It's silly because we're all in the same industry just trying to make a living.

Yes, and...

I don't go back after. It is one thing to say something if asked, but just to be a snob, no thanks. I wouldn't ever have responded to her request to see her.

Generally, I won't see her again if she gets petty like that.

I don't give them a chance because I am on to business at hand when I am with a provider.

It's not just the girls... It's the guys too...

Have heard the guys gossiping about other hobbyist and no not just the circle jerk comments they post about each other on the boards! LOL! When the gossip becomes unsavory and harming, I just get to fuckin and suckin, no sense in starting some rumored BS and ruin my day! Girls vent about other girls, guys vent about other guys. Real or fake, I have my own opinions and only base it by my truth and not someone else's. At the end of the day, I don't live and breathe the hobby, so say whatever I probably don't even want to hear it and when I do, I take it with a grain of salt.

I can understand not trusting the gents references due to the references having a weak online presence (i.e. no website, lack of reviews, no paid ads, lack of screening protocol, typical things that take time to build up). However, I wouldn't feel a lack of trust due to pay range (unless its something like $50 quickies...which would indicate that she markets to a completely different group of clientele). Nor would a lack of top ranking status cause me to lack trust, because ranking doesn't correlate with safety.

Here are my honest thoughts. Playing devils advocate for lack of better words.

Sometimes guys want to try something new and end up being less satisfied than the guys that focus on one type of girl. Looking out for gents that are "experimenting" is usually a lady's intention when they are analyzing the type of girls you have met before. Not saying whether or not it is good practice because I'm only attempting to provide an analytical response and tap into her intentions.

That may have been the lady's goal, but she didn't communicate her conclusion professionally.  

Regarding her behavior, I will just say that lady's see so much in the business that they don't keep it professional consistently. Being in the top 10 of the country, a lady may even think that she doesn't have to. Not justifying it, again just analyzing. Due to many factors, we ladies sometimes prematurely sum guys up when being more patient would reveal that the guy isn't the type that we think he is

In Orlando I had set up a few dates for successive nights. The first one started ragging on her local competition. Turns out she was the lowlife, not the "sluts" she was ragging on.

often about either other girls (good and bad) or the fact that it is hard to find well reviewed girls in both the areas I go to.  

I simply say that yes there is limited number of well review gals compared to other cities, but the ones who are I have heard good things about, as I have about touring providers that stop in. I do not talk about specific girls or complain/join in the conversation. Works well to keep the time together with him going smoothly.

Had a guy one time have some not nice things to say about someone local I pm. I am not getting in the middle of it, nor am I going to go repeat it... but I did tell him that I do converse with her and my impression is that she is a very nice gal. That stopped his talking about the subject quick. lol

girl 2 (a southern white protestant) was a cold fish, based on what other guy had said to her.  I told her though that 2 was remarnkbly  just didnt do greek,