We'll never experience any fellowship in our church, but we don't have to get dressed up and pretend to like each other either. What a bunch of fucking hypocrites.
The only thing I'm in any hurry to do on Sunday is to get to my favorite breakfast spot before church lets out.Lately, I have received missed calls (no voice message) so I don't bother calling back.
Would hate to put that person in a compromising position.
Then the "Text" with the words "Are you available?"
Who are you?
Where did you get my number?
Not even a brief introduction? Hello? you contacted me.
hmm. I was raised to Identify myself and then ask to speak with so and so...
Has this changed?
What makes a man do that?
Do these men think were Pizza delivery? Or crack heads, or plain working girls?
Perhaps they got cold feet, and changed their mind?
Maybe, just maybe "Buddy" (down south) was doing the thinking? lol.
Either way, that seems inconsiderate.
Or how many of you men have done this before? Be honest! It is what it is.
I'm sure it has happen to other ladies.
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That is why you should save the phone in the address with the guys name in it. I know many claim that don't do that, but that is not what I am seeing with texts in the middle in of night and random calls from providers I have seen before. I will see this that once you all have been with a few times (our souls get connected) you seem to know when send the text. One time I got one as I was leaving the gym at 10:00 pm. Another time I was in church and a provider called me up. I had to hurry up and hide the phone because her image came up on my smart phone. I now put the phone in airplane mode when I am in church lol.
yet she's the guilty party here, Ok got it.
What a fucking maroon, or is that a "moran"???
I can think of a much better fix for this,
Quit attending church, your dumb ass is NOT going to be saved.
"morAn" seems to be correct on TER.
I belong to the Church of Sleeping in Late on Sundays and I highly recommend it.
What a fucking maroon, or is that a "moran"???
I can think of a much better fix for this,
Quit attending church, your dumb ass is NOT going to be saved.
I'd still rather skip the middle man, and pay the providers directly.
We'll never experience any fellowship in our church, but we don't have to get dressed up and pretend to like each other either. What a bunch of fucking hypocrites.
The only thing I'm in any hurry to do on Sunday is to get to my favorite breakfast spot before church lets out.
Who said, I don't have my friends names save? Of course under a name i know.. lol....
It's not good to call the gent unless, its the day of the date.
See what I mean? there's a time frame when to call a person. Usually between 9-3. NEVER after hours...
Hello, most men have a family.
Because you don't know who they are. Also unless you and him agree on text for future communication it should not be done.
What am I going to do with a text like that?
I agree it is insulting to get a note that just says "Are you available?" If they start out without any manners you know you don't want to be stuck in a room with them. Even if it for just an hour.
I agree Some people don't have any etiquette, that's no reason to feel insulted. I try to respond accordingly(per my interpretation) to the way a lady presents her self. However we are grown ups, and we know what the other party wants, so I wouldn't think of it as a big deal. I think the pleasantries are just for show any how. If you want a boyfriend to serenade you, find one and don't send him a bill.
Simply ignore the request you disapprove of and move on, guys will get the message.
I agree, "were grow ups" So why play games?
Exactly what I was referring too. Glad you get that...
I think it's funny. I don't carry myself like a Pizza delivery.
However, your comment about " serenading me" doesn't apply here. However, there are gents that appreciate us ladies for the quality of dates we provide. I love seeing these men. Even if its just a beautiful trade. In the end, we both benefit from each other.
Simply ignore the request you disapprove of and move on, guys will get the message.
I like your quote. I think it simply and perfectly sums up the the hobby in it's best and purest light. If we all kept this in mind the world would be a happier place lol. At least this world would
I like to be professional and to the point with my communications. Yes you are right a serenade does not belong here.
Just a guess... if they are texting you at a number they have not used before there could be a fear that they misread it and transposed some numbers so a bland note to get the ball rolling may be in their minds the safest thing they can think of. Of course, it's hard to think for other people. I prefer contacting via p411 as it takes any potential confusion like that out of play.
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and if that's the preferred method, or only method to reach a provider, I simply move on to the next lady on my list. You can't fix stupid and a hooker who only communicates through text in this day and age is TSTBW. IMO.
Now once we have been introduced, via P 411 for example as you suggest, then yes I don't mind communication via texting.
I would still discourage it after that has happened, any conversation can be had, in person the next time we meet.
yeah babe, but, its on here ;o(
I know ladies that only give it out after screening.
I checked your websites and you don't list a number there, so these guys must be getting it from:
1) TER review page, and that part is open to non-VIP
2) You two have already contacted through the phone so they have your number
3) They back-channeled to find your contact number
4) Totally mistaken dialing
Having TER remove your number and replacing it with the generic "555-555-1212" will put an end to the first group of people. You can submit a problem report to have it done. Might mention on your website that you don't want your number posted if guys do a review.
The second group should be a lot smaller and hopefully more discrete. The size of the third group is anyone's guess, but would imagine close to fourth group.
Now, as to WHY they do that? Manners and respect. Maybe they're drunk and it's an honest oversight or, more likely, that's just who they are all the time.
I give a number prior to meeting if a guy wants to call when he's near the incall. Sometimes they text randomly a year later to say hi, and I'm thinking, "Who the hell is this?" lol. No big deal. I rarely even turn the phone on anyway. If they're really interested in getting back in touch they can email.
Thanks for the advise.
I hope they take it down.
Or I'll just get another number 
Thanks everyone for your input
I've done it for a couple reasons. One, one of the first providers I tried to contact I used the number listed here, so I texted her asking if it was her and she stated it wasn't. In the event it was someone else with a new number and wasn't actually the provider it made me wary about leaving voice mails regarding any of my info over the phone to any providers I'm attempting to contact for the first time. Secondly, I don't know if they want no one to leave voice mails on there as I've seen some provider ads state they don't check voice mails.
Someone texted me the other day, and I had no idea who it was. Unless a have a name saved for someone, I probably won't recognize the number if the person doesn't identify themselves in the text.
I hadn't heard for the person for over 6 months. I had to say "Who are you'?
Steph xoxo
But with text on my hobby phone I do keep it brief because I'm just not very fast with the key pad.
This is why I strongly prefer P411 messaging or email for initial contact.