actual percentage of Johns who are married is but it's got to be substantial.
Married clients are more passionate for sure and truly enjoy there rendezvous. When screening clients I don't put a plus sign next two a married clients name or any of the above. There is a certain level of respect and rapport with married men.
I have had clients get off on the thought of being caught. I have even had clients call me their wives name for more intriguing play. In my opinion wives withdrawing there goodies from there husbands are the reason the need to venture out.
The intention upon meeting is never to make you my husband or take you from your family. Just like any great service provided it has to come to a end, whether its a hair cut or nail appointment your clients feel appreciated and loves your craft. We are working girls, so with that said we have a good time and I send you back home to your wife feeling happy and stress free.
I have enjoyed my fair share of married men and will continue to be their happiness consultant. Just my thoughts.
How would you know whether they are married before or after the encounter if they don't tell you?
your website to see where you are located. I like your style.
It should make no difference if any of us lady (or gent) hobbyists are hitched. We are paying for a service, and no judgement should be made from either side of that unsealed envelope.
Better make that "single unmarried ignoramus idiots who have to chime in with their holier-than-thou attitude/morality".
who said anything about morality? providers do not save marriages nor do drugs or alcohol cure depression. you fill a void, provide an escape much like a drug and nothing more. sure, you boost egos and make a man feel young and wanted again but that is a fucking illusion because you are being paid to act that way! so you are saying an illusion saves a marriage? funny shit
"Single unmarried ignoramus morons." Isn't that a tad redundant? Shouldn't a rocket scientist man hater like yourself know that?
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...and there could be many reasons for that.
Except for the fact that if you are married, you are probably less likely to become a stalker or behave badly. Translation: you have more to lose than a single guy if you misbehave.
Are absolutely none if my business.
If I see a ring, I think of saturn.
Xo
Alexa