To new ladies I am trying to see:
5.5/5Obviously, clients use cites like TER to review providers and providers have access to see those reviews. I understand that there is also a cites where providers can review clients, like vh.
Is it possible for guys to see what, if anything, women see when screening - just as women see what we see on TER
I saw a lovely TER member this morning and I'd love to give the guy a great review somewhere because he made this work seem not like work at all. On the other hand I was contacted just before his arrival by a total creep who, if you google his phone number all kinds of bad things pop up about his lying and how he's ripped girls off (including me) before and to avoid him like the plague. I'd like to write a review of both men and boy would they be different!!,
Some providers use blacklist sites to screen potential clients but they're not a place to talk about who's great in bed, or the size of his penis, or silly stuff. It's to find out if they rip off/habitually cancel/threaten/physical abuse/rape/attempt BBFS etc. Not all blacklist sites are created equal and the providers know the ones which are intended for our safety. The reputable sites are for internal use only.
Most are nothing but a place for a gal (and in some cases guys who infiltrate a BL site) to post nonsense about some guys.
Pretty much the equivalent of the BL sites that guys use to BL the gals.
It's unfortunate that both sides have destroyed any integrity that something like those sites could have provided.
Most know that anything on those sites is of little...to no value. Be careful with them LOL
There are angry guys who write fake or unwarranted mean reviews to get revenge on providers, and there are providers who are pissed off at a guy for whatever reason and blacklist them for something trivial. But there are times that the system really works and avoids something terrible. For example, a guy who is blacklisted countless times for forcefully raping providers without a condom recently contacted me. I checked him on BL and saw his rap-sheet. But unfortunately a lot of girls report the incident AFTER instead of checking a guy out before. Most providers know to take a BL for something like showing up late with a grain of salt.
Also, some BL sites are accessible by Google and accept payment from a guy to remove his info. Everyone knows that is BS. No one I know would ever do business with a site that posts a guys info publicly or doesn't even allow a provider to remove her own words. The reputable sites are for internal use only as mentioned. We can edit or remove our notes at any time and there's no payment involved to do so.
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Now that's a guy that is a total piece of sh t.
I trust you realize that word around these parts tends to travel quickly LOL
A little feedback could help some guys sharpen their game like maybe he's not aware that his breath is atrocious or that she really would appreciate it if he asked before attempting to reenact a scene from "Deep Throat"
Is it possible for guys to see what, if anything, women see when screening - just as women see what we see on TER?
I actually considered doing it myself as I think it's a great idea. A well-known provider here in NYC I believe told me it might be in the works for maybe next year but who knows for sure.
In the spirit of it, I have created my own sorta rating along the same categories as TER to send to ladies when scheduling. So far it's been well received even by those I currently know that I bounced off my copy to. I didn't bother with a Juicy Details section, just the drop down menu part. And trust me I tried to be as honest as possible in all aspects and not overinflated anything. It's going to be a permanent part of my contact with the ladies before meeting during screening.
Then let the gals (anonymously, of course) respond to the accuracy of our self-review.
Just numbers please, don't want to give away too much. Standard looks/performance order.
I'll start mine off:
7/8
Who else is game?
0/10. They scream the whole time so I must be doing something right.
7/7....but with my tongue, I'm a 7/9 (that's my story and I'm stickin' to it)
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To new ladies I am trying to see:
5.5/5
... I think it's fair because most providers and many other women (and some guys) tell me I could be a fitness model. I'm not going to be rude and tell them they need an eye exam. The 7 is because I get many compliments on my kissing and my massage technique, including tongue massage 
but I'm no spring chicken any more.
Have been told that I am above average, however most of the responses from providers that I have seen, really "light up" when they see and comment on how tall I am (6'4").... 7 on performance and trying to improve by being in the hobby!