My wife caught me with my ATF. Then we went into 6 months of counseling and she caught me with my ATF's recommendation. Now we are in a divorce. I am screwing my wife left and right as I want to win. Why do I have to lose just because I chose this lifestyle? People are telling me to man up. I cannot -- she cannot have my life due to my choices. I am happy hobbying. Who cares about her? She still cries. I feel like a man, not a mouse, and have had so much fun. I just won't lose. What do you all think --sociopathic or what
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Come on dude, if you are going to be a troll, at least be a clever troll. Where's RTucky when you need him?
He just gave me a headache Gambler. I just got rid of one and now it came back. What a crappy troll. At least troll better.
Feeding the troll: Seriously any guy who breaks his vows, gets caught, doesn't have any feelings of how she'd feel about it.... and you want her to get screwed some more? If you hated her so much, then you should have gotten a divorce. You don't got to be nasty and do whatever you can to make sure she gets nothing. There is no guy that posts here that would ever go as far as you posted. They would all still have some consideration for her and feel bad/some sympathy. If you ever read their posts on here, they still show they give a crap about SO or Wife. Yes, I do think you hit your head.
There is a huge difference between being married/having a SO you love or care about and hobbying vs your stupid troll post filled with hate.
***Speaking to OP, not Gambler lol.
This one isn't in Urban Dictionary.
I figured out the first three: "to stupid to"
What are the other two?
Come on dude, if you are going to be a troll, at least be a clever troll. Where's RTucky when you need him?
1. Did you want to get caught ?
2. What did you do to get caught ? Many people do this for years and never get caught, unless someone outs them to their wives (there was major drama in the Atlanta area a few years ago, one guy was in in 70s).
3. What have you learned about covering your tracks so next time you won't get caught ?
Do what is best for you. Don't be so vindictive because Karma can be a bitch. I know a family where several generations had divorces. Both the son and the father got put away years in jail for taking the gun that the wife pointed at them and ended up years in jail 15 years each for assaulting the wives with the guns. What ever you do make sure the weapons are out of the house.
Would buy into this morons drivel.
Once I get your email I'll send you instruction on how to get me my non-refundable retainer of $ 500,000.
I promise you won't regret this.
I also have a brother who is looking for some help in getting our father's fortune brought into the US. Our father is a very famous Nigerian King (hence my brother and I are prince's).
Sincerely,
Prince Akeem
he had a prenup. She now signed it way before he blew up. She agreed to 5 grand a month if they break up.
I laugh my ass off at the majority of the population that feel the wifie or soon too be x wifie deserves some dude money whom is all set with her.
I laugh cuz i think the guys are idiots, Why would you EVER do anything that means if you happen to decide, you simply are all set with this person, which can happen.People change and people grow apart. Or for me I would get bored and miss the hustle and miss the money and the ego boost this gives me the power. The freedom to make your own hours and stuff.
I think the whole concept of actually having to pay some one you breaking apart from for the rest your life! Some of our customs and traditions as a society in smerican culture to me i feel like i may be like part alien or something cuz to me I have no clue how oaying some one you dont wanna be in a reklationship with is right.
it seems super unfair to me, I think they should do away with it.
No your not sociopathic. Your a memebr of the animal kingdom after all. We are human being and we belong to the animal kingdom at the end of the day and mens and some women too like me have a hard time not straying.I for one never had success with monogamy, I like craved that sneaking and that attention I would get from a new found lover that is all gaga over me, The comfort zone one falls into in a ltr.
it always depressede me, But yet i d fall into love and be stuck with some one i would love em so much, but that excitement with the new person, I am like so many un faithful hobbyist because I was unfaithful in every relationship i ever made an honest attempt at. I get it, i get that urge to be the special new and exciting one to some one, to feel appreciated and some the guys dont feel they are appreciated any more things have become almost too comfortable.
I think relationships and each individual is so deep and has so many layers to them as an individual. Your getting addicted to the happiness the excitement is in the new fling for you, Your only human, it happens,
I dont think its a character defect or personality disorder of any type i just think humans are complicated, we behave in all types of ways,
I dont see the issue with not wanting her to get a ton your shit and your money that to me, i never thought that aspect is fair.
I think if your gettin a divorce and no longer wanna take care this man sexually emotionally or nurturing ways like caring for him in the home.
then fuckin walk away, and leave the dude alone, and go find your own way , go give some bjs like the rest us single bachelorettes do to make godam ends meet, toughen the fuck up!
no one should get screwed financially cuz they dont wanna be with the other person thats what i cal; some one being vindictive.
and or just helpless like they need all your money cuz they cant make thier own, no one should have to oat some one after a break up that whole law/rule/ is assinine !
guys got shit to say bout hookers but at least we say what we want financially outright, we dont play games then get sick your ass then screw you over for every oenny just cuz we are a miserable bitch and we can.
i thibnk this is where hookers should be given a tad more props and respect , we tell you what we will do and we tell you how much we want from ya,
theres no games .
Divorce her, it sounds like the divorce is your fault, but no matter. Do it, get it over with, and then jump in the hobby with both feet. Come on in, the water's fine, lol.
I for one, have never looked back.
By the way, the reason divorce is so expensive is...wait for it......
It's worth it!
Create yourself, and stop worrying.
If you want to tell your wife to go and fuck herself, and play with escorts?
More power to you! I'll say yay to that.
Rip your jeans, and take you cock out!
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You in recovery? Hey go have fun, but expect to pay for going outside the marriage with all the earning you made. Not saying women should take you, but seriously I am going to say she was owed some of that.
If you want to tell your wife to go and fuck herself, and play with escorts?
More power to you! I'll say yay to that.
Rip your jeans, and take you cock out!
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Wow...whoever told you to man up gave you the best advice. You did something behind her back that you knew would hurt her if you she found out. Every married man takes that risk when he hobbies. It isn't your "lifestyle", it's the fact that we were married to a woman that isn't hobby friendly. You knew it and chose to take that risk. You got caught twice. You are responsible for the choices you made.
Trying to purposely choose to screw your wife, or any human being isn't what normal, happy, healthy people do. At the end of the day you're purposely making the choice to continue to hurt someone you already deeply hurt.
I think you could use some humble pie and personal responsibility. You can't hide from Karma.
If you da man you should easily be able to figure out a way to keep her and continue to hobby. That way you can continue to make her miserable for the rest of her life while you bang away.
"Sarcasm Alert" because so many here can't figure that out on their own.