I suppose but you should define your perspective of credibility. What to you is credible here if not multiple whitelists, reviews, post history or 411 OKs? I just am curious why you would have commented that he has "zero credibility" because if you don't find that credible what are these forums for?
And my last comment was tongue in cheek. The consensus here seems to be he was in the wrong so I was making light by poking fun at the "she who has the pussy makes the rules" attitude as well as guys really never know what they may be getting into because as we know reviews are skewed, manipulated as well as fabricated while TER conveniently leaves a loop hole where "no meeting = no review" so ladies can book and cancel with little or no repercussion unless the gents area has these comments... "So we each take info from this: buyer beware and every seller (provider) can change the date at her will for ANY reason so guys, be sure to not be graphic or rude or "pushy" or too eager." To the OP: are you part of the guys board here? I suggest in future commenting there to potentially avoid these kind of reactions. That forum is good for informing and warning others who are as active as you seem to be. To all posting here: I really have no dog in this fight other than me being (still) baffled as to there reaction/response and to chime in about no meeting means no review thus TER reviews don't prove (or disprove) someone being a canceler or flake or whatnot.I am trying to be objective but find my own experiences show me that this situation could have been avoided and resulted in a great time for them both together. That may be why my comments sound frustrated or annoyed... I just wish there was more communication (on both sides maybe) so each party could be comfortable and confident with their arranged date... and made it happen! Namaste
I will say I'm both surprised and disappointed in the verbiage you chose for that final thought/comment.
I'll rehash this one time.
Spoke after having made a date a week beforehand.
Agreed after she took a few days to meet Feb 14th 10 pm
2 hours in Seattle, her base of business. Agreed to a Sunday
morning 90-120 minutes together unless Saturday night wasn't a mix.
I flew to clients Saturday V-Day and landed 45 minutes early!
Text Chloe I'm available for 90-120 early if she wishes but at least to
advise I'm in town as planned without winter delays. She says no,
unavailable. No problem. Client dinner ends 8:20! Texted Chloe if she likes
I'm an hour early. She texts, "you're very pushy aren't you?" WHAT?!
1 minute later texts "I'll meet you at 10 pm as agreed in the lobby"
30 seconds later, "I'm uncomfortable and do not want to see you"
End of story. I have 32 oks on p411 and plenty of history on TER and was
polite, considerate and had looked forward to our dates. I think she is WHACKED
and she isn't hot so no big loss. Good news though, I met a civvie beauty queen and had
the time of my life!
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"And she isn't hot, no big loss"???? Then why did you book with her in the first place.
Shit happens, move on
Spoke after having made a date a week beforehand.
Agreed after she took a few days to meet Feb 14th 10 pm
2 hours in Seattle, her base of business. Agreed to a Sunday
morning 90-120 minutes together unless Saturday night wasn't a mix.
I flew to clients Saturday V-Day and landed 45 minutes early!
Text Chloe I'm available for 90-120 early if she wishes but at least to
advise I'm in town as planned without winter delays. She says no,
unavailable. No problem. Client dinner ends 8:20! Texted Chloe if she likes
I'm an hour early. She texts, "you're very pushy aren't you?" WHAT?!
1 minute later texts "I'll meet you at 10 pm as agreed in the lobby"
30 seconds later, "I'm uncomfortable and do not want to see you"
End of story. I have 32 oks on p411 and plenty of history on TER and was
polite, considerate and had looked forward to our dates. I think she is WHACKED
and she isn't hot so no big loss. Good news though, I met a civvie beauty queen and had
the time of my life!
-- Modified on 5/3/2015 8:31:39 AM
-- Modified on 5/3/2015 12:18:14 PM
You texted her not once, but twice, to see if she wanted to see you early.
The second time you texted was even after she informed you that she wouldn't be available until the agreed upon time in her first response?
If that's what you did, you really have no justification to complain. With all this experience you have, you should have really known better than to ask twice. If you showed up at that agree to upon time, then you wouldn't be complaining. Doesn't matter how many reviews you have or OKs on P411, she doesn't know you. If she felt like you were pushy just in communications, she most likely would have been worried about your behavior behind closed doors.
And that last statement - she isn't so hot? Then why did you opt to want to met her? Sounds very childish, like a spoiled kid who didn't get what he wanted
He was hoping she would have time earlier not demanded to meet earlier
H hoped an hour early might work in this case no
But why cancel on someone which MANY ok's on P411 simply for wanting to see you and hoping earlier may work?
Sorry, but this would not be concerning to me but flattering.
I suppose since I see only one date per day it's not as big of a deal but perhaps she had other lovers lined up and chose to pass because she herself was irritated or whatnot? Maybe she could post here and shed some light on her choices? She clearly has an account but perhaps she is not in control of it? Booker/manager? Whatever the problem is - I personally see nothing wrong with the communication on his end. I like my dates to be eager!
The way I read his response was she had already informed his that she couldn't met him earlier than the agreed to time. So the second text wasn't going to alter her previous response.
From my own experience, I am guilty of being punctual. I'll factor in traffic to my commute time. Sometimes I'm early. I'll let them know I've arrived, but leave it up to them if they to see me sooner than our planned time
Dear OP: can you give more details... your post seems to have been translated poorly.
of an untrustworthy or loonie provider in the event doubles or referrals matter.
Goldie is 100% correct there is nothing wrong with a Winter traveler alerting a 2 two hour date provider of landing in her city without weather dealy and that more fun time is available as well as alerting the provider who knew of a client dinner that could go OVERTIME indeed the dinner and appointment ended earlier by an hour, more fun time?!
To be shut out was a blessing and quite frankly if you look at the ladies I reviewed the past 3 years they are almost ( or were at the time ) gorgeous. CM isn't the same caliber but I was in the mood for low key. Seattle isn't exactly NY Miami Beach LA or Paris.
You obviously have seen some great girls but just because a girl is not from one of the areas you mentioned does not mean they are beneath others and I have seen some great girls in the Seattle area.
I feel for you but it just sounded a little rude in the end.
Only words from many years of observation & experience. There are some terrific ladies in Seattle but relatively speaking very few. If Asians, native Americans, eskimo and overweight ladies are your taste then get up there asap, plenty of restaurants too, More dining and drinking establishments per capita than any city in America.
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Did you make a wrong turn? Everyone knows to avoid Houston at all costs right lol. And I have no problem with you calling things as you see them but as you said there are diamonds in the rough!
I had a GREAT weekend without her and the point is to use this forum to expose the unreviewable and alert those whom the information may provide an opportunity to see you rather than waste their time. Judging by your comment you are a waste of time too. BLOCKED
If he's being pushy or rude, or if I feel a little annoyed or angry with the potential client, I certainly will cancel the appointment. I find it impossible to be intimate with someone I'm not feeling 100% good about.
If this provider canceled a pre-booked appointment with a client with 30 okays, I suspect she had a reason for it. Even if she just wasn't 100% sure about you at the time, that's all it takes for me to cancel someone, too. I think women are different from men in that way.
She's probably 100% sure now!
If this lady doesn't want to see you because she thinks you are pushy, I would seriously take that into consideration if you tried to book an appointment with me, now that I'm aware of it. I wouldn't see this as an opportunity for me to possibly snag an appointment with you, myself, but as a possible red flag.
Usually someone with that many okays or whitelisting is a client I'd want very much to see, but I have seen a couple who turned out to be disrespectful in some way. We can't always tell that someone is going to be good because of how many "okays" they have
Odd statement & he still wanted to book. Sounds, like everything happens for great reasons. Not sure why he would post hate if he found a beauty queen...get over it. Your not hurting this providers business. No one, likes catering to jerks. When they are rude & pushy. Regardless of how many Okay's, or whitelists you have that gives you no right to think your better, than the rest.
I have nothing to say. I just wanted to be part of the longest thread I've seen for a long time.
Odd statement & he still wanted to book. Sounds, like everything happens for great reasons. Not sure why he would post hate if he found a beauty queen...get over it. Your not hurting this providers business. No one, likes catering to jerks. When they are rude & pushy. Regardless of how many Okay's, or whitelists you have that gives you no right to think your better, than the rest.
Some things are better left unsaid. Seems some people don't know how to move on. Sorry about all this negative publicity Chloe, there are a lot of us who are respectful, hope you had a nice visit despite all the squabble.
JB