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Ridgetucky2141 reads

I love that term (never did).  All the cool teenagers are putting it in their twitter accounts:)

Anyway, a couple of days ago I put out a notice on the OH board that I was looking for a Provider.

So I get a PM from a Provider wanting to know if I was still looking.  I PMed her back the following:

1.  I contacted you before (like 2 years ago) and she stated she did not date AA men (no problem comes with the territory) ((DO NOT POST STUPID SHIT ABOUT HER CHOICE - THIS POST IS NOT ABOUT THAT))

2.  So while I am still looking our interests are not compatible (I found a ready and willing Provider who meets all of my needs)  

3.  She PMs back OK sorry about that. No harm no foul.  RT is off to enjoy wife's Sunday dinner.

4.  5 hours later I get another PM stating that she is now willing to get together.

WTF Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  So this chick must have lost some $$$$$ at the casino and now it's acceptable to FUCK a Black guy because yo sorry ass can't pay the rent:(

Really and people call me an asshole.  The hypocrisy of some of these chicks NEVER ceases to amaze me.

R

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wrps07605 reads

I saw posting stating all men should boycott providers to show them who is in charge as a way to fight racism in the hobby.  Some providers are taking that no blackmen allowed off their ads. I saw on another board some white guys stated that they avoid providers like that because they are bait and switch.

She has had a revenue hit and needs the money.

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Ridgetucky504 reads

you have a 90% chance of getting ripped off!!!!!!!!

RT

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OldTraveler300 reads

When does the boycott start that forces men to see ladies of different ethnic groups?  I suspect there are at least as many men with a "no AA women" rule, but is that acceptable in this business?  I never see any outcry about it, so is a racial bias OK for men but not women?  Just asking.

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OldTraveler219 reads

but I think it highlights that the question of personal preference is not as simple as some would make it out to be (on either side of the argument).

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Dr Who revived540 reads

Fried chicken?

Posted By: Ridgetucky
I love that term (never did).  All the cool teenagers are putting it in their twitter accounts:)  
   
 Anyway, a couple of days ago I put out a notice on the OH board that I was looking for a Provider.  
   
 So I get a PM from a Provider wanting to know if I was still looking.  I PMed her back the following:  
   
 1.  I contacted you before (like 2 years ago) and she stated she did not date AA men (no problem comes with the territory) ((DO NOT POST STUPID SHIT ABOUT HER CHOICE - THIS POST IS NOT ABOUT THAT))  
   
 2.  So while I am still looking our interests are not compatible (I found a ready and willing Provider who meets all of my needs)    
   
 3.  She PMs back OK sorry about that. No harm no foul.  RT is off to enjoy wife's Sunday dinner.  
   
 4.  5 hours later I get another PM stating that she is now willing to get together.  
   
 WTF Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  So this chick must have lost some $$$$$ at the casino and now it's acceptable to FUCK a Black guy because yo sorry ass can't pay the rent:(  
   
 Really and people call me an asshole.  The hypocrisy of some of these chicks NEVER ceases to amaze me.  
   
 RT  
   
 

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GaGambler498 reads

but you are a troll with a sense of humor. Thanks for showing these amateur trolls how it's done.

And I love me some "shrimp and grits" but I am having me some crawfish tonight, five pounds and one bottle of wine down, five more pounds and another bottle of wine to go. (oh yeah, and a pound or so of chicken gizzards boiled in the same water to boot)

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Ridgetucky331 reads

swamps of Louisiana mud food shit.

I stick with chicken/waffles, shrimp/grits, collard greens/cornbread, banana puddin' wash down with a tall sweatin' glass of ol Coca-Cola.

Then I pull out me banjo and play a good fiddlin tune whiles we sang and dance and dance and sang alls the nights long

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TheHoundOfCullin249 reads

Just sayin'

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SoftlySarah376 reads

I love collard greens southern soul-food style! So lucky to live in FL where I get plenty. :) I also love fried catfish.

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Dr Who revived336 reads

Then you'll have a really fun OP to throw on the boards.

Seedless watermelon?

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inicky46346 reads

Congratulations, Einstein!

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missariarocchi482 reads

Just like we do.

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Ridgetucky569 reads

When I reminded her of her policy regarding AA men she said OK sorry.

Several hours later she wanted to know if I was still looking.

So obviously she needed/wanted my $$$$ more than she believed in her policy.

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Dr Who revived713 reads

You've lost your audience.

You need some new material.  Hammering on NBA is so 2014  LOL

Posted By: Ridgetucky
When I reminded her of her policy regarding AA men she said OK sorry.  
   
 Several hours later she wanted to know if I was still looking.  
   
 So obviously she needed/wanted my $$$$ more than she believed in her policy.

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TheHoundOfCullin414 reads

BwahHhahaha.
Where's London?

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mtndewking2016297 reads

She taking a real chance of finding the AA guy provider worry about and hurt her just because she a picks and chooses.

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AlexandraMilw424 reads

I am seriously hurt that you can't seem to up your game. In fact, you were so horrible you reported your own last OP to be taken down.

I mean, shit, I had a bet with a few ladies that you are actually a nice guy but just a dumb ass troll on here. I lose money, I am pegging your butt for it.

You are losing out of favorite troll of the year

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Ridgetucky266 reads

I stand behind my assessment of Providers.

And believe it or not I am actually a nice guy:)

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beccablossoms377 reads

I get it...either she sees AA men or not.  It's not about racism, it's about her changing her mind.  If you take the time to contact a provider the least you deserve is honesty.  If she doesn't see AA men, the all mighty dollar shouldn't change that.  Obviously you respect her choice regardless.

You are a human being and don't deserve to be anyone's last choice or fall back plan.  If this is the way this provider treats her clients, move on and leave the rest to Karma.  She can't decide if she likes the color you are, can't be straight with you and obviously can't keep her own business in order.  YOU deserve better.

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Posted By: beccablossoms
I get it...either she sees AA men or not.  It's not about racism, it's about her changing her mind.  If you take the time to contact a provider the least you deserve is honesty.  If she doesn't see AA men, the all mighty dollar shouldn't change that.  Obviously you respect her choice regardless.  
   
 You are a human being and don't deserve to be anyone's last choice or fall back plan.  If this is the way this provider treats her clients, move on and leave the rest to Karma.  She can't decide if she likes the color you are, can't be straight with you and obviously can't keep her own business in order.  YOU deserve better.

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HectorBlack367 reads

There are so many different reasons for the no BLACK guy stuff. At the beginning and end of the day, who gives a bonkey! Some of it's pure racism, some of its lack of experience being around black guys, some of its outside eyes and desires (pimps, white clients, hate group affiliations), AND some of if it's personal tastes by the provider from merely their own perspective or wishes. Like not being attracted to black guys, lol. Real shit. Any one of the above could indeed change genuinely or change due to "business expansion" efforts. Ones base of potential clients sorta speak.

As far as talking about its racism only, look around and see how many black providers have "do not see black guys" on their ads!! Quite a many.  

Please stop saying African Americans unless you're willing to start calling whiteys European Americans. Thanks.  

A troll I'm not but I trolled this thread. Smh again at some of the asinine stuff I read. Wish some of you tools would think before you come out into the world to coexist. Nevermind, don't. It's so entertaining. Ty.

Carry On!

Posted By: Ridgetucky
I love that term (never did).  All the cool teenagers are putting it in their twitter accounts:)  
   
 Anyway, a couple of days ago I put out a notice on the OH board that I was looking for a Provider.  
   
 So I get a PM from a Provider wanting to know if I was still looking.  I PMed her back the following:  
   
 1.  I contacted you before (like 2 years ago) and she stated she did not date AA men (no problem comes with the territory) ((DO NOT POST STUPID SHIT ABOUT HER CHOICE - THIS POST IS NOT ABOUT THAT))  
   
 2.  So while I am still looking our interests are not compatible (I found a ready and willing Provider who meets all of my needs)    
   
 3.  She PMs back OK sorry about that. No harm no foul.  RT is off to enjoy wife's Sunday dinner.  
   
 4.  5 hours later I get another PM stating that she is now willing to get together.  
   
 WTF Seriously!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  So this chick must have lost some $$$$$ at the casino and now it's acceptable to FUCK a Black guy because yo sorry ass can't pay the rent:(  
   
 Really and people call me an asshole.  The hypocrisy of some of these chicks NEVER ceases to amaze me.  
   
 RT  
   
 

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GaGambler326 reads

Well except to poke fun at friends. I have a very good Bahamian friend, I call her "African American" just to piss her off, as she is neither African nor American.

I will admit that most "No AA men" stems from racism. I support the individual right to be racist, after all "her body, her choice on who she wants to fuck", but let's be honest, most NBA policies are racist, let's at least call it out for what it is.

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HectorBlack333 reads

As far as the second, I understand your point but some times it's not. It's just not. A lot of times yes imo too but not as much as some people would like to make it out to be. My other reasons are indeed some and do not equal a racist mindset by the provider. A lot more than some people think is my point. I won't get into the percentages because it's pointless without a scientific study but I won't necessarily disagree with you about the most. Now it also depends on what you call racism or how you define it. People have their different interpretations and definitions for it.

Your thoughts are appreciated though Gambler. Really are. Have a good one.

Posted By: GaGambler
Well except to poke fun at friends. I have a very good Bahamian friend, I call her "African American" just to piss her off, as she is neither African nor American.  

I will admit that most "No AA men" stems from racism. I support the individual right to be racist, after all "her body, her choice on who she wants to fuck", but let's be honest, most NBA policies are racist, let's at least call it out for what it is.

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balljointnut243 reads

Now I have to hear about it here as well? Respect her wishes and move on.

As far as the hypocrisy RT speaks of...well, he's right. Nevertheless, either fuck her or don't. Put on your Big Boy pants and make a choice.

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