In this business, the time for bitterness is when guy’s STOP making sexual advances.
The job is certainly different in many respects, but would providers concede that much of the argument still applies to the job of being an escort?
(Guys: I know it will be tough, but maintain some radio silence on this for a while until a decent number of gals have tossed in their two cents. Thanks.)
More like hooker silence. LOL! :
Better go find your new friend for some help.
Nah it's more fun when he does! 
Toxwell = our currently-missing toxic piñata.
Twatter Account = yes, he does have a Twitter account and recently claimed he had 100 followers, as if that was an impressive number. One of my correspondents reports, however, the count is now down to 70.
Do I win a prize
I'm sure that he's crying about that as well.
I see that Bozo has over 1900 followers...Tid's has some work to do.
Twatter Account = yes, he does have a Twitter account and recently claimed he had 100 followers, as if that was an impressive number. One of my correspondents reports, however, the count is now down to 70.
Do I win a prize?
EOM
...Bella Abzug? Wouldn't that show what a feminist you are?
Being the kinkster that you are, fish, you probably already checked this one off your bucket list.
There is shit I would not do or deal with in a non paid date with a person of my choosing with whom there is an attraction and a level playing field.
In reality, I would not touch any of my johns if it were not for the fee, so there is the first compromise out of the gate.
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I go out of my way to sift out anyone I'm not more than pleased to be with. Everyone needs money, but I would imagine you'd lose your soul pretty quickly to be with people you don't want to be with, and I'm certainly glad you don't speak for this provider. Yuck.
In reality, I would not touch any of my johns if it were not for the fee, so there is the first compromise out of the gate.
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Why anyone would continue to do ANY job they so much hate is beyond logical.
But h+t has been at this for a long time...she's getting older now and the "easy money" is no longer easy.
I can't imagine hating what I do so much...but having to do it to just pay my rent.
In reality, I would not touch any of my johns if it were not for the fee, so there is the first compromise out of the gate.
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I like my clients as people, but in so far as sexually they are not my type or age group. I can enjoy them in other ways and I do. Do I WANT to be with them sexually ..no I don't but I can do my job and not lose any soul...been doing this on and off for a while as I choose the right type of client for ME.
Would I hang out with couple of my clients outside of this world..yes and I do and their families.
Being a sub puts a different slant...that would be soul sucking for me.
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You whine about the johns you have to see...then crow about how you screen the creeps out.
So...which is it?
Would I hang out with couple of my clients outside of this world..yes and I do and their families.
Being a sub puts a different slant...that would be soul sucking for me.
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But when asked by CNN what her positions were on any topic...well, they just pulled up her prior opposite comments.
I'd say h+t is angry at men...but I think it's gone beyond just males...she has fallen so deep into the abyss that her GF of years finally had enough of her nonsense.
subchar gave her some solid advice...time to take a break. Actually it was time for that years ago. And h+t is too old now to get paid much for her personal training nonsense. Far too many hot young ones.
I did suggest to her a few years back to get an education. With a degree she could have had a few more options.
when I don't want to give myself to someone, I tell them to see someone else, and that happens on a regular basis. I do understand bitterness, though, and when that has happened, I got out for a few years. Maybe you need a break.
parameters? Is it on personality, sexual likes or dislikes, they way they speak to you?
I too refuse clients on those parameters but can still perform my job without sexual attraction. Are you telling me and the rest of the board that you are sexually attracted to 100% of your clients?
I am happy you got out when it was too much for you. No I don't need a break. I have a small group of great guys I see that make this quite easy and lucrative.
But clearly from your conflicted posts for the past several years now (under you old handle as well)...this is FAR from easy...and not particularly lucrative.
But when that other gig never panned out...you are forced to deal with an element here that you simply have such disdain for.
How you can look in a mirror is beyond my comprehension.
Maybe one of those "great guys" can pay you enough to actually pay rent on time?
I too refuse clients on those parameters but can still perform my job without sexual attraction. Are you telling me and the rest of the board that you are sexually attracted to 100% of your clients?
I am happy you got out when it was too much for you. No I don't need a break. I have a small group of great guys I see that make this quite easy and lucrative.
If I don't like someone fir any reason I don't session, so, yes, I am attracted to 100% of my clients. I'm very low volume, and I don't make appointments with anyone I don't feel can dominate me without me letting go and giving complete control. From there, it is a matter of complete submission, and the parameters are defined by them so long as they keep me physically safe. I couldn't session more than twice a month because I need time to heal from injuries, but I definitely wouldn't be doing this unless I was able to set up boundaries outside of sessions (almost no boundaries in seasion)that protected me from having to submit to anyone I dislike.
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She actually required a face-to-face meeting before she'd do a session with anyone. Because she wanted to know if her "date" could perform in a way that met her needs as well.
...in every profession with some responding more unfavorably than others, as in the attached customer/waitress story that made headlines.
(After the customer left, the waitress’s tip was less than 15%.
I can only imagine how lousy a hooker she would make, even if she weren't butt ugly.
I have to confess, there are a LOT of servers who get less than 15% from me, I don't hesitate for a minute, nor do I lose a single minute of sleep after "stiffing" a lousy wait staff employee.
OTOH, i am big on "overtipping" and often tip 30-40- even 50% or more for good or exceptional service, but give me lousy service and an entitled attitude and I won't leave one red cent.
On tipping wait staff (A general guideline):
10% poor to fair service
15% average service
20% + (and I can understand even over 50%) good to great to exceptional service
No tip; no service:
Or, lack of it. So I ask the bartender for another beer. The bartender isn’t busy but just keeps doing busy work cleaning. I’m waiting for what seems to be a longer wait than usual; it looks like he totally forgot that I had asked him for the beer. I’m thinking, okay you forgot; I’m leaving. Before I go, I leave exact change for tab. Then as he sees me leaving; he asks me if I’m all set?
So, the thing is if someone who works in the service industry, including escorts, is not on their game, it isn’t the customer’s fault.
I agree, I won’t lose sleep either over someone not doing their job in the restaurant industry, and there is the power of the tip. In the escort industry, there is what, the review/no repeat business
In this business, the time for bitterness is when guy’s STOP making sexual advances.